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How to "Fraud" Your Way to Success on Online Dating Apps – Guide
Welcome to "How to Fraud" where "fraud" means maximizing your online dating potential in ways most people don’t know. By applying these strategies, you'll effortlessly attract matches and improve your dating life significantly. Here’s a comprehensive breakdown:
1. Choose Your Platforms Wisely
Use Hinge, Bumble, and Tinder, but prioritize Hinge for quality over quantity. Hinge limits your likes, so matches tend to be more genuine and interested, saving you time and effort. Tinder is better for volume and practice, but mostly casual encounters.
2. Crafting Your Profile
- Upload 4 to 5 photos; one should be a cute childhood or pet photo to soften your image and make you more approachable.
- Avoid gym selfies or flaunting your physique. Instead, showcase your body subtly; let it be a background fact, not the focus. Confidence without arrogance is key.
- Skip showing off money or status. Don’t link your Instagram—it erodes your mystery, even if you have many followers.
- Use witty, brief, and genuine humor in your bio to appear human and non-intimidating. The better looking you are, the more humble and jokey you should be to avoid intimidating matches.
3. Height and Personal Info
Round your height slightly if needed (e.g., 179 cm to 5'11"), but don’t exaggerate to avoid being caught lying. Avoid potentially off-putting details like astrology signs or controversial topics. Keep your profile mysterious and inviting.
4. Swiping Strategy
- On Tinder, swipe liberally; many users seek validation rather than serious matches.
- On Hinge, be selective; only like profiles you’re genuinely interested in pursuing.
- When liking photos, choose the ones where she looks less “filtered” or vulnerable—this shows you appreciate her real self, not just her highlight reel, increasing the chances she'll respond positively.
5. Messaging Tactics
- Avoid generic greetings like “Hey.” Instead, use engaging openers such as:
- “Hey, B” (B for babe, beautiful, etc.)
- “My type”
- “I love your face” (use only if you’re confident in your appearance).
- These lines signal genuine interest and make you stand out from the shallow crowd.
6. Handling Replies and Follow-Ups
- If no response after the first message, wait 2-3 days before a light follow-up.
- If conversation stalls, try playful lines like: “Damn, I see how it is
” to show interest without desperation.
- Don’t fear double texting, especially if you’ve had some interaction already.
7. Keep Conversations Short and Mysterious
The goal is to build enough intrigue to transition to real-life meetings, not to reveal everything via text. Avoid deep or controversial topics. Use sarcasm and humor to create a fun, relaxed vibe. Emojis help convey tone and prevent misunderstandings.
8. Move Off the Dating App Quickly
Always ask for her **phone number**, not Instagram or Snapchat. Example:
“Let me get your number, I’m barely on here.”
This shows you value real connection and aren’t wasting time on the app. If she refuses, it’s likely not worth pursuing.
9. Phone and Video Calls
Calls break texting barriers and boost chemistry. Call regularly if she seems insecure; FaceTime if she’s confident. Avoid over-texting—only reply when necessary to maintain mystery and control. Using Snapchat can help gauge engagement without pressure.
10. **Setting Up the Date**
Ask indirectly about her availability:
“What days are you usually free?”
This question feels less intimidating and encourages honest answers. Only use this direct approach if you’re confident and sure she’s interested—otherwise, build rapport first.
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Final Advice:
Online dating is easy for naturally attractive (“Chad”) guys, but with these strategies, you can “fraud” your way to similar success by optimizing your profile, messaging smartly, and managing interactions to your advantage. Remember to keep ego aside, be genuine, humorous, and persistent without desperation. Practice, learn, and enjoy the process.
I would also recommend reading the game, it's a seduction book that can be found free on the internet. There are several things that could help you in in-person interactions.
Edit: English is not my first language so I used AI to translate it into English and try to do it as best as possible in English
Welcome to "How to Fraud" where "fraud" means maximizing your online dating potential in ways most people don’t know. By applying these strategies, you'll effortlessly attract matches and improve your dating life significantly. Here’s a comprehensive breakdown:
1. Choose Your Platforms Wisely
Use Hinge, Bumble, and Tinder, but prioritize Hinge for quality over quantity. Hinge limits your likes, so matches tend to be more genuine and interested, saving you time and effort. Tinder is better for volume and practice, but mostly casual encounters.
2. Crafting Your Profile
- Upload 4 to 5 photos; one should be a cute childhood or pet photo to soften your image and make you more approachable.
- Avoid gym selfies or flaunting your physique. Instead, showcase your body subtly; let it be a background fact, not the focus. Confidence without arrogance is key.
- Skip showing off money or status. Don’t link your Instagram—it erodes your mystery, even if you have many followers.
- Use witty, brief, and genuine humor in your bio to appear human and non-intimidating. The better looking you are, the more humble and jokey you should be to avoid intimidating matches.
3. Height and Personal Info
Round your height slightly if needed (e.g., 179 cm to 5'11"), but don’t exaggerate to avoid being caught lying. Avoid potentially off-putting details like astrology signs or controversial topics. Keep your profile mysterious and inviting.
4. Swiping Strategy
- On Tinder, swipe liberally; many users seek validation rather than serious matches.
- On Hinge, be selective; only like profiles you’re genuinely interested in pursuing.
- When liking photos, choose the ones where she looks less “filtered” or vulnerable—this shows you appreciate her real self, not just her highlight reel, increasing the chances she'll respond positively.
5. Messaging Tactics
- Avoid generic greetings like “Hey.” Instead, use engaging openers such as:
- “Hey, B” (B for babe, beautiful, etc.)
- “My type”
- “I love your face” (use only if you’re confident in your appearance).
- These lines signal genuine interest and make you stand out from the shallow crowd.
6. Handling Replies and Follow-Ups
- If no response after the first message, wait 2-3 days before a light follow-up.
- If conversation stalls, try playful lines like: “Damn, I see how it is
” to show interest without desperation.- Don’t fear double texting, especially if you’ve had some interaction already.
7. Keep Conversations Short and Mysterious
The goal is to build enough intrigue to transition to real-life meetings, not to reveal everything via text. Avoid deep or controversial topics. Use sarcasm and humor to create a fun, relaxed vibe. Emojis help convey tone and prevent misunderstandings.
8. Move Off the Dating App Quickly
Always ask for her **phone number**, not Instagram or Snapchat. Example:
“Let me get your number, I’m barely on here.”
This shows you value real connection and aren’t wasting time on the app. If she refuses, it’s likely not worth pursuing.
9. Phone and Video Calls
Calls break texting barriers and boost chemistry. Call regularly if she seems insecure; FaceTime if she’s confident. Avoid over-texting—only reply when necessary to maintain mystery and control. Using Snapchat can help gauge engagement without pressure.
10. **Setting Up the Date**
Ask indirectly about her availability:
“What days are you usually free?”
This question feels less intimidating and encourages honest answers. Only use this direct approach if you’re confident and sure she’s interested—otherwise, build rapport first.
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Final Advice:
Online dating is easy for naturally attractive (“Chad”) guys, but with these strategies, you can “fraud” your way to similar success by optimizing your profile, messaging smartly, and managing interactions to your advantage. Remember to keep ego aside, be genuine, humorous, and persistent without desperation. Practice, learn, and enjoy the process.
I would also recommend reading the game, it's a seduction book that can be found free on the internet. There are several things that could help you in in-person interactions.
Edit: English is not my first language so I used AI to translate it into English and try to do it as best as possible in English
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