Serious Is love even real or is it a lie to cope with lust

[rope_maxxer]

Like i find myself generally avoiding like relationships because im scared of getting cheated on or connecting with someone and they leave like i have plenty of friends but i wouldn’t trust any of them to not betray me and find myself often feeling sick and throwing up due to the dread i find from knowing that even if i do find the perfect partner the love of my life even if i don’t think that they’d ever love me more than i love them i just feel like most people are incapable of unconditional love like that and i can’t even find any proof otherwise because everyone always lies, im really considering just saying goodbye because i really don’t think love like that exists at all. please help me.

 

[dior]

Like i find myself generally avoiding like relationships because im scared of getting cheated on or connecting with someone and they leave like i have plenty of friends but i wouldn’t trust any of them to not betray me and find myself often feeling sick and throwing up due to the dread i find from knowing that even if i do find the perfect partner the love of my life even if i don’t think that they’d ever love me more than i love them i just feel like most people are incapable of unconditional love like that and i can’t even find any proof otherwise because everyone always lies, im really considering just saying goodbye because i really don’t think love like that exists at all. please help me.

love isnt real

 

[isntnotrepellent]

Like i find myself generally avoiding like relationships because im scared of getting cheated on or connecting with someone and they leave like i have plenty of friends but i wouldn’t trust any of them to not betray me and find myself often feeling sick and throwing up due to the dread i find from knowing that even if i do find the perfect partner the love of my life even if i don’t think that they’d ever love me more than i love them i just feel like most people are incapable of unconditional love like that and i can’t even find any proof otherwise because everyone always lies, im really considering just saying goodbye because i really don’t think love like that exists at all. please help me.

Our love is too strong


(Brooklyn baby Lana del ray plays*)

 

[Blackpillirony]

Like i find myself generally avoiding like relationships because im scared of getting cheated on or connecting with someone and they leave like i have plenty of friends but i wouldn’t trust any of them to not betray me and find myself often feeling sick and throwing up due to the dread i find from knowing that even if i do find the perfect partner the love of my life even if i don’t think that they’d ever love me more than i love them i just feel like most people are incapable of unconditional love like that and i can’t even find any proof otherwise because everyone always lies, im really considering just saying goodbye because i really don’t think love like that exists at all. please help me.

Love is a sick twisted and cruel joke we tell each other so we can justify hurting those who get close to us, all we are is bullets

 

[Trevor]

Of course it's real

 

[rope_maxxer]

Of course it's real

how can u know

 

[Arya]

Like i find myself generally avoiding like relationships because im scared of getting cheated on or connecting with someone and they leave like i have plenty of friends but i wouldn’t trust any of them to not betray me and find myself often feeling sick and throwing up due to the dread i find from knowing that even if i do find the perfect partner the love of my life even if i don’t think that they’d ever love me more than i love them i just feel like most people are incapable of unconditional love like that and i can’t even find any proof otherwise because everyone always lies, im really considering just saying goodbye because i really don’t think love like that exists at all. please help me.

I feel like love is more of a vow to be together, you may not always feel ‘inlove’ but you have vowed to be there in sickness and in health, etc

You need to make sure the person you do this with is morally and mentally strong enough i dont think marriage and love is for everyone

 

[Motivated Dandelions]

Like i find myself generally avoiding like relationships because im scared of getting cheated on or connecting with someone and they leave like i have plenty of friends but i wouldn’t trust any of them to not betray me and find myself often feeling sick and throwing up due to the dread i find from knowing that even if i do find the perfect partner the love of my life even if i don’t think that they’d ever love me more than i love them i just feel like most people are incapable of unconditional love like that and i can’t even find any proof otherwise because everyone always lies, im really considering just saying goodbye because i really don’t think love like that exists at all. please help me.

You’re 100% correct, love does not exist. You can get close, but it’s impossible to experience true love.

I like what Zeta had to say about it

 

[rope_maxxer]

You’re 100% correct, love does not exist. You can get close, but it’s impossible to experience true love.

