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yo girlsfemale friendships can turn toxic fast especially with jealousy competition looks status drama. blackpill truth: some "friends" smile to your face but hate your glow up resent your wins or just use you to feel better. if they secretly hate you it shows in subtle ways that make you feel like shit after hanging out. heres the real signs no sugar its probably toxic or hate if multiple hit
big red flags they might hate or resent you:
big red flags they might hate or resent you:
- backhanded compliments sting like "you look good for once" or "that dress hides your flaws well" or "wow you finally did something right". they cant just say nice shit without a dig
- silent or fake when you win go quiet no hype when you get a bf good grade glow up but clap hard when you fail or drama hits. jealousy cope they hate seeing you ascend
- exclude you lowkey dont invite to group stuff talk behind your back or suddenly distant when you set a boundary or succeed. they punish you by pulling away
- copy you hard but never credit steal your style phrases hobbies makeup looks then act like its theirs. classic envy monitoring you to stay ahead
- always make it about them your problems get dismissed their drama is endless. you listen support but they dip or change subject when its your turn. one sided taker energy
- gossip about you hear from others they trash talk your looks bf choices whatever. if they badmouth other "friends" to you they do it to you too
- make you feel drained anxious walking on eggshells after hanging out. good friends lift you toxic ones leave you doubting yourself insecure or exhausted
- passive aggressive guilt trips sarcasm "jokes" that hurt like roasting your insecurities then "just kidding chill". they test how much youll take
- threatened by your other friends try to isolate you or get jealous when you hang with others. possessive control vibe not real friendship
- never happy for you fake support but subtle sabotage like "advice" that holds you back or encouraging bad choices