I fumbled my dream guy at work

[The cat from The Matrix]

I have been beating myself up because of this everyday since this happened. This happened in like December.

I was cashiering at my place of work. I had to open and ran late. So I had no makeup, unstyled frizzy hair, terrible eyebags, disgusting fit, chapped lips and a bmi of 1000.

All the sudden in comes in this guy who is just my type, high mtn - chadlite. Immediately I want to run away to the back but I'm the only one that can cashier.

He ends up coming up to the register and I start ringing him up. Since I'm a r****d that likes to put myself through humiliation rituals I asked him if he was "Christmas shopping"

He proceeds to say "yes ma'am for my sister"

Ma'am?? Do I look that fucking old. I wanted to shoot myself. He called me ma'am TWICE. This dude was literally older than me because he was day drinking with a beer in his hand.

I make too much eye contact with the guy and fumble around awkwardly tried handing him his receipt and bag at the same time ???? And then he left. I will regret that day for the rest of my life. If I was a stacy I would've asked him for his number or something. I could tell he thought I was an absolute autistic subhuman. I will never see him again.

 

[xia]

i think lowkey too many men have been insulting u to be thinking like this
u talk like a dude
even when i was ugly i got some attention from dudes even if i had to chase them first in dating apps
doesnt matter how u look when it comes to how easy it is to approach men irl
i have never approached a guy in my life or been approached even if im called pretty
men showing interest in u irl just doesnt define ur worth imo, i will meet dudes from work events & theyll only flirt after we exchange contacts and contacts not in a way of "oh im into u" for just getting my photos off a photographer or connecting w a model so we can advise & invite eachother to future events like deadass zero signs of being into me irl.
i have never in my life had dudes show interest irl everyones shy its normal

ur overthinking him calling u maam tbh i dont think about age when i call girls maam

 

[The cat from The Matrix]

i think lowkey too many men have been insulting u to be thinking like this
u talk like a dude

I don't think I've interacted with men enough in my life to be insulted. And most of the men I have interacted with never insulted me I think it's just me tbh. I am well liked in my circles mostly so I only really hear positive things abt me

I've been told that, I talk even worse in person

even when i was ugly i got some attention from dudes even if i had to chase them first in dating apps
doesnt matter how u look when it comes to how easy it is to approach men irl
i have never approached a guy in my life or been approached even if im called pretty
men showing interest in u irl just doesnt define ur worth imo, i will meet dudes from work events & theyll only flirt after we exchange contacts and contacts not in a way of "oh im into u" for just getting my photos off a photographer or connecting w a model so we can advise & invite eachother to future events like deadass zero signs of being into me irl.
i have never in my life had dudes show interest irl everyones shy its normal

Yeah I'm sure it is easy, I just feel like such a loser. I always make things awkward i stutter and have terrible eye contact. I just think I don't have a lot of practice with guys I'm uncomfortable around them for a long time before I get to know them. I haven't had male friends in YEARS, excluding male coworkers that I'm friendly with and the one guy I'm friendly with that I see like once a year. Out in public I've never cold approached a guy tho.

ur overthinking him calling u maam tbh i dont think about age when i call girls maam

Yeah probably. Idk I find it weird. Like miss is fine but maam I just associate it with older women. I think i just overthink EVERYTHING and ruin shit for myself.

 

[xia]

girl i meant that its hard for both genders to approach eachother irl, hence why i never approach or got approached
its not looks related, men are just comfortable online flirting instead
they dont even leave any hints that theyre into u
in myyyy experienccee

 

[parakiss]

I make too much eye contact with the guy and fumble around awkwardly tried handing him his receipt and bag at the same time ???? And then he left. I will regret that day for the rest of my life. If I was a stacy I would've asked him for his number or something. I could tell he thought I was an absolute autistic subhuman. I will never see him again.

I doubt he even thought anything negative of you, we just tend to project our insecurities onto ourselves . Also, you are FAR from subhuman so it's just objectively wrong. There's a lot of men out there and this one rando isn't worth thinking about tbh

 

[The cat from The Matrix]

girl i meant that its hard for both genders to approach eachother irl, hence why i never approach or got approached
its not looks related, men are just comfortable online flirting instead
they dont even leave any hints that theyre into u
in myyyy experienccee

Ohhhgg ok ya ya. Yeah I feel like everyone is kinda too scared to make the first move. Online is way easier. Winky face is cute in text but winking in real life is kinda weird. The only guy I've ever properly flirted with irl was weird abt it I don't even count it because he only did it to ruffle my feathers around our other coworkers and then acted cold asfk when we were alone. I never knew what he was thinking urrrghh

 

[The cat from The Matrix]

I doubt he even thought anything negative of you, we just tend to project our insecurities onto ourselves . Also, you are FAR from subhuman so it's just objectively wrong. There's a lot of men out there and this one rando isn't worth thinking about tbh

He was so cute tho like I never see guys i find cute out in public and if I do they have a gf. Like he looked the ascended version of my oneitis. But u right he was just an npc . And ty sis I'm just so used to frauding with makeup that if I don't have it on i feel like a diff person ack!