I like what Zeta had to say about it
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so then what’s the point of living alone what am i even waiting for.

 

[Motivated Dandelions]

so then what’s the point of living alone what am i even waiting for.

THE SUN WILL RISE AND WE WILL TRY AGAIN

 

[rope_maxxer]

THE SUN WILL RISE AND WE WILL TRY AGAIN

what’s the beauty in the sun rising if i’m alone when it sets.

 

[Trevor]

how can u know

Were born with romantic interest to the opposite gender our bodies are wired to create families and reproduce
Just look around there's happy families, guys enjoying there time with women, you see how they treat each other. I know you wanna believe the opposite cause ur lonely but love is real

 

[Penalizer69]

I don't feel lust

 

[rope_maxxer]

Were born with romantic interest to the opposite gender our bodies are wired to be create families and reproduce
Just look around there's happy families, guys enjoying there time with women, you see how they treat each other. I know you wanna believe the opposite cause ur lonely but love is real

when i look around every single relationship i’ve ever seen irl in my entire life has been fucking horrific, cheaters, liars, disrespectful partners, and at the end of the day i think the only thing that’s certain is i’ll be by myself when i die i hope god is real so i can joke about stuff with a kind of friend soon yk.

 

[Motivated Dandelions]

what’s the beauty in the sun rising if i’m alone when it sets.

The beauty is that you get to try again. Build yourself up, and one day love the man in the mirror

 

[rope_maxxer]

The beauty is that you get to try again. Build yourself up, and one day love the man in the mirror

even at my highest potential i’ll still be less then another person

 

[Thinasadime]

i think you just have mental problems tbh

love is just as real a feeling as joy or fear or sadness, it is made up of chemicals just as they are

plus nothing inherently to do with lust/sex you can love your dog without any connection to lust

 

[Motivated Dandelions]

even at my highest potential i’ll still be less then another person

First thing you’re gonna do: Hop on roids

 

[Motivated Dandelions]

i think you just have mental problems tbh

love is just as real a feeling as joy or fear or sadness, it is made up of chemicals just as they are

plus nothing inherently to do with lust/sex you can love your dog without any connection to lust

Let’s be real, 99% of people will never experience anything close to love. Especially people on this forum

 

[rope_maxxer]

First thing you’re gonna do: Hop on roids

no that’s the second thing, first is post on here

 

[Motivated Dandelions]

no that’s the second thing, first is post on here

You just gotta go through neurogenesis man. Ascend, get positive reinforcement, and you’re good

 

[foidslayer]

Like i find myself generally avoiding like relationships because im scared of getting cheated on or connecting with someone and they leave like i have plenty of friends but i wouldn’t trust any of them to not betray me and find myself often feeling sick and throwing up due to the dread i find from knowing that even if i do find the perfect partner the love of my life even if i don’t think that they’d ever love me more than i love them i just feel like most people are incapable of unconditional love like that and i can’t even find any proof otherwise because everyone always lies, im really considering just saying goodbye because i really don’t think love like that exists at all. please help me.

love has always been actions it isnt a feeling its how you act upon being w a person

 

[The Centipede]

Love money above all else.

 

[rope_maxxer]

You just gotta go through neurogenesis man. Ascend, get positive reinforcement, and you’re good

yeah even if i get perfect i know im gonna die by 35 anyway tho but while im here im gonna do everything i can to be perfect

 

[rope_maxxer]

love has always been actions it isnt a feeling its how you act upon being w a person

idk i always had a stupid idea that love was an expression of the soul but getting older i just realize most people are so afraid of others that they become evil almost

 

[foidslayer]

idk i always had a stupid idea that love was an expression of the soul but getting older i just realize most people are so afraid of others that they become evil almost

liking someone is the feeling loving someone is the action

 

[rope_maxxer]

Love money above all else.

this has always been difficult to me due to not being jewish

 

[Thinasadime]

