Discussion I might be cooked

[N30N]

I have been texting this girl for a while, but today the convos were getting deep and I really couldn't respond to them well at all so a buddy of mine helped me write up a few messages just to keep things moving, and she fucking deciphers the messages and breaks them down noting how that doesn't look like how I normally text. I might be fucked.

 

[Whitepill]

Dont put that much though into it lol
she clearly likes you

 

[Clone]

Dont put that much though into it lol
she clearly likes you

 

[N30N]

Dont put that much though into it lol
she clearly likes you

Bud it's actually stressing tf out of me even though she has made it BEYOND obvious how much she likes me. I just don't want to fumble

 

[Whitepill]

Bud it's actually stressing tf out of me even though she has made it BEYOND obvious how much she likes me. I just don't want to fumble

Fumbling doesnt exist man

 

[lemonpie]

she love you

 

[lemonpie]

we should force whitepill to be moderator

 

[N30N]

Fumbling doesnt exist man

I know but I'm not irrational for being nervous.

 

[N30N]

Fumbling doesnt exist man

Just like the way of nature is: she either likes you or not, but I'm still scared.

 

[Whitepill]

we should force whitepill to be moderator

y

 

[Whitepill]

I know but I'm not irrational for being nervous.

Just like the way of nature is: she either likes you or not, but I'm still scared.

doing fine
the only bad thing is being autistic (sign of bad genes) or ghosting

 

[lemonpie]

y

gut feeling

 

[Whitepill]

gut feeling

im good

 

[N30N]

doing fine
the only bad thing is being autistic (sign of bad genes) or ghosting

No I'm not doing either, but I don't want her to think I'm being disingenuous

 

[Whitepill]

No I'm not doing either, but I don't want her to think I'm being disingenuous

Fair enough
Just trust your gut be yourself (she likes you for yourself)

 

[N30N]

Fair enough
Just trust your gut be yourself (she likes you for yourself)

The one time bluepill is not cope

 

[Whitepill]

The one time bluepill is not cope

Its still blackpill

Be yourself is legit if GL (which you are)

 

[N30N]

Its still blackpill

Be yourself is legit if GL (which you are)

Well bluepill advice when applied to blackpill reality ig. As you've seen yourself, I'm just about a high mtn so it's not like I have this sealed and done.

 

[N30N]

Update: I locked in and basically resolved it and it is just about wrapping up with HER saying she feels bad and guily for me basically starting this shit.
Let's not jinx it but it should be good.

 

[Aryan]

I have been texting this girl for a while, but today the convos were getting deep and I really couldn't respond to them well at all so a buddy of mine helped me write up a few messages just to keep things moving, and she fucking deciphers the messages and breaks them down noting how that doesn't look like how I normally text. I might be fucked.

she likes you fir who u are , if u cant respond well than be it , just dont fake responses , u not pulling shawties atm , this a girl that likes u , moreover u using your friends responses and she figuring it out must gave increased your chances of fumbling , be honest with her , looks only make u likeable , not lovable ,main thing is Personality

 

[Kulture]

Don't be a victim of dry personality!!

 

[Kulture]

Don't be a victim of dry personality!!

I'm joking, but not joking! How's the in person scenarios looking?

 

[N30N]

I'm joking, but not joking! How's the in person scenarios looking?

Good, pretty good.

 

[RAJ GHRANDHICK]

brutal

 

[Kulture]

brutal

I'm ngl, I absolutely hate your avi! In general I hate scary movies and shit, and this is wild.

 

[RAJ GHRANDHICK]

I'm ngl, I absolutely hate your avi! In general I hate scary movies and shit, and this is wild.

its a german band member

 

[N30N]

Update: one of my friends got word that she's pretty upset about what I did and that it was obvious and I did a shitty job covering up my fault. I haven't texted her today either. It might be over.

 

[Kulture]

Update: one of my friends got word that she's pretty upset about what I did and that it was obvious and I did a shitty job covering up my fault. I haven't texted her today either. It might be over.

Don't worry, we got this! I'm the master of sweet talking, persuasion, and anything else in between! What I'm thinkin is that we use her friend as the messenger because ur girl should listen to the friend, and if the friend likes you enough, she can maybe throw in a few things for you! The thing is that the friend most likely will tell her about your interactions, so there's no need to ask her to relay any information. We need the friend to answer why exactly your girl is mad, and give us a gauge of how mad. Imo, she shouldn't be too mad that you didn't want to answer her deep questions unless they were answered with a direct lie. If that's the case, we'll change tactics. But first I would ask (the friend) why exactly is she mad, like did she not like the fact that you were using your friend, so it made it seem ingenuine, and after she answers I would say (talking to the friend) something about how you didn't know how to answer the questions, and how you weren't doing it to make her mad. It would be really helpful to know what the questions were, and how you responded to them, but I get it if they were really personal.

 

[rand anon]

Update: one of my friends got word that she's pretty upset about what I did and that it was obvious and I did a shitty job covering up my fault. I haven't texted her today either. It might be over.

You’ll hve more opportunities. Just learn from this and keep putting urself out there. If a girl rly likes u she won’t overanalyze and critique ur responses, or play games like not texting immediately if she’s free, not double texting etc. I can understand the neuroticism though cause I suffer from it too, as u gain more experience you’ll slowly stop overthinking with them

 

[RAJ GHRANDHICK]

Update: one of my friends got word that she's pretty upset about what I did and that it was obvious and I did a shitty job covering up my fault. I haven't texted her today either. It might be over.

could be bait ngl
she might want u to chase her or sum shit

 

[N30N]

Don't worry, we got this! I'm the master of sweet talking, persuasion, and anything else in between! What I'm thinkin is that we use her friend as the messenger because ur girl should listen to the friend, and if the friend likes you enough, she can maybe throw in a few things for you! The thing is that the friend most likely will tell her about your interactions, so there's no need to ask her to relay any information. We need the friend to answer why exactly your girl is mad, and give us a gauge of how mad. Imo, she shouldn't be too mad that you didn't want to answer her deep questions unless they were answered with a direct lie. If that's the case, we'll change tactics. But first I would ask (the friend) why exactly is she mad, like did she not like the fact that you were using your friend, so it made it seem ingenuine, and after she answers I would say (talking to the friend) something about how you didn't know how to answer the questions, and how you weren't doing it to make her mad. It would be really helpful to know what the questions were, and how you responded to them, but I get it if they were really personal.

I did make a cover up lie, that's the problem. I might just accept defeat this time.

 

[N30N]

You’ll hve more opportunities. Just learn from this and keep putting urself out there. If a girl rly likes u she won’t overanalyze and critique ur responses, or play games like not texting immediately if she’s free, not double texting etc. I can understand the neuroticism though cause I suffer from it too, as u gain more experience you’ll slowly stop overthinking with them

Thanks for this.

 

[N30N]

I just sent her an apology, if that doesn't work then she didn't like me.

 

[ayaladahan]

I have been texting this girl for a while, but today the convos were getting deep and I really couldn't respond to them well at all so a buddy of mine helped me write up a few messages just to keep things moving, and she fucking deciphers the messages and breaks them down noting how that doesn't look like how I normally text. I might be fucked.​

It probably feels like you're trying to make her obsessed with you.

 

[N30N]

Tldr: I saved it.