If she takes forever to reply saying "she is too busy,shy,awkward"

[ragnarok787]

She is not interested, move on u are subhuman to her and not priority. Woman will never say it upfront , sometimes she can compliment u back,give u attention, even flirt. It doesnt matter if u are considered conventionally attractive woman are very picky if she dont take her time of the day to respond or write first sometimes to at least say hi trust me she dont give a fuck,move on. This seems like such a obvious thing but man dont get it. If u feel doubt NEVER try

 

[ragnarok787]

@neymar @TonyDr @Spuffy @Randomized Shame @AuggyDauggy thoughts

 

[3links2]

Water

 

[3links2]

If she doesn't text you first after the conversation is ended shes not interested
if she doesn't make plans first she's not interested.

 

[ragnarok787]

Water

Trust me some people including me when i was young didnt and actually believed the words and not the actions

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

Fuck you @Imretarded?

 

[neymar]

Girls don’t even have hobbies

 

[3links2]

Trust me some people including me when i was young didnt and actually believed the words and not the actions

It's simple logic, since females are vastly more selective than guys, if u have to put in effort it's over

 

[ragnarok787]

Girls don’t even have hobbies

Most of them are stucked to phone screens 5 hours a day on social media and u are sayin u cant find few minutes of the day to talk? Bih please

 

[Fart Reaper]

She is not interested, move on u are subhuman to her and not priority. Woman will never say it upfront , sometimes she can compliment u back,give u attention, even flirt. It doesnt matter if u are considered conventionally attractive woman are very picky if she dont take her time of the day to respond or write first sometimes to at least say hi trust me she dont give a fuck,move on. This seems like such a obvious thing but man dont get it. If u feel doubt NEVER try

my friend tried adding n*****s on snap and talked to them just to loose interest, I asked him once to give me the phone so i can fix and i just typed lemme get em well lets just say n***a gut boxed by the girls next day, atleast he didnt snitch. but he did stare the fuck out of me when he got boxxed

 

[3links2]

my friend tried adding n*****s on snap and talked to them just to loose interest, I asked him once to give me the phone so i can fix and i just typed lemme get em well lets just say n***a gut boxed by the girls next day, atleast he didnt snitch. but he did stare the fuck out of me when he got boxxed

English?

 

[Xyn]

my friend tried adding n*****s on snap and talked to them just to loose interest, I asked him once to give me the phone so i can fix and i just typed lemme get em well lets just say n***a gut boxed by the girls next day, atleast he didnt snitch. but he did stare the fuck out of me when he got boxxed

n****r

 

[Fart Reaper]

n****r

sybau

 

[Randomized]

I agree with you. Obviously it depends on previous chats with her and so on, but overall it's a good rule of thumb.

 

[Deleted Member 87568]

@neymar @TonyDr @Spuffy @Randomized Shame @AuggyDauggy thoughts

Not one lie brotha

 

[Deleted Member 66632]

Girls don’t even have hobbies

have u ever talked to a girl irl, I can confirm most of us have hobbies

 

[lifelover]

have u ever talked to a girl irl, I can confirm most of us have hobbies

they think football and video games are superior male hobbies lmao

 

[Deleted Member 46433]

i agree with you. however, im a horrible texter and also lose my phone often. my phone is ALWAYS on do not disturb. even if i like a person, ill most likely leave them on read or delivered often. its not a good thing and i could work on it. so, i guess im not truly interested in anybody since i dont reply quickly

i do not want to text for hours. i dont like calls or facetimes that last ages. im not the best when it comes to online interactions. i prefer being with a person irl

 

[SevenColorCrystalBall]

If she doesn't text you first after the conversation is ended shes not interested
if she doesn't make plans first she's not interested.

I wait for the guy to text back cuz I get ghosted a lot

 

[Deleted Member 47925]

i prefer being with a person irl

Trvth

 

[SevenColorCrystalBall]

Most of them are stucked to phone screens 5 hours a day on social media and u are sayin u cant find few minutes of the day to talk? Bih please

Ever spent 5 hours playing a game and suddenly realized "Holy fuck time is real what am I supposed to do"

 

[zygos]

She is not interested, move on u are subhuman to her and not priority. Woman will never say it upfront , sometimes she can compliment u back,give u attention, even flirt. It doesnt matter if u are considered conventionally attractive woman are very picky if she dont take her time of the day to respond or write first sometimes to at least say hi trust me she dont give a fuck,move on. This seems like such a obvious thing but man dont get it. If u feel doubt NEVER try

Incorrectz

 

[tuberculosisinmybal]

True, got giga cucked by a foid I've been talking to thinking for weeks that she was really busy but then I saw that she was posting stories on IG but not responding me should've checked earlier but I don't use IG sadly should've stalked earlier

 

[tuberculosisinmybal]

True, got giga cucked by a foid I've been talking to thinking for weeks that she was really busy but then I saw that she was posting stories on IG but not responding me should've checked earlier but I don't use IG sadly should've stalked earlier