 

[parakiss]

He was so cute tho like I never see guys i find cute out in public and if I do they have a gf. Like he looked the ascended version of my oneitis. But u right he was just an npc . And ty sis I'm just so used to frauding with makeup that if I don't have it on i feel like a diff person ack!

It's rough when they're exactly your type, it just stings a little extra . But still, there a lot of other men who you just haven't met yet. Don't overthink too much about this

 

[Deleted member 42538]

he was probably a penis fiddler.

 

[taxidrivermaxxer]

high mtn - chadlite.

Mirin hypergamy he's probably giga NT+low inhib as well

As it should be, incels.

 

[snufkin]

It's so funny how I dnrd a single molecule of this entire thread including the posts

 

[xia]

He was so cute tho like I never see guys i find cute out in public and if I do they have a gf. Like he looked the ascended version of my oneitis. But u right he was just an npc . And ty sis I'm just so used to frauding with makeup that if I don't have it on i feel like a diff person ack!

ngl girl have u considered more permanent beauty stuff like lash lift, lash tint/dye (if the lashes aint naturally black), brow lamination, lip /eyeliner permanent makeup tattoo? and keratin hair treatment? maybe lashe extensions too but not dramatic if ur into that

 

[Rau Le Creuset]

So I had no makeup

Mirin honesty.

 

[The cat from The Matrix]

ngl girl have u considered more permanent beauty stuff like lash lift, lash tint/dye (if the lashes aint naturally black), brow lamination, lip /eyeliner permanent makeup tattoo? and keratin hair treatment? maybe lashe extensions too but not dramatic if ur into that

Im lwk broke sis. I feel like i only look weird without makeup because I have no foundation liek. I've considered a lash lift + brows before. But im too scared to try fake lashes bc to me thats like ultimate fraud i literally do EVERYTHING but lashes. I'd be worried that I would hate my face without them, even w makeup

 

[TonyDr]

I have been beating myself up because of this everyday since this happened. This happened in like December.

I was cashiering at my place of work. I had to open and ran late. So I had no makeup, unstyled frizzy hair, terrible eyebags, disgusting fit, chapped lips and a bmi of 1000.

All the sudden in comes in this guy who is just my type, high mtn - chadlite. Immediately I want to run away to the back but I'm the only one that can cashier.

He ends up coming up to the register and I start ringing him up. Since I'm a r****d that likes to put myself through humiliation rituals I asked him if he was "Christmas shopping"

He proceeds to say "yes ma'am for my sister"

Ma'am?? Do I look that fucking old. I wanted to shoot myself. He called me ma'am TWICE. This dude was literally older than me because he was day drinking with a beer in his hand.

I make too much eye contact with the guy and fumble around awkwardly tried handing him his receipt and bag at the same time ???? And then he left. I will regret that day for the rest of my life. If I was a stacy I would've asked him for his number or something. I could tell he thought I was an absolute autistic subhuman. I will never see him again.

Aren't you like 14yo ?

 

[The cat from The Matrix]

Aren't you like 14yo ?

Tony i 19

 

[TonyDr]

Tony i 19

My bad, next time go upfront

 

[DarkAscender]

this guy who is just my type, high mtn - chadlite.

dnrd

 

[rand anon]

He proceeds to say "yes ma'am for my sister"

Ma'am?? Do I look that fucking old. I wanted to shoot myself. He called me ma'am TWICE. This dude was literally older than me

That wasn’t necessarily a snide on ur age, could’ve been a respect thing or maybe he’s southern. Ik I’ve called women I found attractive ma’am before lol

 

[The cat from The Matrix]

That wasn’t necessarily a snide on ur age, could’ve been a respect thing or maybe he’s southern. Ik I’ve called women I found attractive ma’am before lol

Could be, i worked in a place where it was like 90 percent tourists. Idk I just felt embarrassed

 

[rand anon]

Could be, i worked in a place where it was like 90 percent tourists. Idk I just felt embarrassed

Ur a girl, you’ll get other opportunities

 

[ImSubHumanLmfao]

high mtn - chadlite

Are you retarded?

That's WAYY too big of a jump.

 

[Deleted member 57571]

I have been beating myself up because of this everyday since this happened. This happened in like December.

