how to not incel (talk to people / become more social)

[offmyself2k]

im 17m all i do is listen to metal and hxc and go to shows on the weekends. i like going out and meeting new people, i have the ambition to do so just have no idea of how to go about it. im a junior in hs and have 3 friends i talk to (i do have more “hallway friends” but i wouldnt even go as far as to have a real conversation with them.) the only time i become “social” is when im high (which wears off by the time i arrive to school) anyways enough bs how the fuck do i get out and make friends, talk and just become less of a loser in general???

 

[Molotongo]

Which bands are you listening brother

 

[nomi]

im 17m all i do is listen to metal and hxc and go to shows on the weekends. i like going out and meeting new people, i have the ambition to do so just have no idea of how to go about it. im a junior in hs and have 3 friends i talk to (i do have more “hallway friends” but i wouldnt even go as far as to have a real conversation with them.) the only time i become “social” is when im high (which wears off by the time i arrive to school) anyways enough bs how the fuck do i get out and make friends, talk and just become less of a loser in general???

going to shows is definitely gonna help, find a group of people (or one person) and try talking to them about music. maybe the convo will lead into something else and BOOM you find ppl you fw. easier said than done obviously but sometimes you js gotta put yourself out there and wish for the best.

since you do have 3 friends if you struggle with socializing with other people just stick to talking to them, it's better having a few genuine friends than a big ass group of people imo.

 

[Goev]

im 17m all i do is listen to metal and hxc and go to shows on the weekends. i like going out and meeting new people, i have the ambition to do so just have no idea of how to go about it. im a junior in hs and have 3 friends i talk to (i do have more “hallway friends” but i wouldnt even go as far as to have a real conversation with them.) the only time i become “social” is when im high (which wears off by the time i arrive to school) anyways enough bs how the fuck do i get out and make friends, talk and just become less of a loser in general???

basic hobbys and activitys dude

 

[offmyself2k]

Which bands are you listening brother

recon, shattered realm, irate , you lose, Swear to god , years spent cold, slime NW and just beatdown in general.

for metal i do more slam and core genres, Float face down , demolisher, HDMR, 50 cal and WATE,

tldr i love blast beats and chugs

EDIT bdm is the best