Even worse thing is that she was reposting TikTok's about some breakup how she misses her ex and "I don't regret treating men like shit" & "born in the right generation because I love cheating, lying, manipulation" girls are cruel ngl

 

[Randomized]

i agree with you. however, im a horrible texter and also lose my phone often. my phone is ALWAYS on do not disturb. even if i like a person, ill most likely leave them on read or delivered often. its not a good thing and i could work on it. so, i guess im not truly interested in anybody since i dont reply quickly

i do not want to text for hours. i dont like calls or facetimes that last ages. im not the best when it comes to online interactions. i prefer being with a person irl

I felt that way for the longest time until I met my current girlfriend. As weird as it is to say, when you find the one, you will notice you'd act differently than how you usually do. I'm still not very good at texting, but I got a lot better, I think solely because my girlfriend accidentally got me into the habit of texting back and everything.

I do agree with preferring in person. I think if you only (or mainly) speak to them in person and then dry every other time, it might be confusing to the person in question, though.

 

[ragnarok787]

i agree with you. however, im a horrible texter and also lose my phone often. my phone is ALWAYS on do not disturb. even if i like a person, ill most likely leave them on read or delivered often. its not a good thing and i could work on it. so, i guess im not truly interested in anybody since i dont reply quickly

i do not want to text for hours. i dont like calls or facetimes that last ages. im not the best when it comes to online interactions. i prefer being with a person irl

I understand that u suck at texting but If u really like the person u dont leave them on delivered and at least put a effort, introvert,anxious doesnt matter

U cant meet the person instantly anyways

 

[Decay]

Yeah, another thing is to avoid women who are prominent on social media. They’re only playing a game with you, they are difficult to talk to overall. Not from my own experience.

 

[Deleted Member 46433]

I felt that way for the longest time until I met my current girlfriend. As weird as it is to say, when you find the one, you will notice you'd act differently than how you usually do. I'm still not very good at texting, but I got a lot better, I think solely because my girlfriend accidentally got me into the habit of texting back and everything.

I do agree with preferring in person. I think if you only (or mainly) speak to them in person and then dry every other time, it might be confusing to the person in question, though.

oh i actually agree with you. all of this applies to somebody im "talking to," before dating, or somebody im just interested in. with my last actual relationship, i didnt feel this way at all however, during the relationship, i still sometimes would have problems with putting my phone away for hours and not checking it. but it was not as often. i blame adhd

 

[Deleted Member 46433]

I understand that u suck at texting but If u really like the person u dont leave them on delivered and at least put a effort, introvert,anxious doesnt matter

U cant meet the person instantly anyways

i get you and i agree. i just dont have a lifestyle where I can constantly check my phone or notifications. i give myself a few "free" hours, but i cannot go outside of those hours

however my hypothetical partner would know this if it were to ever happen. ideally, theyre not one to be clingy over text

 

[ragnarok787]

i get you and i agree. i just dont have a lifestyle where I can constantly check my phone or notifications. i give myself a few "free" hours, but i cannot go outside of those hours

however my partner would know this if it were to ever happen. ideally, theyre not one to be clingy over text

how u dont have a time for texting somebody u are interested ? it doesnt much of a time to give them few minutes of your day or to at least to left them on delivered

 

[Deleted Member 46433]

arent u a mod on incel forum ? how u dont have a time for texting somebody u are interested in

i just recently became a mod a couple weeks ago lol.

1. i am single. if i werent, i would not have as much time to be on here goofing around

2. i am able to do be a mod on here because i am not interested in anybody to date lol

i dont have the energy for some guy to be pissed at me for not responding to him (rightfully so i guess). it would not be ideal for either of us

 

[ragnarok787]

i just recently became a mod a couple weeks ago lol.

1. i am single. if i werent, i would not have as much time to be on here goofing around

2. i am able to do be a mod on here because i am not interested in anybody lol

i meant more like in general if u have time for your hobbies , u surely have enough time for your potential interest , thats why it always sound like an excuse to me when people say stuff like that

 

[Deleted Member 46433]

i meant more like in general if u have time for your hobbies , u surely have enough time for your potential interest , thats why it always sound like an excuse to me when people say that

my "hobbies" are more like commitments i made in my life: school, sports, family, job, etc etc. i cannot just quit these to make time for somebody who i am NOT even dating

when i would choose to call or text somebody uninterrupted for a period of time, i usually have to sacrifice studying, eating, or sleeping time. why would i want to sacrifice these things??

so, to clarify, i dont really have time for hobbies, just the things i *have* to do to get through life every day. when i have free time, id rather spend it alone than with a person who, again, i am not even dating. i do not wish to date anybody for these reasons, and many more unrelated ones. with my real partners and family, i will make sacrifices and make time for them, even if it inconveniences me greatly.

this is not the general person. i am speaking personally (so i guess im not really answering you). i actually am sacrificing my sleep right now so im going to go to bed!! goodnight and sweet dreams sorry for the lengthy answer; im very tired

 

