Discussion how to make better friends

[bananarama]

last year I had such decent size party for my birthday (like 20-30 ppl all were my friends) and lwk the gifts I got were sad asf I don’t think I’ve ever felt less seen by people ik in my life

even though every year there’s different ppl I feel like the outcome is always the same I kinda need to lock in before my birthday comes up again in August

 

[gloomy]

last year I had such decent size party for my birthday (like 20-30 ppl all were my friends) and lwk the gifts I got were sad asf I don’t think I’ve ever felt less seen by people ik in my life

even though every year there’s different ppl I feel like the outcome is always the same I kinda need to lock in before my birthday comes up again in August

i've had the same issues of where it seems like you have a falling out with different friends each year and the rotation of people changes. you have to find people you truly bond with rather than having 20-30 mediocre friends. quality over quantity, those kinda people will see you and notice because they actually care