Discussion I (38F) am a full time Dominatrix and have been practicing BDSM for 20 years, AMA

[Deleted Member 52663]

I've been in the kink lifestyle since 2003 and these days I live it 24/7 (no, really).


I am highly experienced and skilled in multiple forms of BDSM play and in D/s or M/s power exchanges (both in varying degrees of extremity). I have a live-in collared submissive who is responsible for the running of my household. I used to own a public dungeon - which was fun, but these days I much prefer my private one. For the past 5 years I have worked and made a living as a full time Femme Dom to a select book of clients. And I still play with in my free time just for the joy of it.


I practice PRICK (personally responsible informed consensual kink) and TICK (trauma informed consensual kink). I've loved my time in the lifestyle, it is my abiding passion.


I am an open book when it comes to BDSM. Truly, ask me anything.

 

[Deleted Member 53151]

@BimaxLaser is interested

 

[g4rl1c]

what is ur thrusting power in newtons

 

[g4rl1c]

arm pit pics?

 

[Deleted Member 52663]

arm pit pics?

Don’t you understand basic concepts like politeness? The first thing I did was give a self introduction. Now you’re going to ask “why should I introduce myself?” , that’s because it’s the most important thing to start as a relationship. No matter what kind of relationship, isn’t it necessary to start with an acquaintanceship where we both know each other? So, just because I’m someone who cares about such things, I often think that no matter to whom, I will be as friendly as possible. I’m not saying that there isn’t a chance that the other party is shy. Even if you think you want to become well-connected, when you start by introducing yourself, something in you always cannot help but hesitate. Out of consideration for those types of people, I try to introduce myself as much as possible and act in order to create a space where they feel comfortable. Of course, I don’t expect this grace to be immediately obvious. However, I do have hopes that after some time, they will be able to detect the meaning of an introductions. Or, rather, that they will become aware of it. Or is it natural to talk to someone you meet for the first time without introducing yourself? If that’s the case, then there’s a slight difference between my common sense and culture. In that case, although both parties feel a sense of obligation, it becomes necessary to refuse the other side in advance so as to prevent a misunderstanding. Isn’t that so different from what I said before, taking being gentle with each other for granted? In fact, saying so feels impolite. And that’s a loss of etiquette, and the other party is left with a lesser value. A false assessment of each other’s value imposes on others. This is a violation of the rights of others. From any rational perspective, this is an infringement of my rights.

 

[jkcwakcjw]

Don’t you understand basic concepts like politeness? The first thing I did was give a self introduction. Now you’re going to ask “why should I introduce myself?” , that’s because it’s the most important thing to start as a relationship. No matter what kind of relationship, isn’t it necessary to start with an acquaintanceship where we both know each other? So, just because I’m someone who cares about such things, I often think that no matter to whom, I will be as friendly as possible. I’m not saying that there isn’t a chance that the other party is shy. Even if you think you want to become well-connected, when you start by introducing yourself, something in you always cannot help but hesitate. Out of consideration for those types of people, I try to introduce myself as much as possible and act in order to create a space where they feel comfortable. Of course, I don’t expect this grace to be immediately obvious. However, I do have hopes that after some time, they will be able to detect the meaning of an introductions. Or, rather, that they will become aware of it. Or is it natural to talk to someone you meet for the first time without introducing yourself? If that’s the case, then there’s a slight difference between my common sense and culture. In that case, although both parties feel a sense of obligation, it becomes necessary to refuse the other side in advance so as to prevent a misunderstanding. Isn’t that so different from what I said before, taking being gentle with each other for granted? In fact, saying so feels impolite. And that’s a loss of etiquette, and the other party is left with a lesser value. A false assessment of each other’s value imposes on others. This is a violation of the rights of others. From any rational perspective, this is an infringement of my rights.

aye dios mio holy dnr senor

 

[Deleted Member 52663]

aye dios mio holy dnr senor

What? You are refusing to read what I have written? Isn’t that the same as invalidating my worth as a person? I would never trample over the rights of others in such an arrogant, imperious, patronizing way. As a person, my thoughts are a prized possession, the most valuable thing I own, the thing that defines me as an individual, and you dare take that away? I find it astounding that people can hold such blatant disregard for others, that people so easily dismiss those things which others hold dear, that people can casually, offhandedly, obliviously request that others discard their very selves for the sake of their own amusement. Now, do not mistake me. I am not so arrogant as to ask another to change their ways. I simply think that you should feel utter disgust for yourself for the reprehensible crime you have committed. That is my opinion, and nothing more, and you cannot rob me of that. My thoughts are my own, and only the deplorable and filthy would think to plunder the sanctuary of other minds. I am free to think anything of myself and of others, regardless of any opinion you might hold.

 

[jkcwakcjw]

What? You are refusing to read what I have written? Isn’t that the same as invalidating my worth as a person? I would never trample over the rights of others in such an arrogant, imperious, patronizing way. As a person, my thoughts are a prized possession, the most valuable thing I own, the thing that defines me as an individual, and you dare take that away? I find it astounding that people can hold such blatant disregard for others, that people so easily dismiss those things which others hold dear, that people can casually, offhandedly, obliviously request that others discard their very selves for the sake of their own amusement. Now, do not mistake me. I am not so arrogant as to ask another to change their ways. I simply think that you should feel utter disgust for yourself for the reprehensible crime you have committed. That is my opinion, and nothing more, and you cannot rob me of that. My thoughts are my own, and only the deplorable and filthy would think to plunder the sanctuary of other minds. I am free to think anything of myself and of others, regardless of any opinion you might hold.

this isnt even chat gpt
bros doing it for the sport

 