Let’s be real, 99% of people will never experience anything close to love. Especially people on this forum

maybe not reciprocated (even though that seems extremey unlikely because of biological parental bonds, friendships)

but anyone with a working brain will experience the chemcal combination/surges/drops of love thousands of times (dopamine, norepinephrine, PEA, serotonin, oxytocin, vasopressin)

is actually pretty much impossible to completely avoid feeling love for biological reasons

 

[rope_maxxer]

liking someone is the feeling loving someone is the action

i just want to be important to someone yk like not even love just like having someone worry about where i am i feel like even my mom wouldn’t unconditionally

 

[foidslayer]

i just want to be important to someone yk like not even love just like having someone worry about where i am i feel like even my mom wouldn’t unconditionally

unfortunately everything is conditional you can't expect if you dont give

 

[rope_maxxer]

unfortunately everything is conditional you can't expect if you dont give

i like that answer thank you but i think i meant more like im worried no matter how perfect i am slowly i’ll stop being enough

 

[foidslayer]

i like that answer thank you but i think i meant more like im worried no matter how perfect i am slowly i’ll stop being enough

bro im gonna be honest w you its your life you're the main character in your life you shouldn't care ab others just try to be the best version of yourself and it'll be alright

 

[Thinasadime]

love has always been actions it isnt a feeling its how you act upon being w a person

not exactly

the triangular theory of love (specific to romantic love) states that love consists of intimacy (attachment/bonding), passion (drive/excitement), and commitment (decision/continuation)

the first two are "feelings' both directly related to 1. neurotransmitters and 2. biological needs (laso neurotransmitters, hormones) which relates to the drive reduction theory

commitment is the only action here and this + other actions would be results of "feelings"

 

[Thinasadime]

not exactly

the triangular theory of love (specific to romantic love) states that love consists of intimacy (attachment/bonding), passion (drive/excitement), and commitment (decision/continuation)

the first two are "feelings' both directly related to 1. neurotransmitters and 2. biological needs (laso neurotransmitters, hormones) which relates to the drive reduction theory

commitment is the only action here and this + other actions would be results of "feelings"

basically love is real and if it doesn't work out you just arent making their chemicals fire

 

[rope_maxxer]

basically love is real and if it doesn't work out you just arent making their chemicals fire

so i have to do roids basically (thanks for the advice it’s helping more than u know)

 

[foidslayer]

not exactly

the triangular theory of love (specific to romantic love) states that love consists of intimacy (attachment/bonding), passion (drive/excitement), and commitment (decision/continuation)

the first two are "feelings' both directly related to 1. neurotransmitters and 2. biological needs (laso neurotransmitters, hormones) which relates to the drive reduction theory

commitment is the only action here and this + other actions would be results of "feelings"

okay so let me get this straight

intimacy is action
commitment is actuon
excitement is derived from liking someone and enjoying their presence

love is still the action based on liking someone

 

[jkcwakcjw]

so i have to do roids basically (thanks for the advice it’s helping more than u know)

no bro getting muscles wont make ppl hormonally like u
its more looks and height and stuff like that

 

[Thinasadime]

okay so let me get this straight

intimacy is action
commitment is actuon
excitement is derived from liking someone and enjoying their presence

love is still the action based on liking someone

love is a feeling thats maintained by action

you can do loving actions while feeing nothing, that's not love

you can feel love and do nothing, that is still love

 

[rope_maxxer]

no bro getting muscles wont make ppl hormonally like u
its more looks and height and stuff like that

so take shots of retinol hgh and do meth?

 

[jkcwakcjw]

so take shots of retinol hgh and do meth?

idk abt that bro bc it depends on ur situation and stuff
but with that dangerous shit u should be really informed and really research and understand stuff on ur own
u could fuck up ur life if u dont do it properly
but yeah improving ur looks and height is the best step

 

[Thinasadime]

so i have to do roids basically (thanks for the advice it’s helping more than u know)

nah you just need an emotionlaly available person who is even slightly attractted to you and if youre rlly just a chud then just look up psychological features of attraction and go from there (can't say i reccomennd tho bc its highkey manipulative)