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How to tell her what I feel without sounding abnormal

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How can I tell her how I feel without sounding like an overly attached freak or something? I feel retarded just thinking about how I feel about her. All I know is I'd like to be the guy she deserves, but I am who I am, and I can't promise her anything. Even if I tell her I'll change, I can't even trust that.
 
All I know is I'd like to be the guy she deserves, but I am who I am, and I can't promise her anything. Even if I tell her I'll change, I can't even trust that.
n***a feelin romatical. over if you wanna confess feeling to a female, youre a lover boy and shes prolly a hoe. Just hang out with her and read a room and if she seems interested in you go for a kiss
 
Hookup culture and being nonchalant is outdated. Make true, genuine love and passion the new trend and keep it like this forever, so much cooler
- my fave frauded mtb, fukitsun <3
In that sense I've been a whore, I used to fuck girls and little else but I want genuine love.
 
That's very sweet. Just don't make it this long monologue of things. Good luck bud
I try, but no matter what I say, I don't think she's going to believe me or even want to listen to me. I don't want to force her. I'd like her to be happy. I'd prefer her to be happy by my side, but I don't think that's what she wants.
 
How can I tell her how I feel without sounding like an overly attached freak or something? I feel retarded just thinking about how I feel about her. All I know is I'd like to be the guy she deserves, but I am who I am, and I can't promise her anything. Even if I tell her I'll change, I can't even trust that.
Manipulate her into saying how she feels then size up the situation
 
Manipulate her into saying how she feels then size up the situation
usually something I would do but I'm looking for real love this time, or so I think, I'm somewhat bipolar.So i want to be a good boy
 
usually something I would do but I'm looking for real love this time, or so I think, I'm somewhat bipolar.So i want to be a good boy
Hard to do. Is she even worth it fundamentally as a person, or do you just miss her?
 
usually something I would do but I'm looking for real love this time, or so I think, I'm somewhat bipolar.So i want to be a good boy
Then be real but reduce the hoensty and intensity by 30-50%
 
It's worth it, she's fucking kind, smart, empathetic, responsible and believes in herself.
Then integrity is key. You said you might be bipolar. Integrity is maintenance, it isn't fun. If youre sure that you can do this even when the good feeling wears off, then sure, spend your time. Be honest and straightforward.
 
Then integrity is key. You said you might be bipolar. Integrity is maintenance, it isn't fun. If youre sure that you can do this even when the good feeling wears off, then sure, spend your time. Be honest and straightforward.
That's the part where I hesitate, I don't see myself very capable and I don't want to hurt someone just because of something I'll give up.
 
That's the part where I hesitate, I don't see myself very capable and I don't want to hurt someone just because of something I'll give up.
Turn it around now than later. I know people like you who ended up in a hell of their own making by the time they reached 40-50, and these people didn't even think they would live that long so they didn't care until reality hit them in the face.

This comment is from a post where a user asked about obtaining their own job and not leeching off other people. I think it's relevant to the type of conversation here.
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Turn it around now than later. I know people like you who ended up in a hell of their own making by the time they reached 40-50, and these people didn't even think they would live that long so they didn't care until reality hit them in the face.

This comment is from a post where a user asked about obtaining their own j*b and not leeching off other people. I think it's relevant to the type of conversation here.
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