[g4rl1c]

Don’t you understand basic concepts like politeness? The first thing I did was give a self introduction. Now you’re going to ask “why should I introduce myself?” , that’s because it’s the most important thing to start as a relationship. No matter what kind of relationship, isn’t it necessary to start with an acquaintanceship where we both know each other? So, just because I’m someone who cares about such things, I often think that no matter to whom, I will be as friendly as possible. I’m not saying that there isn’t a chance that the other party is shy. Even if you think you want to become well-connected, when you start by introducing yourself, something in you always cannot help but hesitate. Out of consideration for those types of people, I try to introduce myself as much as possible and act in order to create a space where they feel comfortable. Of course, I don’t expect this grace to be immediately obvious. However, I do have hopes that after some time, they will be able to detect the meaning of an introductions. Or, rather, that they will become aware of it. Or is it natural to talk to someone you meet for the first time without introducing yourself? If that’s the case, then there’s a slight difference between my common sense and culture. In that case, although both parties feel a sense of obligation, it becomes necessary to refuse the other side in advance so as to prevent a misunderstanding. Isn’t that so different from what I said before, taking being gentle with each other for granted? In fact, saying so feels impolite. And that’s a loss of etiquette, and the other party is left with a lesser value. A false assessment of each other’s value imposes on others. This is a violation of the rights of others. From any rational perspective, this is an infringement of my rights.

plz?

 

[g4rl1c]

this isnt even chat gpt
bros doing it for the sport
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I'm hyucking rn dude

 

[neymar]

What? You are refusing to read what I have written? Isn’t that the same as invalidating my worth as a person? I would never trample over the rights of others in such an arrogant, imperious, patronizing way. As a person, my thoughts are a prized possession, the most valuable thing I own, the thing that defines me as an individual, and you dare take that away? I find it astounding that people can hold such blatant disregard for others, that people so easily dismiss those things which others hold dear, that people can casually, offhandedly, obliviously request that others discard their very selves for the sake of their own amusement. Now, do not mistake me. I am not so arrogant as to ask another to change their ways. I simply think that you should feel utter disgust for yourself for the reprehensible crime you have committed. That is my opinion, and nothing more, and you cannot rob me of that. My thoughts are my own, and only the deplorable and filthy would think to plunder the sanctuary of other minds. I am free to think anything of myself and of others, regardless of any opinion you might hold.

White woman moment

 

[snufkin]

@huntergirl muh inappropriate

 

[James Othy]

I've been in the kink lifestyle since 2003 and these days I live it 24/7 (no, really).


I am highly experienced and skilled in multiple forms of BDSM play and in D/s or M/s power exchanges (both in varying degrees of extremity). I have a live-in collared submissive who is responsible for the running of my household. I used to own a public dungeon - which was fun, but these days I much prefer my private one. For the past 5 years I have worked and made a living as a full time Femme Dom to a select book of clients. And I still play with in my free time just for the joy of it.


I practice PRICK (personally responsible informed consensual kink) and TICK (trauma informed consensual kink). I've loved my time in the lifestyle, it is my abiding passion.


I am an open book when it comes to BDSM. Truly, ask me anything.

I've never understood men that get off on being tied up, beaten, and denied. I'm more of a sadist myself, but not in the cliche whipping/leather sort of way. I used to surprise hookers by shoving my wet middle finger in their assholes.

 

[James Othy]

Don’t you understand basic concepts like politeness? The first thing I did was give a self introduction. Now you’re going to ask “why should I introduce myself?” , that’s because it’s the most important thing to start as a relationship. No matter what kind of relationship, isn’t it necessary to start with an acquaintanceship where we both know each other? So, just because I’m someone who cares about such things, I often think that no matter to whom, I will be as friendly as possible. I’m not saying that there isn’t a chance that the other party is shy. Even if you think you want to become well-connected, when you start by introducing yourself, something in you always cannot help but hesitate. Out of consideration for those types of people, I try to introduce myself as much as possible and act in order to create a space where they feel comfortable. Of course, I don’t expect this grace to be immediately obvious. However, I do have hopes that after some time, they will be able to detect the meaning of an introductions. Or, rather, that they will become aware of it. Or is it natural to talk to someone you meet for the first time without introducing yourself? If that’s the case, then there’s a slight difference between my common sense and culture. In that case, although both parties feel a sense of obligation, it becomes necessary to refuse the other side in advance so as to prevent a misunderstanding. Isn’t that so different from what I said before, taking being gentle with each other for granted? In fact, saying so feels impolite. And that’s a loss of etiquette, and the other party is left with a lesser value. A false assessment of each other’s value imposes on others. This is a violation of the rights of others. From any rational perspective, this is an infringement of my rights.

Maybe he's from a culture where it's rude or weird to introduce yourself when first meeting an individual.

 

[AuggyDauggy]

I've been in the kink lifestyle since 2003 and these days I live it 24/7 (no, really).


I am highly experienced and skilled in multiple forms of BDSM play and in D/s or M/s power exchanges (both in varying degrees of extremity). I have a live-in collared submissive who is responsible for the running of my household. I used to own a public dungeon - which was fun, but these days I much prefer my private one. For the past 5 years I have worked and made a living as a full time Femme Dom to a select book of clients. And I still play with in my free time just for the joy of it.


I practice PRICK (personally responsible informed consensual kink) and TICK (trauma informed consensual kink). I've loved my time in the lifestyle, it is my abiding passion.


I am an open book when it comes to BDSM. Truly, ask me anything.

Let’s say a partner of yours wants to try CNC, what’s the fine line I can’t cross?