is talking about problems in a relationship even worth it

[swt]

is it even worth it? i feel like as man if i’m sitting here and talking about my feelings it’s so demasculating, it feels so soy or staged to do so because i’m already used to bottling it up

the problem is that bottling it up makes me aggressive, and if it won’t make me aggressive it just makes me colder and i do things that risk ending my relationship because i’m emotionally impulsive. i know if i do something dumb i’ll end up messing everything up but if i talk to her about it i might also mess everything up and kill the mystery in me that boosts my attractiveness, so genuinely what could i possibly do?

 

[swt]

bump

 

[Deleted Member 84486]

be yourself and this mysterious thing wont last.

 

[wsada]

if you cry to her and she doesnt care she not the one!! Type shit

 

[swt]

if you cry to her and she doesnt care she not the one!! Type shit

i wanna avoid displaying insecurity

 

[Penalizer69]

You need to mature and improve as a person before a relationship

 

[Cuckㅤ]

It's worth it, you don't get into a committed relationship by being a recluse.
This is how problems stir: you hold them in, don't say your needs, and create a spiral. Then the other person in the relationship is left clueless, maybe feeling small and not enough for you, and it will inevitably collapse. You can't be selfish in situations like this you need to be open and learn to adjust, or there will be no growth at all, no bonding at all.

 

[swt]

You need to mature and improve as a person before a relationship

i’m mature in a manner that i’m comprehensive , but i can’t act on it because i’m egotistical

i can’t be any better honestly

 

[Penalizer69]

i’m mature in a manner that i’m comprehensive , but i can’t act on it because i’m egotistical

i can’t be any better honestly

Cope you can always be better you just find it uncomfortable to try

 

[Deleted Member 46765]

4ler

 

[LDAR Warrior]

is it even worth it? i feel like as man if i’m sitting here and talking about my feelings it’s so demasculating, it feels so soy or staged to do so because i’m already used to bottling it up

the problem is that bottling it up makes me aggressive, and if it won’t make me aggressive it just makes me colder and i do things that risk ending my relationship because i’m emotionally impulsive. i know if i do something dumb i’ll end up messing everything up but if i talk to her about it i might also mess everything up and kill the mystery in me that boosts my attractiveness, so genuinely what could i possibly do?

js be yourself bro nobody can be or will be better than you be a bit mysterious but girls also like honest guys

 

[Deleted Member 78476]

lowk just cheat

 

[TonyDr]

if you cry to her and she doesnt care she not the one!! Type shit

Tbf it's a good shit test to see if she is wife material. Ain't no way your soulmate can't comfort you

 

[TonyDr]

is it even worth it? i feel like as man if i’m sitting here and talking about my feelings it’s so demasculating, it feels so soy or staged to do so because i’m already used to bottling it up

the problem is that bottling it up makes me aggressive, and if it won’t make me aggressive it just makes me colder and i do things that risk ending my relationship because i’m emotionally impulsive. i know if i do something dumb i’ll end up messing everything up but if i talk to her about it i might also mess everything up and kill the mystery in me that boosts my attractiveness, so genuinely what could i possibly do?

Be a man and share your feelings. She dgaf ? Move onen she's not the one

 

[oath]

if she thinks ur less of a man for showing emotion then shes not the one

 

[Stardust_]

is it even worth it? i feel like as man if i’m sitting here and talking about my feelings it’s so demasculating, it feels so soy or staged to do so because i’m already used to bottling it up

the problem is that bottling it up makes me aggressive, and if it won’t make me aggressive it just makes me colder and i do things that risk ending my relationship because i’m emotionally impulsive. i know if i do something dumb i’ll end up messing everything up but if i talk to her about it i might also mess everything up and kill the mystery in me that boosts my attractiveness, so genuinely what could i possibly do?

Yes it’s worth it, girls respect you more

 

[LDAR Warrior]

Be a man and share your feelings. She dgaf ? Move onen she's not the one

I just shot my shot on a 10/10 blonde girl from my school maybe she's the one. I'm a ltn but I bagged htb #notmyfirstrodeo

 

[acketar]

is it even worth it? i feel like as man if i’m sitting here and talking about my feelings it’s so demasculating, it feels so soy or staged to do so because i’m already used to bottling it up

the problem is that bottling it up makes me aggressive, and if it won’t make me aggressive it just makes me colder and i do things that risk ending my relationship because i’m emotionally impulsive. i know if i do something dumb i’ll end up messing everything up but if i talk to her about it i might also mess everything up and kill the mystery in me that boosts my attractiveness, so genuinely what could i possibly do?

anybody who cant sympathize with your emotions isnt mature enough to be interacting with you, so lowkey yeah its worth it but dont share everything you think or feel with everyone because you'll get made fun of for

 

[Ruin]

I just shot my shot on a 10/10 blonde girl from my school maybe she's the one. I'm a ltn but I bagged htb #notmyfirstrodeo