Discussion is the only way to find comfort as an Incel to rope or cope?

[real got.daim]

if you cant ascend, the best thing you could do is either,

rope, or cope, you can easily cope by shit posting on the forum (like me)

or take the other route, and just rope, I try to make the best out of my shitty situation,

but sometimes the first option is really, really tempting, i wouldn't have to suffer anymore,

the only downside is that I would miss my cat

 

[BigDihDiddy]

Tbh whenever I try to rope my sharp jawline slices that shit like it’s a katana

I even tried with metal wire but even then that shit was chopped

 

[我愛羅]

Or just uhm, live life?

 

[real got.daim]

Or just uhm, live life?

live.. life...?

you want someone, to act like everything is fine in their life?

like they don't get strange looks, people moving away in disgust,

just because of the way I look?

me missing out on job opportunities because of the way I look like,

yeah, it would be nice to just, "live life" but sadly, not everyone has the privilege to live a normal life

 

[Stardust_]

if you cant ascend, the best thing you could do is either,

rope, or cope, you can easily cope by shit posting on the forum (like me)

or take the other route, and just rope, I try to make the best out of my shitty situation,

but sometimes the first option is really, really tempting, i wouldn't have to suffer anymore,

the only downside is that I would miss my cat

Message me if you want to talk

 

[我愛羅]

live.. life...?

you want someone, to act like everything is fine in their life?

like they don't get strange looks, people moving away in disgust,

just because of the way I look?

me missing out on job opportunities because of the way I look like,

yeah, it would be nice to just, "live life" but sadly, not everyone has the privilege to live a normal life

No one is doing this. The world doesn’t revolve around you. Even if they do give you strange looks how does it affect you. Are you even sure you’ve missed out on job opportunities or was it your unbearable personality, your lack of answers to questions. Stop trying to blame the world for your problems and pessimistic way of thinking. You say not everyone has the privilege to live a normal life, which yeah not everyone does; but I know it’s not because of your looks. It’s probably because you haven’t made an effort. If you have, of course I’d take it into consideration but what I’ve seen from you it does not look like so.

 

[Stardust_]

if you cant ascend, the best thing you could do is either,

rope, or cope, you can easily cope by shit posting on the forum (like me)

or take the other route, and just rope, I try to make the best out of my shitty situation,

but sometimes the first option is really, really tempting, i wouldn't have to suffer anymore,

the only downside is that I would miss my cat

Can you not see how that org place has made you feel like shit, sorry to be so harsh but 85% of users there want you to be miserable, nobody is an incel irl if they have the chance to change and be a decent person. They may even find love but if you don’t, who’s to say that you haven’t got good things about you anyway?

 

[rand anon]

the first option is too scary for me, low inhib activities

 

[real got.daim]

No one is doing this. The world doesn’t revolve around you.

I'll record the next time I go onto a train then, just to disprove you

Even if they do give you strange looks how does it affect you.

it makes me feel like shit, isn't this obvious

Are you even sure you’ve missed out on job opportunities or was it your unbearable personality,

yes, a co-worked confirmed it
I'm not saying hollow words

It’s probably because you haven’t made an effort. If you have, of course I’d take it into consideration but what I’ve seen from you it does not look like so.

no, I've given up already
I have tried, and I got rejected,
after 20, long, painful years im fed up

 

[我愛羅]

I'll record the next time I go onto a train then, just to disprove you

If that’s what you want but I don’t think I need “proof” of such.

it makes me feel like shit, isn't this obvious

Sorry, that was a bit mean of me. I understand it can you make you feel negatively about yourself…is there nothing positive in your life that can make you think differently?

yes, a co-worked confirmed it
I'm not saying hollow words

What exactly did the co-worker say? That’s only one instance not all. Have you EVER had a job before?

no, I've given up already
I have tried, and I got rejected,
after 20, long, painful years im fed up

Keep going, I have faith in you.

I wish to see how you look. It’s fine if you don’t because you speak so lowly of yourself.

 

[real got.daim]

Can you not see how that org place has made you feel like shit

majority of the stuff I've talked about I found out myself

nobody is an incel irl if they have the chance to change and be a decent person

I'm deformed, the only person I feel who actually cares about my existence on a personal level is Gengar, someone who also suffers from deformities

the first option is too scary for me, low inhib activities

same, even though I've tried multiple times

 

[real got.daim]

Sorry, that was a bit mean of me. I understand it can you make you feel negatively about yourself…is there nothing positive in your life that can make you think differently?

no, the only thing that brings me any sliver of joy is talking to gengar or my cat

What exactly did the co-worker say? That’s only one instance not all. Have you EVER had a job before?

I've had multiple jobs, and I was catching up with a co-worker after not seeing him for a while, he got a couple promotions since I left the company and we were talking about how our manager always shit talked me because of my looks and had it out for me because he had a deep hatred of everything about me (my voice, my old acne, etc)

Keep going, I have faith in you.

zero point

I wish to see how you look. It’s fine if you don’t because you speak so lowly of yourself.

no

 

[rand anon]

same, even though I've tried multiple times

don't try it again


mirin ur inhib though, find a way to channel it to cold approaching

 

[我愛羅]

no, the only thing that brings me any sliver of joy is talking to gengar or my cat

That’s atleast something, no?