I was cashiering at my place of work. I had to open and ran late. So I had no makeup, unstyled frizzy hair, terrible eyebags, disgusting fit, chapped lips and a bmi of 1000.

All the sudden in comes in this guy who is just my type, high mtn - chadlite. Immediately I want to run away to the back but I'm the only one that can cashier.

He ends up coming up to the register and I start ringing him up. Since I'm a r****d that likes to put myself through humiliation rituals I asked him if he was "Christmas shopping"

He proceeds to say "yes ma'am for my sister"

Ma'am?? Do I look that fucking old. I wanted to shoot myself. He called me ma'am TWICE. This dude was literally older than me because he was day drinking with a beer in his hand.

I make too much eye contact with the guy and fumble around awkwardly tried handing him his receipt and bag at the same time ???? And then he left. I will regret that day for the rest of my life. If I was a stacy I would've asked him for his number or something. I could tell he thought I was an absolute autistic subhuman. I will never see him again.

maybe he just wanted to be polite and doesnt know what else to call a cashier regardless of age he probably wont go like "yeah gurrrlllll "

 

[BimaxLaser]

maybe he just wanted to be polite and doesnt know what else to call a cashier regardless of age he probably wont go like "yeah gurrrlllll "

Or he thought she was old and ugly but was still respectful

 

[jkcwakcjw]

I have been beating myself up because of this everyday since this happened. This happened in like December.

I was cashiering at my place of work. I had to open and ran late. So I had no makeup, unstyled frizzy hair, terrible eyebags, disgusting fit, chapped lips and a bmi of 1000.

All the sudden in comes in this guy who is just my type, high mtn - chadlite. Immediately I want to run away to the back but I'm the only one that can cashier.

He ends up coming up to the register and I start ringing him up. Since I'm a r****d that likes to put myself through humiliation rituals I asked him if he was "Christmas shopping"

He proceeds to say "yes ma'am for my sister"

Ma'am?? Do I look that fucking old. I wanted to shoot myself. He called me ma'am TWICE. This dude was literally older than me because he was day drinking with a beer in his hand.

I make too much eye contact with the guy and fumble around awkwardly tried handing him his receipt and bag at the same time ???? And then he left. I will regret that day for the rest of my life. If I was a stacy I would've asked him for his number or something. I could tell he thought I was an absolute autistic subhuman. I will never see him again.

Gay?

 

[BimaxLaser]

Gay?

Girl

 

[jkcwakcjw]

Girl

Then idgaf

 

[BimaxLaser]

Then idgaf

n***a are you gay

 

[jkcwakcjw]

Then idgaf

Jk he might be southern or something.

Depends on the age gap and how old u both look

Ma’am is brutal - 20 years tier

 

[97baHater]

All the sudden in comes in this guy who is just my type, high mtn - chadlite

Sorry but I caged

 

[97baHater]

I have been beating myself up because of this everyday since this happened. This happened in like December.

I was cashiering at my place of work. I had to open and ran late. So I had no makeup, unstyled frizzy hair, terrible eyebags, disgusting fit, chapped lips and a bmi of 1000.

All the sudden in comes in this guy who is just my type, high mtn - chadlite. Immediately I want to run away to the back but I'm the only one that can cashier.

He ends up coming up to the register and I start ringing him up. Since I'm a r****d that likes to put myself through humiliation rituals I asked him if he was "Christmas shopping"

He proceeds to say "yes ma'am for my sister"

Ma'am?? Do I look that fucking old. I wanted to shoot myself. He called me ma'am TWICE. This dude was literally older than me because he was day drinking with a beer in his hand.

I make too much eye contact with the guy and fumble around awkwardly tried handing him his receipt and bag at the same time ???? And then he left. I will regret that day for the rest of my life. If I was a stacy I would've asked him for his number or something. I could tell he thought I was an absolute autistic subhuman. I will never see him again.

Brutal mang next time take shrooms

 

[jkcwakcjw]

n***a are you gay

 

[The cat from The Matrix]

Sorry but I caged

LET ME BE HYPERGAMOUS!!!! #PUNCHINGUP

 

[The cat from The Matrix]

Are you retarded?

That's WAYY too big of a jump.

Yeah I am

 

[97baHater]

LET ME BE HYPERGAMOUS!!!! #PUNCHINGUP

Wasn’t abt that ion care abt Muh hypergamy its the MTN-Chadlite range, how tf can you rate so badly

 

[The cat from The Matrix]

Wasn’t abt that ion care abt Muh hypergamy its the MTN-Chadlite range, how tf can you rate so badly

Mb I was high as Frick writing dat jeezzzuss