How to not be so boring

[Deleted Member 78476]

How do I fix this awful attribute
I thought I was in the green because I was dming some old friend then I turned the conversation into school work and applications when we could've talked about anything else
Then I started talking about interviews and then they just hearted my message
School is literally the only think I talk about right now to anyone its a real flaw because everyone is probably sick of it
Wow kill yourself this is bad

 

[Deleted Member 78476]

Just hang yourself​

 

[Penalizer69]

Get hobbies, ask questions

 

[Lost Ferry CEO]

How do I fix this awful attribute
I thought I was in the green because I was dming some old friend then I turned the conversation into school work and applications when we could've talked about anything else
Then I started talking about interviews and then they just hearted my message
School is literally the only think I talk about right now to anyone its a real flaw because everyone is probably sick of it
Wow kill yourself this is bad

Yo WTF are these threads g lock in

 

[Deleted Member 86515]

Just hang yourself​

No rad you can’t not be boring if you’re fucking dead

 

[Deleted Member 78476]

Get hobbies, ask questions

My hobbies are studying
I fell off

 

[Deleted Member 78476]

Yo WTF are these threads g lock in

wdym this is the exact same as all my other threads basically

 

[limo8]

dont do that

 

[Darkeningstar]

 

[Deleted Member 78476]

No rad you can’t not be boring if you’re fucking dead

I will be boring in my own peace

 

[Deleted Member 78476]

dont do that

it hurts

 

[Deleted Member 78476]

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keep it moving g

 

[Spideyhomie]

I used to feel this when I was younger too.
But I think of this from a different perspective now

 

[Deleted Member 78476]

I used to feel this when I was younger too.
But I think of this from a different perspective now

enlighten me on the perspective bro

 

[Spideyhomie]

enlighten me on the perspective bro

Look, the want to *fill in* free space is inherently a little needy and neurodivergent.
It’s hard to put it into words since most of it is subtly picking up on minute social cues.
But when you think in this manner, your conversation partner can see through your attempt and it puts you in an inferior position of sorts.
This kind of (but not really) makes them lose respect for you.
If a conversation ends then it ends.
Silence is a very powerful tool to build up suspense. Both in conversations and relationships

 

[Deleted Member 78476]

Look, the want to *fill in* free space is inherently a little needy and neurodivergent.
It’s hard to put it into words since most of it is subtly picking up on minute social cues.
But when you think in this manner, your conversation partner can see through your attempt and it puts you in an inferior position of sorts.
This kind of (but not really) makes them lose respect for you.
If a conversation ends then it ends.
Silence is a very powerful tool to build up suspense. Both in conversations and relationships

I wanted to keep talking to them tho I'm just too boring to have something interesting to say
Now the conversation is over its over anyways now

 

[TonyDr]

School is literally the only think I talk about right now to anyone its a real flaw because everyone is probably sick of it

Get hobbies, ask questions

This.
Angry @over0 is right you need to actually have a life to be able to talk about it to people with some passion. So find hobbies and fun things to do outside of school/work

Also ask questions but not doing it like an interview, be genuinely curious/interested by people's interests/hobbies/passions/values/struggles and they will open up.

 

[Deleted Member 78476]

This.
Angry @over0 is right you need to actually have a life to be able to talk about it to people with some passion. So find hobbies and fun things to do outside of school/work

Also ask questions but not doing it like an interview, be genuinely curious/interested by people's interests/hobbies/passions/values/struggles and they will open up.

I don't even have time for hobbies tbh if I want to keep my grades up I study and when I come home I just go on here instead of doing my old hobbies even before I joined here in my free time I'd just study if I wasn't on here I'd be studying I can't watch my grades slip
I've already fumbled him its too late now but I will remember ts

 

[David🦢]

My hobbies are studying
I fell off

Did you finish that big ass book?

 

[TonyDr]

I don't even have time for hobbies tbh if I want to keep my grades up I study and when I come home I just go on here instead of doing my old hobbies even before I joined here in my free time I'd just study if I wasn't on here I'd be studying I can't watch my grades slip
I've already fumbled him its too late now but I will remember ts

Hmm if i would need to choose between social life and school, i would choose focusing on school grades because depending what you wanna do later in life, it will be more enjoyable to have hobbies and create new friendships when you aren't broke

 

[Deleted Member 78476]

Did you finish that big ass book?

HELL NAH it was due today but my teacher forgot
I have started reading it though!

 

[Deleted Member 78476]

Hmm if i would need to choose between social life and school, i would choose focusing on school grades because depending what you wanna do later in life, it will be more enjoyable to have hobbies and create new friendships when you aren't broke

Yeah true, I kinda do have a social life sometimes but its not really a hobby going out tbh