I've had multiple jobs, and I was catching up with a co-worker after not seeing him for a while, he got a couple promotions since I left the company and we were talking about how our manager always shit talked me because of my looks and had it out for me because he had a deep hatred of everything about me (my voice, my old acne, etc)

But that is just one situation…clearly he was a jerk if another person is speaking negatively about him..

 

[real got.daim]

That’s atleast something, no?

I hardly get to talk to him, and I hardly spend time with my cat

But that is just one situation…clearly he was a jerk if another person is speaking negatively about him..

it has happened multiple times, with multiple different companies, again, nothing changes, there's no point

 

[我愛羅]

I hardly get to talk to him, and I hardly spend time with my cat

How come? For you cat I mean. I understand Gengar because I actually talk to him often too. You can talk to me, I’m not always on because I actually have been trying to dial back from associating with this community but I’m always open to talk and listen to you. Even if u may come off as rude. You don’t have to accept this offer.

it has happened multiple times, with multiple different companies, again, nothing changes, there's no point

Then what do you expect to do? How do you expect to live? Are you just going to kill yourself? What other solutions do you have? I cannot convince you only you can, but maybe if I can make you think differently just a little bit it’d make me feel nice.

 

[real got.daim]

For you cat

hes fat and lazy, hes always sleeping in his litter box and I need to clean him all the time

plus he does backflips off my bed in the middle of the night, and I don't have the guts to make him sleep outside of my room

he sleeps all day and doesn't want to do anything with me unless its that golden hour where were both awake

have been trying to dial back from associating with this community

why

You can talk to me

how old are you

Then what do you expect to do? How do you expect to live? Are you just going to kill yourself? What other solutions do you have? I cannot convince you only you can, but maybe if I can make you think differently just a little bit it’d make me feel nice.

I'm living comfortably now, I don't have to use my face for work anymore and its all skill based, and from home

 

[我愛羅]

hes fat and lazy, hes always sleeping in his litter box and I need to clean him all the time

plus he does backflips off my bed in the middle of the night, and I don't have the guts to make him sleep outside of my room

he sleeps all day and doesn't want to do anything with me unless its that golden hour where were both awake

Hmmm, maybe a dog or another animal would be nice? Although I’m not sure of your financial situation haha.

why

I don’t agree with a lot of things here, and the community is not the best.

how old are you

I’m a freshman, why?

I'm living comfortably now, I don't have to use my face for work anymore and its all skill based, and from home

That’s good, atleast you are managing somehow. You should try going outside more often. Interacting with nature can improve your mood!

 

[real got.daim]

Hmmm, maybe a dog or another animal would be nice? Although I’m not sure of your financial situation haha.

no.

I’m a freshman, why?

I'm 28, sorry

That’s good, atleast you are managing somehow. You should try going outside more often. Interacting with nature can improve your mood!

I do go out in nature a lot, I like rowing in lakes

 

[jkcwakcjw]

better path ahead
live your life in true joy now
dont dwell on all that

 

[我愛羅]

no.

Whyyyy?!??

I'm 28, sorry

It’s fine, lol.

I do go out in nature a lot, I like rowing in lakes

That’s good! What else is something you like?

 

[real got.daim]

Whyyyy?!??

personal reasons

That’s good! What else is something you like?

I like movies shows media overall

 

[Deleted Member 71100]

if you cant ascend, the best thing you could do is either,

rope, or cope, you can easily cope by shit posting on the forum (like me)

or take the other route, and just rope, I try to make the best out of my shitty situation,

but sometimes the first option is really, really tempting, i wouldn't have to suffer anymore,

the only downside is that I would miss my cat

Being ugly is shit but it can’t be the only reason to do those things

 

[我愛羅]

personal reasons

(( Well atleast it was a try.

I like movies shows media overall

I like movies too! What’s one of your favorites

 

[Deleted Member 68232]

No one is doing this. The world doesn’t revolve around you. Even if they do give you strange looks how does it affect you. Are you even sure you’ve missed out on job opportunities or was it your unbearable personality, your lack of answers to questions. Stop trying to blame the world for your problems and pessimistic way of thinking. You say not everyone has the privilege to live a normal life, which yeah not everyone does; but I know it’s not because of your looks. It’s probably because you haven’t made an effort. If you have, of course I’d take it into consideration but what I’ve seen from you it does not look like so.

I’m sorry but it is mainly looks

 

[real got.daim]

I like movies too! What’s one of your favorites

taxi driver

 

[Stardust_]

How come? For you cat I mean. I understand Gengar because I actually talk to him often too. You can talk to me, I’m not always on because I actually have been trying to dial back from associating with this community but I’m always open to talk and listen to you. Even if u may come off as rude. You don’t have to accept this offer.

Then what do you expect to do? How do you expect to live? Are you just going to kill yourself? What other solutions do you have? I cannot convince you only you can, but maybe if I can make you think differently just a little bit it’d make me feel nice.

I trust him too, @real got.daim maybe surrounding yourself with nice people is the way forward instead of people who make you angry all the time

 

[Stardust_]

no.

I'm 28, sorry

I do go out in nature a lot, I like rowing in lakes

You are 28???

 

[real got.daim]

You are 28???

yes