ive lost all hope

[Aryy]

i dont think i can ever be a social person irl, even if i feel comfortable enough to talk im weird in a sense i dont know what im saying, i dont know what to say, im nervous

 

[foidmogger]

just find a tiny community irl this could possibly be something religious or based on traveling or whatever

 

[Aryy]

just find a tiny community irl this could possibly be something religious or based on traveling or whatever

even if i have friends, thats not my problem i just cant like do much stuff social wise on my own idk

 

[knightmaxxer]

even if i have friends, thats not my problem i just cant like do much stuff social wise on my own idk

like you CANT or you dont want to

 

[foidmogger]

even if i have friends, thats not my problem i just cant like do much stuff social wise on my own idk

then its just not your thing and you are intraverted just like me

 

[zero]

i dont think i can ever be a social person irl,

too real, i genuinely cannot interact withh people irl it makes me feel sick, i have no idea how i got a gf

 

[drchad]

understandable but its possible just needa confidencemaxx

by forcing ur self into social situations daily for years building social expirence and fixing any issues about ur self u might be insecure abt holding u back socially , starting fresh socially after that might even help

Plus mental confidence and actually tryna believe it i guess

I cant lie u gotta actually just feel comfortable and act human and nt, laughing, keeping eye contact, cracking jokes, feeling loose with ur movements, looking comfortable and laid back, speaking loudly and semi often

Might take a while but possible if ur determined

This might all sound retarded and not make sense idk

 

[Aryy]

like you CANT or you dont want to

i cant
even if i try to do it i get so nervous, like idk i get paranoia and so much anxiety in the moment
i dont know why im like this, im the shyest person ive met

 

[Nbernical]

Just invite me to your server already

 

[zero]

Just invite me to your server already

arya dont inv pls

 

[zero]

arya dont inv pls

i hate ur server ngl

 

[Aryy]

understandable but its possible just needa confidencemaxx

by forcing ur self into social situations daily for years building social expirence and fixing any issues about ur self u might be insecure abt holding u back socially , starting fresh socially after that might even help

Plus mental confidence and actually tryna believe it i guess

I cant lie u gotta actually just feel comfortable and act human and nt, laughing, keeping eye contact, cracking jokes, feeling loose with ur movements, looking comfortable and laid back, speaking loudly and semi often

Might take a while but possible if ur determined

This might all sound retarded and not make sense idk

it does, its just hard to imagine scared to fuck things up

 

[Aryy]

Just invite me to your server already

I thought bpi alr invited u, he said

 

[Nbernical]

I thought bpi alr invited u, he said

He didn't

 

[zero]

He didn't

ill invite you if you let me use a stalin avi without getting mad at me
youve been fed propaganda stalins chill

 

[knightmaxxer]

i cant
even if i try to do it i get so nervous, like idk i get paranoia and so much anxiety in the moment
i dont know why im like this, im the shyest person ive met

eh, i used to sorta be like this. genuinely the only therapy is exposure you just gotta force yourself to socialise

 

[Superior]

i dont think i can ever be a social person irl, even if i feel comfortable enough to talk im weird in a sense i dont know what im saying, i dont know what to say, im nervous

it's okay to be different

 

[Dzitsu]

Go to therapy and get a diagnosis

 

[Superior]

i dont think i can ever be a social person irl, even if i feel comfortable enough to talk im weird in a sense i dont know what im saying, i dont know what to say, im nervous

it's okay to be different

 

[Aryy]

Go to therapy and get a diagnosis

what would it even be, i dont want to be a diagnosed with anything anyways

 

[Dzitsu]

what would it even be, i dont want to be a diagnosed with anything anyways

I wanna say autism or some anxiety disorder but im really not sure. Also a diagnosis can help u deal with the issue and get better, dont give up keep trying to improve until u have no other options to try

 

[drchad]

it does, its just hard to imagine scared to fuck things up

I mean thats what i also mean u have to genuinely force ntmaxxing , nt n*****s dont give a fuck, they forget about the moment and just crack another joke that lands 3 seconds later and just be nt and happy, they low inhib or something so it just doesnt hold them down

Gotta learn to let shit go and be able to land on ur face and make mistakes in the beginning but keep moving on cause it really i promise doesnt matter, peoples opinions or whatever it is doesnt matter we all dying tbh

 

[</3]

i dont think i can ever be a social person irl, even if i feel comfortable enough to talk im weird in a sense i dont know what im saying, i dont know what to say, im nervous

show yourself in public only at functions for free alcohol and leave theory

 

[foidmogger]

ill invite you if you let me use a stalin avi without getting mad at me
youve been fed propaganda stalins chill