[Deleted Member 46433]

i meant more like in general if u have time for your hobbies , u surely have enough time for your potential interest , thats why it always sound like an excuse to me when people say stuff like that

youre right though, it usually is an excuse

 

[Deleted Member 47925]

I unironically do this to everyone i know

 

[ragnarok787]

my "hobbies" are more like commitments i made in my life: school, sports, family, job, etc etc. i cannot just quit these to make time for somebody who i am NOT even dating

when i would choose to call or text somebody uninterrupted for a period of time, i usually have to sacrifice studying, eating, or sleeping time. why would i want to sacrifice these things??

so, to clarify, i dont really have time for hobbies, just the things i *have* to do to get through life every day. when i have free time, id rather spend it alone than with a person who, again, i am not even dating. i do not wish to date anybody for these reasons, and many more unrelated ones. with my real partners and family, i will make sacrifices and make time for them, even if it inconveniences me greatly.

this is not the general person. i am speaking personally (so i guess im not really answering you). i actually am sacrificing my sleep right now so im going to go to bed!! goodnight and sweet dreams sorry for the lengthy answer; im very tired

you dont have to do anything text 24/7 uniterrupted but at least show interest
it is your choice , if u are interested you will always find a little bit of time if u would rather spend your time doing your hobbies or be alone every single time - not saying u should completely stop doing what u love for person u are interested in , then that means u probably dont even like the person anyway that much. Also your schedule sounds very full so maybe u are just in the time of your life when u just dont have a time for dating anyone which is okey , in that case u should let other person know at the start imo . U dont have to feel guilty for not being able to talk to people because of your activities or preference for being alone unless you are close to the person so in that case it is understable just dont make them feel like it is something different than it is.

good nice and sleep well

 

[Deleted Member 46433]

you dont have to do anything, you dont have to sacrifice anything
it is your choice , if u are interested you will always find a little bit of time if u would rather spend your time doing your hobbies or be alone every single time - not saying u should completely stop doing what u love for person u are interested in , then that means that u probably dont even like the person anyway

i can find a little bit of time, but that is not enough for people who want to potentially be with you

ive actually never put myself in these situations because ive never been in a "talking stage". i already know i will hate it. so i cant really comment any more on if i "truly liked the person" because i have no experience with this

 

[ragnarok787]

i can find a little bit of time, but that is not enough for people who want to potentially be with you

ive actually never put myself in these situations because ive never been in a "talking stage". i already know i will hate it. so i cant really comment any more on if i "truly liked the person" because i have no experience with this

so u just dont feel comfortable over text cause u feel like it is not real , not engaging like in person and your life rn makes u unable to really give your all to the person even if u were potentially interested in them right ?

in that case it is nothing wrong, people will kinda hate u if u will leave them on read tho for sure makes them feel insignificant and ignored

 

[TonyDr]

She is not interested, move on u are subhuman to her and not priority. Woman will never say it upfront , sometimes she can compliment u back,give u attention, even flirt. It doesnt matter if u are considered conventionally attractive woman are very picky if she dont take her time of the day to respond or write first sometimes to at least say hi trust me she dont give a fuck,move on. This seems like such a obvious thing but man dont get it. If u feel doubt NEVER try

Yeah water most majority of women are glued to their phone, so if she need 24 hours to respond a text message, focus on other girls, she's not into you

 

[Deleted Member 46433]

so u just dont feel comfortable over text cause u feel like it is not real , not engaging like in person and your life rn makes u unable to really give your all to the person even if u were potentially interested in them right ?

sure

in that case it is nothing wrong, people will kinda hate u if u will leave them on read tho for sure makes them feel insignificant and ignored

yeah pretty much. i dont have interest to talk to boys so i dont have to worry

 

[Deleted Member 68760]

the catch is you start thinking differently when it's about you. not because you are "bluepilled" or stupid, but because the stakes + your brain chemistry are completely different then

just lol at these aspie rants. everyone is "blackpilled" when it's about random other people (these threads are mostly just projection, though)

 

[neymar]

have u ever talked to a girl irl, I can confirm most of us have hobbies

No y’all don’t lmao most of ur hobbies are social media and Netflix and only a few have hobbies

 

[neymar]

they think football and video games are superior male hobbies lmao

Becahse it is

 

[tuberculosisinmybal]

No y’all don’t lmao most of ur hobbies are social media and Netflix and only a few have hobbies

True every foid I know was checking their IG story likes every 23.8 seconds and sitting in their dms jfl

 

[neymar]

True every foid I know was checking their IG story likes every 23.8 seconds and sitting in their dms jfl

That girl thinks the women in her specific activities represent all women nah n***a most of them dont do shit. If ANYTHING maybe gym but not even that half the time

 

[lifelover]

Becahse it is

then make up and netflix are valid too

 

[neymar]

then make up and netflix are valid too

Nah

 

[lifelover]

Nah

 

[lifelover]

Im going to r**e you

im so scared

 

[Deleted Member 70398]

true, even if im super super busy ill still send a message saying that im busy lol

+ water thread