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PROBLEMS YOU MAY FACE DURING SOCIALIZING AND HOW TO FIX THEM:
Stuttering, Or mumbling over words - If you stutter because you're pondering on what sentences or words to say to the person you're conversating with, I suggest replying with a short word first so you have time to think about what you're gonna say.
EXAMPLE:
"I went to a party last night! It was fun!"
"Nice." (Short word)
"Who's party was it?" - Sentence to continue the conversation
Don't know how to approach people - Analyze the person first but don't seem like a creep. For example, Compliment something about them, Ask them something, Etc.
EXAMPLE:
"Hey, Your bag's design is really cute." - Compliment
"Aww thank you!"
Even if you don't end up conversating with the person you complimented, You still upgraded their views on you.
Don't know what to say - Do the y & x method.
EXAMPLE:
"I love (game / show / series / etc.)"
"Dude same."
"That reminds me of when I (Played / Watched / Indulged) that with a friend up to 3 am LOL." - You brought a memory / a topic relating to the current topic to the conversation, Making it so that the person has more stuff to say. The y & x method could have the words "This reminds me of", "I remember", & "Because"
Have social anxiety?
Get professional help, If you can't get professional help, Train yourself to do small forms of socialization day by day. You don't have to start big, You can take small steps per day.
EXAMPLE: You can post in forums, Give advice to people and share your own experience online, Get online friends and from time to time vc with them or facetime, Etc.
Stuttering, Or mumbling over words - If you stutter because you're pondering on what sentences or words to say to the person you're conversating with, I suggest replying with a short word first so you have time to think about what you're gonna say.
EXAMPLE:
"I went to a party last night! It was fun!"
"Nice." (Short word)
"Who's party was it?" - Sentence to continue the conversation
Don't know how to approach people - Analyze the person first but don't seem like a creep. For example, Compliment something about them, Ask them something, Etc.
EXAMPLE:
"Hey, Your bag's design is really cute." - Compliment
"Aww thank you!"
Even if you don't end up conversating with the person you complimented, You still upgraded their views on you.
Don't know what to say - Do the y & x method.
EXAMPLE:
"I love (game / show / series / etc.)"
"Dude same."
"That reminds me of when I (Played / Watched / Indulged) that with a friend up to 3 am LOL." - You brought a memory / a topic relating to the current topic to the conversation, Making it so that the person has more stuff to say. The y & x method could have the words "This reminds me of", "I remember", & "Because"
Have social anxiety?
Get professional help, If you can't get professional help, Train yourself to do small forms of socialization day by day. You don't have to start big, You can take small steps per day.
EXAMPLE: You can post in forums, Give advice to people and share your own experience online, Get online friends and from time to time vc with them or facetime, Etc.
