Serious how to stop having emotional dependency

[twinkdestroyer]

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[BlendedBulge]

Inject T, receive solution

 

[Mandy?]

On what?

 

[Deleted Member 84844]

It would be extremely painful!

 

[twinkdestroyer]

On what?

with girls

 

[Tumor]

Discipline is the only answer I suppose

 

[Deleted Member 84844]

with girls

Have gay sex

 

[Mandy?]

with girls

Try Argentinian Twinks I guess instead

 

[Mandy?]

Have gay sex

Solution honestly

 

[twinkdestroyer]

Try Argentinian Twinks I guess instead

thank you sweetie

 

[Roi]

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Build your own life (do anything u love) set clear limits for urself so your worth is not tied to anyone validation, stay safe son

 

[Deleted Member 84844]

Build your own life (do anything u love) set clear limits for urself so your worth is not tied to anyone validation

— gay answer

 

[Roi]

— gay answer

Sorry

 

[twinkdestroyer]

Build your own life (do anything u love) set clear limits for urself so your worth is not tied to anyone validation, stay safe son

honestly best answer thank you, I should put myself first unfortunately is hard

 

[dipenhydramine]

idk i like having it i get deeply obsessed with anyone who shows mr any form of affection but it feels nice inside

 

[TonyDr]

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I'm gonna pretend you're just young & inexperienced with women, but let's be real for few seconds :
1/ Don't developp a crush for a girl you never talked to, and if it starts into something, keep in mind it can ends at any moment, and you should just enjoy the moment. Seek the benefits.

2/ Have a life with long term projects, goals, hobbies. Can be anything except rotting here, discord or gaming

 

[twinkdestroyer]

2/ Have a life with long term projects, goals, hobbies. Can be anything except rotting here, discord or gaming

Thank you for this advice, the main problem I have is that if I get attached to a person (I usually do when I talk to them often) I start focusing on making them to like me more.

So yeah I should search for hobbies and things to do, and obviously put myself first since that's all I have

 

[Nenestar]

Not a problem, bigger the dependency -> more fun

 

[azaire]

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Figure out what your emotional dependency stems from first before anything else

if you already know that, cut off or at least limit contact with the individual you’re dependent on.
Being by yourself for some time, while learning how to accept the solitude and be at peace with loneliness is important,
Get to know yourself before anything else.

 

[Deleted Member 84844]

Not a problem, bigger the dependency -> more fun

why h3llo theree

 

[TonyDr]

Thank you for this advice, the main problem I have is that if I get attached to a person (I usually do when I talk to them often) I start focusing on making them to like me more.

So yeah I should search for hobbies and things to do, and obviously put myself first since that's all I have

You shoule talk to multiple people, non romantically ofc, but you need to stop putting them on a pedestal just because they smile back at you yk

 

[twinkdestroyer]

Figure out what your emotional dependency stems from first before anything else

if you already know that, cut off or at least limit contact with the individual you’re dependent on.
Being by yourself for a some time, while learning how to accept the solitude and be at peace with loneliness is important,
Get to know yourself before anything else.

You shoule talk to multiple people, non romantically ofc, but you need to stop putting them on a pedestal just because they smile back at you yk

Thank you guys really, I had this problem for a long time so now I think I'll know what my next moves will be

 

[Deleted Member 84844]

Thank you guys really, I had this problem for a long time so now I think I'll know what my next moves will be

yeah yeah yeah incelbabble

 

[TonyDr]

Thank you guys really, I had this problem for a long time so now I think I'll know what my next moves will be

Yeah it's a lot of work to "rewiring" yourself

 

[Deleted Member 84302]

Awwwwwww

 

[Deleted Member 84302]

So are you in love or what

 

[twinkdestroyer]

So are you in love or what

it was a general question since im an emotional abused dog

 

[Deleted Member 84302]

it was a general question since im an emotional abused dog

Nice pity bait

 

[twinkdestroyer]

Nice pity bait

it was a little edgy icl

 

[Deleted Member 82545]

hop on estradiol boy, don't listen to blended

 

[Deleted Member 84844]

hop on estradiol boy, don't listen to blended

Time to go mobile!

 

[twinkdestroyer]

hop on estradiol boy, don't listen to blended

dk what that is tbh

 

[Deleted Member 76607]

Work on your Self Esteem and stop begging for validation or attention n***a.

 

[Deleted Member 84844]

Work on your Self Esteem and stop begging for validation or attention n***a.

Do you feel in charge?

 

[Deleted Member 76607]

Do you feel in charge?

Most of the time yah

 

[Deleted Member 84844]

Most of the time

And this gives you, power over me?

 

[Darkeningstar]

Don't believe in easy solutions or solutions that don't involve many, many failures.

Simple answer: you need alternatives, I'm talking about girls

Nevertheless, you may find yourself becoming emotionally attached to a girl, hobby or not, alternatives or not, and letting yourself be taken in by “cynicism” is not necessarily a good thing, quite the contrary.


Trivially, and this is the beauty or the terror of the so-called black pill, you have to be able to afford a relationship

 

[azaire]

Thank you guys really, I had this problem for a long time so now I think I'll know what my next moves will be

Ofc, dm me on discord if you want to talk about it furthermore!

 

[Stardust_]

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Try to improve yourself in a positive way and then focus on you, others will be happy for you

 

[Glamour]

with girls

just move on unc thats how

 

[twinkdestroyer]

just move on unc thats how

bro I did but its hard yk that shit

 

[Deleted Member 84302]

bro I did but its hard yk that shit

Replace her with mami

 

[Ruin]

Do you feel in charge?

 

[Ruin]

 

[Glamour]

bro I did but its hard yk that shit

yeah but you have to just stop thinking abt her
like stop replaying the fun things you did with her or you'll never move on and be stuck

 

[twinkdestroyer]

yeah but you have to just stop thinking abt her
like stop replaying the fun things you did with her or you'll never move on and be stuck

unfortunately im retarded

nah but some day I will

 

[Glamour]

unfortunately im retarded

nah but some day I will

nah i believe in you unc you'll move on

 

[twinkdestroyer]

nah i believe in you unc you'll move on

I love you twin

 

[Glamour]

I love you twin

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