How to get rid of my ego?

[ela67]

Despite being an extremely mad about my appearance, I feel like I have some weird inner force that makes me extremely picky. Whenever people would call someone cute or anything like that, I would be like "ewww...he/she may have other qualities, but being cute is not of them". Why do I do this despite not being attracted to conventionally attractive people? I am attracted to high ltns and mtns but specific ones. Others seem totally not my type. I don t want to reject people but this inner force makes me seem rude even tho I don t want to be. I am aware about my lack of looks, why is my ego so picky? Even about other girls...

 

[TonyDr]

Despite being an extremely mad about my appearance, I feel like I have some weird inner force that makes me extremely picky. Whenever people would call someone cute or anything like that, I would be like "ewww...he/she may have other qualities, but being cute is not of them". Why do I do this despite not being attracted to conventionally attractive people? I am attracted to high ltns and mtns but specific ones. Others seem totally not my type. I don t want to reject people but this inner force makes me seem rude even tho I don t want to be. I am aware about my lack of looks, why is my ego so picky? Even about other girls...

Prob insecure about your looks so you reject people before they reject you. It is unconscious

 

[ela67]

Sorry for the bad explanation...it is really hard to figure out why am I like this.

 

[ela67]

Prob insecure about your looks so you reject people before they reject you. It is unconscious

No one has rejected me yet. I reject them cuz I don t like them, not because of my own insecurity. I fear they consider me attractive actually

 

[Decay]

Narcy bitch

 

[ela67]

Narcy bitch

Learn the meaning of the word "bitch". It is unacceptable to call someone like this.

 

[nihilist]

ela my idol

 

[Decay]

Learn the meaning of the word "bitch". It is unacceptable to call someone like this.

Right, sorry ela.

 

[slopslinger]

Narcy bitch

 

[ela67]

This a recent "crush" I saw in a dizi btw...would prefer a 15 years younger version tho

Pls tell me he ain't htn tho

 

[slopslinger]

ur just a cycle path

 

[Deleted Member 61353]

It's not a bad thing don't change

 

[ela67]

It's not a bad thing don't change

But I don t deserve to be this picky...it makes no sense. Yes, I got great personality, but looks ain't part of it. I should be picky just personality wise

 

[Currycelloser]

But I don t deserve to be this picky...it makes no sense. Yes, I got great personality, but looks ain't part of it. I should be picky just personality wise

I don’t think u should stress on this tbh, high ego is good in a way, u won’t settle for less which is good

 

[ragnarok787]

I don’t think u should stress on this tbh, high ego is good in a way, u won’t settle for less which is good

High ego is one of the most unatrractive traits u can have shows insecurity

 

[ragnarok787]

U are just insecure as fuck ela and shallow narc self obssesed with her own existence. Find a doctor

 

[Currycelloser]

High ego is one of the most unatrractive traits u can have shows insecurity

Ego is very important wdym? Unattractive trait? If u don’t have self respect and ego u are doomed bud

 

[ragnarok787]

Ego is very important wdym? Unattractive trait? If u don’t have self respect and ego u are doomed bud

self confidence and self respect and ego are two difference things my guy

 

[ragnarok787]

@ela67 you know not being attracted to convetionally attractive people is definitely not one of your problems. You just have your specific type that u are attracted to and thats ok. Not much u can do about what u want to fuck. Your inner insecure self talk and being self obssed and never secure in your own looks is your problem. I LITERALLY NEVER SAW SELF OBSSESED WOMAN LIKE U