I barely could write my mother's day card today

[icnone]

I'm not very good at these types of things. What exact words do I put on my card? I don't know how it is for the average person. Maybe they let their thoughts and feelings stream out and write whatever words come first to their mind.

I was thinking of writing something like she has always been there for me, but that would be a lie. I have never felt like she was there for me when I needed her the most. I don't want to be disingenuous. The only reason I was writing her a card and setting a gift aside for her was because I felt obligated to do so. I don't actually love her.

In the end, I kept it short. I just said that I was thankful for her raising me (she did put in a lot of effort over the years into things like cooking food for me and changing my diapers without expecting repayment, so I am obligated to thank her for that). When I gave her the card and the gift, she was ecstatic. She hugged me, but I felt nothing. I wonder how it must have felt for her.

 

[genio]

I didnt do shit for mother’s day

 

[icnone]

I didnt do shit for mother’s day

but isn't that awkward?

 

[genio]

but isn't that awkward?

Who gaf n***a

 

[Motivated Dandelions]

Nothing is impossible to him who will try. Action is the basis of success. Keep that in mind. Judge yourself based off your actions, not intentions

 

[icnone]

Who gaf n***a

huh so that's how normal people think

 

[Fattiepattiecookie]

It isn't mothers day today in my country

 

[genio]

huh so that's how normal people think

Yeah im nt
Its my mom so itll never be awkward

 

[paulyune]

I'm not very good at these types of things. What exact words do I put on my card? I don't know how it is for the average person. Maybe they let their thoughts and feelings stream out and write whatever words come first to their mind.

I was thinking of writing something like she has always been there for me, but that would be a lie. I have never felt like she was there for me when I needed her the most. I don't want to be disingenuous. The only reason I was writing her a card and setting a gift aside for her was because I felt obligated to do so. I don't actually love her.

In the end, I kept it short. I just said that I was thankful for her raising me (she did put in a lot of effort over the years into things like cooking food for me and changing my diapers without expecting repayment, so I am obligated to thank her for that). When I gave her the card and the gift, she was ecstatic. She hugged me, but I felt nothing. I wonder how it must have felt for her.

I didn’t write a card just made myself present and gave flowers

 

[scotfield]

I'm not very good at these types of things. What exact words do I put on my card? I don't know how it is for the average person. Maybe they let their thoughts and feelings stream out and write whatever words come first to their mind.

I was thinking of writing something like she has always been there for me, but that would be a lie. I have never felt like she was there for me when I needed her the most. I don't want to be disingenuous. The only reason I was writing her a card and setting a gift aside for her was because I felt obligated to do so. I don't actually love her.

In the end, I kept it short. I just said that I was thankful for her raising me (she did put in a lot of effort over the years into things like cooking food for me and changing my diapers without expecting repayment, so I am obligated to thank her for that). When I gave her the card and the gift, she was ecstatic. She hugged me, but I felt nothing. I wonder how it must have felt for her.

So don't do anything and give her the gift without a greeting card

 

[icnone]

Yeah im nt
Its my mom so itll never be awkward

but what if you extend this logic? what if you never wish her happy birthday?

 

[genio]

but what if you extend this logic? what if you never wish her happy birthday?

n***a like i said it doesnt matter
It depends on ur relationship with ur mom though its very nuanced

 

[icnone]

n***a like i said it doesnt matter

makes sense

It depends on ur relationship with ur mom though its very nuanced

jealous of you NTs, if only there was a way to know all these nuanced rules

 

[Motivated Dandelions]

n***a like i said it doesnt matter
It depends on ur relationship with ur mom though its very nuanced

Yo mama so old she used to bump Orbs threads on lookism.net

 

[genio]

Yo mama so old she used to bump Orbs threads on lookism.net

Yo mama

 

[drchad]

I'm not very good at these types of things. What exact words do I put on my card? I don't know how it is for the average person. Maybe they let their thoughts and feelings stream out and write whatever words come first to their mind.

I was thinking of writing something like she has always been there for me, but that would be a lie. I have never felt like she was there for me when I needed her the most. I don't want to be disingenuous. The only reason I was writing her a card and setting a gift aside for her was because I felt obligated to do so. I don't actually love her.

In the end, I kept it short. I just said that I was thankful for her raising me (she did put in a lot of effort over the years into things like cooking food for me and changing my diapers without expecting repayment, so I am obligated to thank her for that). When I gave her the card and the gift, she was ecstatic. She hugged me, but I felt nothing. I wonder how it must have felt for her.

Whenever i have to do things like this i have trouble as well just imagine what the right things to say in the situation are and try your hardest to not make it sound like ai to get it over with

 

[Tear]

Yeah I got mine a card and flowers. I always do the same thing so I didn’t want to do it this time. In terms of all my immediate family
Im disconnected from her the most. Shes said some really mean things to me I can’t put down

 

[icnone]

Whenever i have to do things like this i have trouble as well just imagine what the right things to say in the situation are and try your hardest to not make it sound like ai to get it over with

Fair enough... it's a tradeoff between fitting in and being genuine.

Yeah I got mine a card and flowers. I always do the same thing so I didn’t want to do it this time. In terms of all my immediate family
Im disconnected from her the most. Shes said some really mean things to me I can’t put down

This hurts to read. If you have no other place, then mothers are supposed to be the last place you have.