Trve, “maturing” is just accepting the fact you and most people are cucks and because of that, it’s okay to be a cuck
Example; bodies. Have you ever heard a girl say “who cares about body count as a grown adult”. Think about why the girl is saying this. It’s likely because it’s a high bc whore who doesn’t want to face reality. By believing this cope that her high bodycount doesn’t matter, it not only feels good, but if other people believed that same lie, it would directly benefit her life.
If a guy says the same thing, It’s probably because the girl they are with has a high body count, so they naturally believe this lie to feel better (pure cuck cope). The idea that body count doesn’t matter isn’t an obvious lie or weak idea and can actually be somewhat argued, so it is a genuine value that they hold close.
Of course if you know anything about women bodycount 100% matters, but I’m just saying that eventually when people “mature” they learn to choose the values in life that serve them.
Why would you wake up everyday and tell yourself that your girlfriend is a whore and because of that your relationship is going to fall apart due to her horrendous pair bonding abilities? You would definitely choose to cope and believe these numerous copes that bring you comfort, rather than spiking your cortisol over the fact that your girl is a whore and probably cheats on you, and because it’s 2025 this is the dating market, so even if you left her you’d struggle to find another girl and the chance she ISNT a whore is pretty low, so you are just fucked either way.