how to stop caring about what other people think

[fatfuckingchud]

my entire life is worrying about what other people think of me
i have created a new personality for each of my friends
how can i be myself and not care if people don't like me

 

[sigmabuttlord123]

my entire life is worrying about what other people think of me
i have created a new personality for each of my friends
how can i be myself and not care if people don't like me

 

[Blackpillirony]

my entire life is worrying about what other people think of me
i have created a new personality for each of my friends
how can i be myself and not care if people don't like me

You have no concrete "self". It's all a self-important illusion to convince yourself you're not the end product of your environment and social circle

 

[fatfuckingchud]

You have no concrete "self". It's all a self-important illusion to convince yourself you're not the end product of your environment and social circle

so you're never who you truly are?

 

[Blackpillirony]

so you're never who you truly are?

Nope, never did never was and never will. Stop giving a fuck about giving a fuck and just flow through existence

 

[fatfuckingchud]

Nope, never did never was and never will. Stop giving a fuck about giving a fuck and just flow through existence

don't really know how to not give a fuck might need some drugs or smt

 

[sigmabuttlord123]

don't really know how to not give a fuck might need some drugs or smt

I guess bro

 

[fatfuckingchud]

I guess bro

any tips without drugs

 

[icnone]

my entire life is worrying about what other people think of me
i have created a new personality for each of my friends
how can i be myself and not care if people don't like me

think about it this way: if you be your genuine self, you can make friends with people who like you for who you are

 

[fatfuckingchud]

think about it this way: if you be your genuine self, you can make friends with people who like you for who you are

soo im gonna have no friends cause im a chud

 

[icnone]

soo im gonna have no friends cause im a chud

elaborate

 

[draftLexy]

my entire life is worrying about what other people think of me
i have created a new personality for each of my friends
how can i be myself and not care if people don't like me

The thing you need to understand is no matter how you look or adjust how you act there will always be someone who doesn’t like it and thats okey, its more important in life to be true to yourself and kind to others. Youll drive yourself crazy trying to appeal to everyone. Just be kind and true to yourself, you will find people who enjoy you and your company and you will find real people that way too

 

[fatfuckingchud]

elaborate

when im myself im such an autistic little f****t and cant talk abt anything apart from lm and pokemon so ppl aren't gonna like me

 

[fatfuckingchud]

The thing you need to understand is no matter how you look or adjust how you act there will always be someone who doesn’t like it and thats okey, its more important in life to be true to yourself and kind to others. Youll drive yourself crazy trying to appeal to everyone. Just be kind and true to yourself, you will find people who enjoy you and your company and you will find real people that way too

but i can make myself different for the majority of people, they'll like me

 

[draftLexy]

but i can make myself different for the majority of people, they'll like me

I saw you said you like pokemon if you are into pokemon and nerdy things go to conventions there are so many people there just like you

 

[fatfuckingchud]

I saw you said you like pokemon if you are into pokemon and nerdy things go to conventions there are so many people there just like you

but i want to be around people i like too

 

[The Centipede]

I’d try to advise, but like I said before, there’s probably something wrong with me, so my advice would be bad advice

 

[icnone]

when im myself im such an autistic little f****t and cant talk abt anything apart from lm and pokemon so ppl aren't gonna like me

why not try out other interests and see what sticks?

also you can see out like minded people, no? is there a pokemon club at your school? if not, you can start one

also im sure you have other interests besides lm and pokemon, it's just hard to list them out when you are deliberating trying to list what you can talk about

 

[The Centipede]

but i want to be around people i like too

Abduction

 

[The Centipede]

Most fuckers don’t even like themselves, fuck those peasants.

 

[The Centipede]

What country are you in OP?

 

[fatfuckingchud]

why not try out other interests and see what sticks?

also you can see out like minded people, no? is there a pokemon club at your school? if not, you can start one

also im sure you have other interests besides lm and pokemon, it's just hard to list them out when you are deliberating trying to list what you can talk about

thank you good advice

 

[fatfuckingchud]

What country are you in OP?

england

 

[fatfuckingchud]

Most fuckers don’t even like themselves, fuck those peasants.

i want friends tho

 

[The Centipede]

england

Oh, me too. What part?

You can always come out drinking with me, you’ll make friends bhai.

 

[fatfuckingchud]

Oh, me too. What part?

You can always come out drinking with me, you’ll make friends bhai.

near Southampton kinda hbu

 

[The Centipede]

near Southampton kinda hbu

Last time I was there I got the shuttle to Cowes Week.

Cheshire mate, not far from Manchester though.

If you want to do a drink-up, PM me any time. Wouldn’t mind a rampage on the South coast, or if you want to hang out in London I’m down.

I’m not like the others, I party.

 

[yourfavLTB]

Tell me when you know

 

[Deleted Member 85516]

my entire life is worrying about what other people think of me
i have created a new personality for each of my friends
how can i be myself and not care if people don't like me

become high t

 

[The Centipede]

become high t

Become prison rapist

 

[Deleted Member 85516]

Become prison rapist

the goal

 

[Deleted Member 121538]

just stop giving a fuck about rules
social rules , laws , etc.

 

[Gen5ivee]

my entire life is worrying about what other people think of me
i have created a new personality for each of my friends
how can i be myself and not care if people don't like me

Js fake it till u make it

 

[fatfuckingchud]

Js fake it till u make it

not that easy

 

[Deleted Member 121538]

not that easy

You have to become content with being alone. I am content with being alone , and in my time alone I realised just how stupid and judgemental the average person is. If your scared of losing "freinds" then of course your gonna be scared of what others think , if you can make peace with the possibility of losing "freinds" or accidentally offending these "freinds" then thats a start.
You also have to stop giving a fuck about following other peoples rules and create your own rules in your head.Set boundaries with others and if they dont respect your boundaries dont be afraid of getting messy , as long as its the right thing to do , please read between the lines , this advice will only work if you go about it in a clever way. Please dont be retarded about it.

 

[lazerdim]

Be like ER and make yourself believe you’re a true supreme gentleman chad, manifestation buddy

 

[BrazilianKen]

The thing is, nobody can truly be themselves. Just fake it till you make it. That’s what I do, at least.