i don't want to end up like my dad

[virgile]

the shit that i'm the most scared of is ending up like my dad , this is fucked up but i learned by my sister than my mom cheated on my dad back when i was a kid and he still stayed with her , ever since then i've been looking at him differently , i understand he's not trying to break in family up but how can you look at yourself in the mirror after this and act like nothing happened

 

[benny]

the shit that i'm the most scared of is ending up like my dad , this is fucked up but i learned by my sister than my mom cheated on my dad back when i was a kid and he still stayed with her , ever since then i've been looking at him differently , i understand he's not trying to break in family up but how can you look at yourself in the mirror after this and act like nothing happened

wtf same shit happened to me

 

[virgile]

wtf same shit happened to me

we both got oofy doofy dads lol shit sad , literally the nightmare vision of my future

 

[submissivechud]

be nicer to ur dad
js dont pay for your mothers life once she retires so she dies before 90

 

[virgile]

be nicer to ur dad
js dont pay for your mothers life once she retires so she dies before 90

i am nice to him i just lost respect for him , it's hard to ignore something like that . and for my mother i couldnt care less that's what girls do thats not my relationship at the end of the day

 

[benny]

we both got oofy doofy dads lol shit sad , literally the nightmare vision of my future

last thing i want ngl

 

[submissivechud]

i am nice to him i just lost respect for him , it's hard to ignore something like that . and for my mother i couldnt care less that's what girls do thats not my relationship at the end of the day

yeah but alteast u dont gotta live in a broken home n***a
respect yo pops

 

[jest]

my mom cheated on my dad like 9 times bro but she was the one to leave my dad after he held us at gunpoint

 

[submissivechud]

my mom cheated on my dad like 9 times bro but she was the one to leave my dad after he held us at gunpoint

id do that if i was ur dad aswell

 

[virgile]

yeah but alteast u dont gotta live in a broken home n***a
respect yo pops

hard for me to respect someone who didnt respect himself

 

[virgile]

my mom cheated on my dad like 9 times bro but she was the one to leave my dad after he held us at gunpoint

9 times ? you got an interesting mother

 

[jest]

id do that if i was ur dad aswell

fuck did i do i was like 10............ valid tho for my mom

 

[splanky]

the shit that i'm the most scared of is ending up like my dad , this is fucked up but i learned by my sister than my mom cheated on my dad back when i was a kid and he still stayed with her , ever since then i've been looking at him differently , i understand he's not trying to break in family up but how can you look at yourself in the mirror after this and act like nothing happened

im lowkey adopted and was in the foster system since birth so once i have a child i honestly would put up with just about anything in order to give them a good life. i hope i end up like your dad and i hope you and your family is well.

 

[jest]

9 times ? you got an interesting mother

oh for sure shes something

 

[submissivechud]

hard for me to respect someone who didnt respect himself

he loves you more then himself
no other reason to stay

 

[knightmaxxer]

i dont either but i have the exact opposite problem, my dad was a cl serial womaniser who never stayed with a girl for more than 5 years at a time. i don’t think i could live like that, without ever having a truly long term connection.

 

[virgile]

im lowkey adopted and was in the foster system since birth so once i have a child i honestly would put up with just about anything in order to give them a good life. i hope i end up like your dad and i hope you and your family is well.

holy shit i feel like an entitled piece of shit now , sorry about that

 

[slim_jim001]

my dad cheated on my mom like 20 fucking time and gave her 3 STDs when she was pregnant with me iw as almost born blind and crippled with herpes thank God I was brithed before she got a legion on her cooch

 

[splanky]

holy shit i feel like an entitled piece of shit now , sorry about that

it’s okay to feel upset about your problems lol but thank you

 

[virgile]

my dad cheated on my mom like 20 fucking time and gave her 3 STDs when she was pregnant with me iw as almost born blind and crippled with herpes thank God I was brithed before she got a legion on her cooch

what a piece of shit

 

[virgile]

it’s okay to feel upset about your problems lol but thank you

it's not even a problem its just a silly feeling i got , i dont bring it up or treat my dad differently its just something that bothers me , you're right tho i should appreciate his selflessness more than anything

 

[Deleted Member 118059]

the shit that i'm the most scared of is ending up like my dad , this is fucked up but i learned by my sister than my mom cheated on my dad back when i was a kid and he still stayed with her , ever since then i've been looking at him differently , i understand he's not trying to break in family up but how can you look at yourself in the mirror after this and act like nothing happened

Sometimes in life, you have to minimize the damage because you are already too invested

Like jfl imagine breaking up an entire family, losing half your stuff to your cheating wife, amd ending up all alone just for your "integrity"


He did the best thing that someone can do in that situation, mirin

 

[slim_jim001]

what a piece of shit

ik I resent him for it also forged her name on a house and she lost 40k in court trying to sue himand lost becasue if she won he would get his lawyer license revoked and wouldn't be able to pay child support. She also said he would get her a new car, traded her car and put it under his name so she got her car stolen to. She found he was cheating again after I got born and she tried t leave with me with the car and she git arrested for taking the car cause it was under his name and kidnapping HATE HIS ASS

 

[wxnter]

the shit that i'm the most scared of is ending up like my dad , this is fucked up but i learned by my sister than my mom cheated on my dad back when i was a kid and he still stayed with her , ever since then i've been looking at him differently , i understand he's not trying to break in family up but how can you look at yourself in the mirror after this and act like nothing happened

Im so sorry for ur dad bro

 

[virgile]

Sometimes in life, you have to minimize the damage because you are already too invested

Like jfl imagine breaking up an entire family, losing half your stuff to your cheating wife, amd ending up all alone just for your "integrity"


He did the best thing that someone can do in that situation, mirin

it was the rational choice , i'm too immature and emotional to understand it yet , maybe when i'm older i'll get it

 

[virgile]

Im so sorry for ur dad bro

i don't think he knows i know so he acts like him and my mom is still this love story in front of me its lowkey sad

 

[splanky]

it's not even a problem its just a silly feeling i got , i dont bring it up or treat my dad differently its just something that bothers me , you're right tho i should appreciate his selflessness more than anything

yeah i get that and it’s good that it doesn’t get in the way of your relationship but it’s def hard to get thoughts like that out of your mind
sometimes i feel like i despise my adoptive parents since they’re not even related to me and i get upset thinking about it but im really blessed with this second chance at life tbh

 

[wxnter]

i don't think he knows i know so he acts like him and my mom is still this love story in front of me its lowkey sad

yeah, the fact hes doing this for you can make you feel guilty as well

 

[Deleted Member 118059]

it was the rational choice , i'm too immature and emotional to understand it yet , maybe when i'm older i'll get it

idk how old

the shit that i'm the most scared of is ending up like my dad , this is fucked up but i learned by my sister than my mom cheated on my dad back when i was a kid and he still stayed with her , ever since then i've been looking at him differently , i understand he's not trying to break in family up but how can you look at yourself in the mirror after this and act like nothing happened

people who cheat in marriages genuinely make no sense

like why would you marry them

 

[virgile]

people who cheat in marriages genuinely make no sense

like why would you marry them

that's the scary thing about lifelong relationships , at some point it's bound to create boredom and open the door for cheating , people dont go into marriage thinking they could cheat one day

 

[virgile]

yeah, the fact hes doing this for you can make you feel guilty as well

i just feel bad for him more than anything

 

[wxnter]

i just feel bad for him more than anything

that's understandable

 

[knightmaxxer]

idk how old



people who cheat in marriages genuinely make no sense

like why would you marry them

cus there fucking retarded

 

[slim_jim001]

Im sorry, that this happened and its rlly uncomfortable to know that Abt him