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~—• APATHEIA •—~
Is Inceldom Really Determined by a Few Millimeters of Bone? A Brief Summarization.
This post will summarize the contents of this research article from "The Nuancepill" 's substack. I highly recommend reading Nuancepills work if you are interested in learning the scientific truth of the "blackpill". All credit goes to Nuancepill.
If you are worried about the article linked here being a IP grabber, I will be more than willing to copy and paste these articles as separate posts on looksmaxxing.com if allowed.
Overall, 21 studies have been cited in the stated research article.
~—• Contents •—~
- A 16 bullet point summary of stated research article.
- Notable Quotes
- Personal Thoughts
~—• Introduction •—~
- Nuancepill has come to call those who support the view of the lookism blackpill as "morphological reductionists" or MR's for short. MR's view the blackpill as the truth, and that most men are being peddled "personality is key" lies.
- Critics who say they see plenty of ugly men in a relationship with women are often disregarded by MR's. MR's see the couple as an exception and say that the critic has spotted a "$ beta-buxx $".
- Nuancepill uses empirical scientific evidence to see if your looks are the cause of inceldom.
- Critics who say they see plenty of ugly men in a relationship with women are often disregarded by MR's. MR's see the couple as an exception and say that the critic has spotted a "$ beta-buxx $".
- Nuancepill uses empirical scientific evidence to see if your looks are the cause of inceldom.
~—• Do looks predict sexual experience? •—~
- Nuancepill curated 10 studies (Dates ranging from 1987 - 2022) and examined them to answer the question "do looks predict sexual experience"
- Studies correlations ranged from r = .03 to r = .35 (Very small to medium correlation)
- Weighted average effect size of r = 0.18, which is a small effect size.
- Studies correlations ranged from r = .03 to r = .35 (Very small to medium correlation)
- Weighted average effect size of r = 0.18, which is a small effect size.
~—• Timing of sexual initiation: Do more attractive men lose their virginity earlier on? •—~
~—• Conclusion •—~

This analysis suggests that it’s probably blue-pilled normies who are closer to the truth after all. While looks seem to have a noticeable effect, it’s not large, let alone all-encompassing. The overlap between the looks distributions of sexually experienced and inexperienced men is significantly greater than the separation.
- Correlation of attractiveness and age of loss of virginity only had a very, very small correlation.
- Nuancepill also references "datepsychology"'s research article on male attractiveness and sexual partner count, where the author found a weak correlation between the two variables. 44 studies were used in the article.
- Nuancepill states that there are a few limitations such as reliability of ratings and volcels who chose not to have sex until marriage due to religious reasons.
~—• Why is there so much hype around looks as a determinant of these outcomes when the association appears to be relatively modest at best? •—~
- Nuancepill comes up with the guess that blackpillers believe that looks matter more than the general public says, and also the "allure" of controversy and feeling prideful in knowing forbidden knowledge.
"To black pillers, their belief in the all-encompassing primacy of looks is arguably central to their identity as enlightened outsiders. Ironically, for many in these communities, it may be the only thing keeping their self-esteem from hitting rock bottom. This drive often precedes rational thought, however, leading to conclusions significantly more detached from reality than any that come from the ‘blue pilled normies’ they mock."
"Of course, the idea that ‘looks matter’ isn’t pure fantasy—people being attracted to attractive people is practically a tautology. However, looks seem to influence the ‘league’ one dates within more than whether one dates at all, as assortative mating shows a stronger correlation than other outcomes like those looked at here. Celibacy is not something that can be accurately measured by facial proportions."
~—• My Input •—~
Considering the fact that Nuancepill used empirical scientific evidence in this article, I will trust his word that is backed by studies more than a "brutal" blackpill theory that may post only one or two mediocre studies (Or none at all, as I have been seeing recently) to back their claim(s). Sometimes, at best, they will cherry-pick a "brutal" video/photo from social media as proof or use a personal anecdote, or a story from reddit.
In my opinion, you would most likely have to be in the bottom 5% of physical genetics and "SMV" to even be considered out of the dating game or "over" and therefore experience inceldom. As Nuancepill said, it is much more of a nihilistic coping mechanism, much more than reality.
And the lookism blackpill sphere is something I believe is now turning into just another grift space to mill courses and overpriced products to profit off from the easily influential youth, (just like the redpill sphere) where "looksmax" gurus come into play. (K. Shami, Clavicular, Salludon, Faceiq, Oscar Patel, Androgenic, Wheatwaffles, Qoves, Nero Angelo, etc.)
