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If a guy breathing wrong or texting too many emojis ruins it for you, stop dating. You’re not chasing love you’re collecting temporary entertainment. Real attraction survives minor annoyances. If it doesn’t, you were never into him, you were into the optics.
People love to say “he gave me the ick” like it’s deep insight. It’s not. It’s your brain telling you you’re a shallow bitch. Relationships are messy. You’re going to see habits, sounds, and moods that aren’t cute. That’s called being around a human.
If normal behavior disgusts you, you don’t want partnership, you want perfection. That doesn’t exist. You’ll burn through decent people because you can’t tolerate reality. And then you ask yourself where all the good men are.
Grow the fuck up. Either learn to accept small flaws, or stay single. Getting the ick isn’t a personaity trait. it’s a sign that you’re not ready for real connection and that you should stay single. Stop fucking up perfectly normal people with your issues and depraved needs for validation.
People love to say “he gave me the ick” like it’s deep insight. It’s not. It’s your brain telling you you’re a shallow bitch. Relationships are messy. You’re going to see habits, sounds, and moods that aren’t cute. That’s called being around a human.
If normal behavior disgusts you, you don’t want partnership, you want perfection. That doesn’t exist. You’ll burn through decent people because you can’t tolerate reality. And then you ask yourself where all the good men are.
Grow the fuck up. Either learn to accept small flaws, or stay single. Getting the ick isn’t a personaity trait. it’s a sign that you’re not ready for real connection and that you should stay single. Stop fucking up perfectly normal people with your issues and depraved needs for validation.