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Is blackpill something you grow past?

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I've been relatively socially isolated irl for a while now, but I found company in people online

I found talking to them enjoyable, I liked how communication was anonymous and free of obligations. I could disappear just by closing the computer, it didn't require effort, no need to worry about consequences of being edgy, easier to find like minded people, so on...

These days I don't feel that anymore, I don't truly find myself enjoying conversation with my friends online (generally from blackpill communities). Mostly these days I've been doing a lot of other things.
I suppose I like the aspect on forums of just expressing thoughts and seeing reactions.. even if a place like this has people that generally wouldn't like me/the kind of guy I am too much, I find responses to be more heartfelt, genuine, effort, etc (as compared to the repetitive low effort shit on org)

I don't know.. I've drifted apart from pretty much all of my other friends. I feel like a level above most people here, whenever I try to talk about other issues they just drift it to girls women sex. I have to substitute other conversation topics with looks/sex/girls to communicate feelings often

But that's just unfulfilling. The only reason I don't completely delete my discord is one friend, honestly
Is this just me maturing? Something inevitable?
Or is my isolation getting stronger? I suppose considering how things have gone so far, it's inevitable that I will abandon communication on the internet too. That's life.
 
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n9wiff said:
No reason to completely abandon one aspect tbh

But maybe you are just changing, how old are you?
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20
Kulture said:
yes, you can and should grow away from a blackpilled mentality! Go be in a social setting, and talk to people.
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I socialized at the start of this year at uni. I can come across as a likeable guy irl, people find my jokes funny, and I act generally laid back. Fairly unique personality irl too. The people that I talked to
were nice people as well, no hate towards them. I got invited to parties, and the whole time at the party I was thinking, "damn, I wish I was back in my dorm doing x activity". When I talked to people, even when they liked me and I "liked" them, the conversations felt so forced and alien on my end. I got no enjoyment out of it.
 
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What's become most fun to me socialzing has been treating it like some kind of performance, trying to act a certain way that make people like me the most, laugh at my jokes, etc, it becomes a game that way.
But obviously that's no genuine bond.
It seems that that's what I mainly want to do, perform, talk at people and see them respond to me. You can say that this is all conversation and you are right
But you get what I mean, it's obviously so much self centered and almost like putting on a play or something.
 
cake said:
What's become most fun to me socialzing has been treating it like some kind of performance, trying to act a certain way that make people like me the most, laugh at my jokes, etc, it becomes a game that way.
But obviously that's no genuine bond.
It seems that that's what I mainly want to do, perform, talk at people and see them respond to me.
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the effects of being on forums tbh
Irreversible though ngl
 
cake said:
What's become most fun to me socialzing has been treating it like some kind of performance, trying to act a certain way that make people like me the most, laugh at my jokes, etc, it becomes a game that way.
But obviously that's no genuine bond.
It seems that that's what I mainly want to do, perform, talk at people and see them respond to me. You can say that this is all conversation and you are right
But you get what I mean, it's obviously so much self centered and almost like putting on a play or something.
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Parties are also not the ideal place to find real friends
 
Kulture said:
It's not permanent, any ideological beliefs are changeable. Hopefully @Whitepill was joking. :rolleyes:
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No
Blackpill is permanent and irreversible, as it is the realization of human nature
The only option is to become a monk if you cannot ascend and reintegrate
 
Whitepill said:
They still matter so much in 3rd world
But in violent 3rd worlds it matters slightly less
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If your in a slum nothing matters but money in poor community's money matters more than looks which is why blackpill is wrong and why appeal mogs both money and looks
 
Whitepill said:
No
Blackpill is permanent and irreversible, as it is the realization of human nature
The only option is to become a monk if you cannot ascend and reintegrate
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Pray tell, what is the actual definition of blackpill? Human nature and behavior is constantly being reevaluated!
 
Clone said:
If your in a slum nothing matters but money in poor community's money matters more than looks which is why blackpill is wrong and why appeal mogs both money and looks
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Looks still matter in the third world
You need good frame , height , muscularity. and need to look aggressive
I never said you had to be beautiful and good looking, but inimidating and high t
Appeal is also retarded, it doesnt exist
 
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Kulture said:
@cake I hope this turn of discussion is still helpful to you :LOL:
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I'm a decent looking guy, I've had women interested in me that I rejected
I tried a relationship with one girl I knew last summer and she disgusted me, things ended

I understand giving these perspectives to guys who are down in life. But I go to a good school, have a good future, not chad but not ugly and have my own appeal, can be charismatic irl, rich family... I have almost all of the "basics" in life.
None of it satisfied me
The happiest periods of my life have been when I was alone playing video games all day
 
Whitepill said:
Incorrect, thats just what people do top cope with the reality of it
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@Whitepill! You've never disagreed with me this much!! Blackpill is a belief!!! Nobody is born blackpilled! It is a mindset that is adopted by people whom have adopted a negative perception of the world! It is a perception and a cult that will die in the near future. The reality is that people will soon come to realize that being blackpilled is not a stable viewpoint, and i'm not also starting to theorize that it probably is related to depression.
 
Kulture said:
@Whitepill! You've never disagreed with me this much!! Blackpill is a belief!!! Nobody is born blackpilled! It is a mindset that is adopted by people whom have adopted a negative perception of the world! It is a perception and a cult that will die in the near future. The reality is that people will soon come to realize that being blackpilled is not a stable viewpoint, and i'm not also starting to theorize that it probably is related to depression.
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Blackpill is a term for nature / natural
Everyone is born with natural instincts and beliefs
 
Clone said:
How chad is too intimidating for women and if the chad is low appeal he's getting outdone by a appeal maxxed htn ez
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Chad is too intimidating
Only because they are scarwd of pump and dump
that doesnt make him less attractive
bruhhh
 
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