If anyone starts to sell a course, or any product for that matter, just understand that 99% of the time, they are no longer interested in telling you the truth anymore, they are there to make their product look desirable by whatever means possible to make as much $ money $ as possible. That is simply $ marketing 101 $. (Faceiq has already been exposed for just making up things on one of his YouTube videos.)
And so, they will parrot the blackpill as the one and only "truth" so you invest in their course, even though life is truly nuanced, not black and white.
However that is a topic for another post. I will make a future post about the blackpill/looksmax gurus.
The ones that hold the blackpill perspective mainly either become narcissistic and egotistical due to fitting or believing they fit into the "PSL" standards of being a "HTN+ / HTB+" and therefore being a "mogger/fogger," ("blackgymmax", "clavicular", "faceiq" for example) or the ones who do not fit the "PSL" standards may become extremely depressed and may eventually become shut-in and choose to live in the black fog of delusion until the day of their double jaw surgery appointment.
Does this mean to disregard looksmaxxing completely? In my opinion, probably not, more likely it is just another thing to add to your self-improvement routine. Studies have shown that dating is assortative, so if it is true, looksmaxxing would be for the purpose of influencing around a "looks/smv league" you previously were "not in", but then again, that is entirely nuanced territory and there is many other variables at play than just looks. However, more research would have to be done on my end to completely verify this. Thankfully, people such as Nuancepill and Datepsychology already do the paramount task of gathering studies and synthesizing them into accurate research articles.
Be wary of how much time you spend on these forums, "looksmaxxing", and on other related media as sunk cost fallacy will come into play.
I do not expect you to agree with everything I said in my input after all, some of it is just purely my opinion and maybe my words are too comforting and "bluepilled" for you, reader, but if you were to take away anything from my input, just remember: Real life is nuanced, not black and white, and that it only takes one.
Thank you for reading.
What are your thoughts, reader?
In my opinion, you would most likely have to be in the bottom 5% of physical genetics and "SMV" to even be considered out of the dating game or "over" and therefore experience inceldom. As Nuancepill said, it is much more of a nihilistic coping mechanism, much more than reality.
And the lookism blackpill sphere is something I believe is now turning into just another grift space to mill courses and overpriced products to profit off from the easily influential youth, (just like the redpill sphere) where "looksmax" gurus come into play. (K. Shami, Clavicular, Salludon, Faceiq, Oscar Patel, Androgenic, Wheatwaffles, Qoves, Nero Angelo, etc.)
If anyone starts to sell a course, or any product for that matter, just understand that 99% of the time, they are no longer interested in telling you the truth anymore, they are there to make their product look desirable by whatever means possible to make as much $ money $ as possible. That is simply $ marketing 101 $. (Faceiq has already been exposed for just making up things on one of his YouTube videos.)
And so, they will parrot the blackpill as the one and only "truth" so you invest in their course, even though life is truly nuanced, not black and white.
However that is a topic for another post. I will make a future post about the blackpill/looksmax gurus.
The ones that hold the blackpill perspective mainly either become narcissistic and egotistical due to fitting or believing they fit into the "PSL" standards of being a "HTN+ / HTB+" and therefore being a "mogger/fogger," ("blackgymmax", "clavicular", "faceiq" for example) or the ones who do not fit the "PSL" standards may become extremely depressed and may eventually become shut-in and choose to live in the black fog of delusion until the day of their double jaw surgery appointment.
Does this mean to disregard looksmaxxing completely? In my opinion, probably not, more likely it is just another thing to add to your self-improvement routine. Studies have shown that dating is assortative, so if it is true, looksmaxxing would be for the purpose of influencing around a "looks/smv league" you previously were "not in", but then again, that is entirely nuanced territory and there is many other variables at play than just looks. However, more research would have to be done on my end to completely verify this. Thankfully, people such as Nuancepill and Datepsychology already do the paramount task of gathering studies and synthesizing them into accurate research articles.
Be wary of how much time you spend on these forums, "looksmaxxing", and on other related media as sunk cost fallacy will come into play.
I do not expect you to agree with everything I said in my input after all, some of it is just purely my opinion and maybe my words are too comforting and "bluepilled" for you, reader, but if you were to take away anything from my input, just remember: Real life is nuanced, not black and white, and that it only takes one.
Thank you for reading.
What are your thoughts, reader?
~—• APATHEIA •—~
"...I have seen the beauty of good and the ugliness of evil..."
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