is clinginess , desperation or obsessiveness a turn off for women?

[32yearoldcel]

like , heres an example
- double texting within the same day
- calling multiple times in a row
-typing long paragraphs when u just got to know them or matched with them on a dating app
- telling them everything about yourself at the start

 

[choripan]

I would say it's scary man you are creeping them out

 

[32yearoldcel]

I would say it's scary man you are creeping them out

is it still scary if i matched with them on a dating app?
or if they approached me first

 

[choripan]

Yeah man is not normal
Attraction to you is not a free ticket unless you are true Adam or the girl is more mentally insane than you.
If you mentally insane mog a girl, she will freak out

 

[lemonpie]

like , heres an example
- double texting within the same day
- calling multiple times in a row
-typing long paragraphs when u just got to know them or matched with them on a dating app
- telling them everything about yourself at the start

thats just who you are, find a woman who also acts like this

 

[cake]

thats just who you are, find a woman who also acts like this

Only ugly bitches do

 

[lemonpie]

Only ugly bitches do

then choose between looks and personality

 

[cake]

then choose between looks and personality

Girls are only like that for chad tbh

 

[Genesyss]

I hate texting and phone calls so it's too much for me.

 

[32yearoldcel]

thats just who you are, find a woman who also acts like this

Only ugly bitches do

ok guys heres the thing , women do match with me on dating apps or approach

so my question is

if i want to keep my current girlfriend , or if god forbid she leaves me and i need a new one

should i avoid this behavior if gf is attractive and i only date attractive women or want women who are neurotypical

 

[lemonpie]

ok guys heres the thing , women do match with me on dating apps or approach

so my question is

if i want to keep my current girlfriend , or if god forbid she leaves me and i need a new one

should i avoid this behavior if gf is attractive and i only date attractive women or want women who are neurotypical

for what purpose do you even have a gf if you cant be comfortable around her?
i dont know about you but i would be pretty displeased if i couldnt be myself around my partner.
Does it bother you to not be like that or is it a compromise youre willing to make for the sake of the relationship?

 

[pompompurino]

somewhat, you can do some of these things… like type long responses to show interest BUT don’t make yourself too available. show interest but don’t be desperate, being desperate is a turnoff for both genders.

 

[estssmoking]

-typing long paragraphs when u just got to know them or matched with them on a dating app
- telling them everything about yourself at the start

this would really weird me out if i’ve just met someone. sure, be open, but not desperate. don’t put that person on a pedestal

 

[TonyTheLooksmaxxDR]

Duality of men : Mentally unstable creeps who drown in pussy VS sane guy who get zero bitches

And they say looks doesn't matter

 

[32yearoldcel]

for what purpose do you even have a gf if you cant be comfortable around her?
i dont know about you but i would be pretty displeased if i couldnt be myself around my partner.
Does it bother you to not be like that or is it a compromise youre willing to make for the sake of the relationship?

it bothers me but i dont think theres any other choice i have?

somewhat, you can do some of these things… like type long responses to show interest BUT don’t make yourself too available. show interest but don’t be desperate, being desperate is a turnoff for both genders.

like its a turnoff even if you look attractive , right?

Duality of men : Mentally unstable creeps who drown in pussy VS sane guy who get zero bitches

And they say looks doesn't matter

see , i do get women but im looking for something long term and this current method is leading to breakup after breakup and has made me really depressed

this would really weird me out if i’ve just met someone. sure, be open, but not desperate. don’t put that person on a pedestal

what if they called you 20 times in a row ?

 

[estssmoking]

what if they called you 20 times in a row ?

i’m gonna ghost them i fear