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[pompompurino]

is it truly an issue to show someone how much u care? im the type of person to be very vulnerable and open ab things w a person im fond of idk i just make it known

like is that rlly an issue
to be attached? isn’t that just natural when it comes to these things? im thinking a lot tonight

 

[swt]

it’s an issue, be a man.

 

[Toggle]

It's not. Don't take the user above me srsly

 

[Penalizer69]

Be careful with it. Don't show it immediately and take ur time

 

[pompompurino]

Be careful with it. Don't show it immediately and take ur time

i don’t tend to show it first or immediately, rather i reciprocate it ig not as strongly but i do
i think i should think more ab the things i say

 

[Deleted Member 46433]

its natural, but you shouldnt get ahead of yourself

 

[slopslinger]

it's taboo to say what u mean cause idk it just is. everyone has to go through the motions. if they're a real one you can speed up the process some tho.

 

[pompompurino]

its natural, but you shouldnt get ahead of yourself

i dont know if im overthinking or not, if i really do care too much or not, or if i am too attached or not
maybe i do get too ahead of myself, im not even sure anymore tbh

 

[pompompurino]

i think too much at night bruh

 

[Currycelloser]

is it truly an issue to show someone how much u care? im the type of person to be very vulnerable and open ab things w a person im fond of idk i just make it known

like is that rlly an issue
to be attached? isn’t that just natural when it comes to these things? im thinking a lot tonight

depends if u do that to a right person then thats good, but dont get caught caring abt some jerk

 

[Penalizer69]

Don't get attached early on ever

 

[Currycelloser]

is it truly an issue to show someone how much u care? im the type of person to be very vulnerable and open ab things w a person im fond of idk i just make it known

like is that rlly an issue
to be attached? isn’t that just natural when it comes to these things? im thinking a lot tonight

if i were, u i would make use of this ability and i will lovebomb everyone

 

[pompompurino]

Don't get attached early on ever

ts is like asking me to stop breathing
im a lovergirl it’s over for me na but fr ill try to fix this, stems from loneliness + insecurity

 

[pompompurino]

if i were, u i would make use of this ability and i will lovebomb everyone

im the lovebomb victim most of the time
TS WORKS ON ME TOO
I NEVER LEARN

 

[Penalizer69]

ts is like asking me to stop breathing
im a lovergirl it’s over for me na but fr ill try to fix this, stems from loneliness + insecurity

Nah I'm the same way you just have to remember you literally never know somebody especially early on

 

[pompompurino]

Nah I'm the same way you just have to remember you literally never know somebody especially early on

im too trusting tbh, i will remind myself of this
ty over0

 

[swanneo]

ugh i worry abt this a lot too i don't wanna come off too clingy

 

[pompompurino]

ugh i worry abt this a lot too i don't wanna come off too clingy

same i hate being seen as clingy i try not to b seen that way

 

[glamourpursuer]

is it truly an issue to show someone how much u care? im the type of person to be very vulnerable and open ab things w a person im fond of idk i just make it known

like is that rlly an issue
to be attached? isn’t that just natural when it comes to these things? im thinking a lot tonight

idk im the same

 

[pompompurino]

idk im the same

ts

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

Yes

 

[pompompurino]

Yes

why

 

[glamourpursuer]

ts

twins

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

why

It means exposing yourself to attacks, manipulation and even boredom because “I'm sure she likes me”

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

it’s part of your character, when and if you realise your value in a relationship, perhaps, you will learn to act differently

You have to learn to be more elusive
A couple of conversations are not enough to trust a person

 

[pompompurino]

It means exposing yourself to attacks, manipulation and even boredom because “I'm sure she likes me”

when would it be okay to show someone that u care then? why does it have to be a game?

 

[totalinceldeath]

im the type to not be vulnerable at all esp if i know they can hurt me. These n*****s prove my mindset every damn time if i do decide to show it

 

[Deleted Member 60441]

when would it be okay to show someone that u care then? why does it have to be a game?

Oh, I don't like games either, but...
Depends, you can show you care without implicitly communicating “I'm weak, hit me”


For example: don't say ‘I like you’, not right away

 

[pompompurino]

it’s part of your character, when and if you realise your value in a relationship, perhaps, you will learn to act differently

You have to learn to be more elusive
A couple of conversations are not enough to trust a person

ill do my best, i wont be getting into anything without learning my value + not being as naive

ur right

 

[TonyDr]

is it truly an issue to show someone how much u care? im the type of person to be very vulnerable and open ab things w a person im fond of idk i just make it known

like is that rlly an issue
to be attached? isn’t that just natural when it comes to these things? im thinking a lot tonight

No, but it's better when the other person also cares and appreciate and understands

 

[pompompurino]

Oh, I don't like games either, but...
Depends, you can show you care without implicitly communicating “I'm weak, hit me”


For example: don't say ‘I like you’, not right away

i feel like the times i’ve shown the most care and vulnerability is when i know the person is struggling or something, like i feel a need to b there for them and give them words of support and encouragement, let them know how much they mean to me
i think that’s where i struggle w this the most, in other situations i feel like i do ok with not being too open… you know?

 

[Deleted Member 73026]

it's not, I'm the complete opposite and I think it's weird if you don't show it