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ok so i got broken up with and i respect her decision and all we js weren't meant for eachother i had great memories w her but why do women have to be so rude about it i lowkirkenuinely got called every bad thing from the dictionary and got called words i never knew existed even tho somehow i was the best bf ever a day ago (I still don't know what i did) and then blocked with no explanation then my friend shows me her note and shes posting about having to let me go or some shit and im still here clueless ab what i did; which i really wanna know so i can atleast know where i was wrong to fix it and change myself for the better but idk what tf should i do im acc clueless
 
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ok so i got broken up with and i respect her decision and all we js weren't meant for eachother i had great memories w her but why do women have to be so rude about it i lowkirkenuinely got called every bad thing from the dictionary and got called words i never knew existed even tho somehow i was the best bf ever a day ago (I still don't know what i did) and then blocked with no explanation then my friend shows me her note and shes posting about having to let me go or some shit and im still here clueless ab what i did; which i really wanna know so i can atleast know where i was wrong to fix it and change myself for the better but idk what tf should i do im acc clueless
jbg is law dude, u ahve to learn it the hard way
 
ok so i got broken up with and i respect her decision and all we js weren't meant for eachother i had great memories w her but why do women have to be so rude about it i lowkirkenuinely got called every bad thing from the dictionary and got called words i never knew existed even tho somehow i was the best bf ever a day ago (I still don't know what i did) and then blocked with no explanation then my friend shows me her note and shes posting about having to let me go or some shit and im still here clueless ab what i did; which i really wanna know so i can atleast know where i was wrong to fix it and change myself for the better but idk what tf should i do im acc clueless
forget abt her, thinking abt her is stupid atp
 
jbg is law dude, u ahve to learn it the hard way
i mean i went out the same day and a girl asked for my number #flex #yallaintonmylevel (joking love y'all)
 
forget abt her, thinking abt her is stupid atp
honestly im just wanting to improve so i dont repeat the same mistakes on someone else but i genuinely don't know what i did
 
i mean i went out the same day and a girl asked for my number #flex #yallaintonmylevel (joking love y'all)
im happy for u bro =D but they all the same genetically, u cant change the human nature
 
im happy for u bro =D but they all the same genetically, u cant change the human nature
Do women mature when they grow up? i see alot of middle aged womem still being entitled and annoying, so im worried about marrying someone in the future because that's just not who i want raising my kids (obviously not all women but most from what ive seen)
 
honestly im just wanting to improve so i dont repeat the same mistakes on someone else but i genuinely don't know what i did
most girls are random heavily work with emotions and change constantly, so its def not u but her
 
Do women mature when they grow up? i see alot of middle aged womem still being entitled and annoying, so im worried about marrying someone in the future because that's just not who i want raising my kids (obviously not all women but most from what ive seen)
if u realy want one just go to countrys with normal culture were women werent already raised to be dumasses
 
most girls are random heavily work with emotions and change constantly, so its def not u but her
im not gonna lie i have wronged her sometimes but we did communicate and i fixed what i did and according to her we resolved the stuff
 
Do women mature when they grow up? i see alot of middle aged womem still being entitled and annoying, so im worried about marrying someone in the future because that's just not who i want raising my kids (obviously not all women but most from what ive seen)
not really, they are made to stay as grown children so men can please them and take care of them, thats why they like dimorphic men bc its a sign of safety and protection and they need it the most
 
if u realy want one just go to countrys with normal culture were women werent already raised to be dumasses
like east europe?
 
not really, they are made to stay as grown children so men can please them and take care of them, thats why they like dimorphic men bc its a sign of safety and protection and they need it the most
yea fuck ts im becoming gei
 
There’s one of two reasons
A flip switched she’s turned off and sees u as a disposed trash
Or she is trying to mentally detach by being a bitch
 
im not gonna lie i have wronged her sometimes but we did communicate and i fixed what i did and according to her we resolved the stuff
their brain work different, she might say smth but believe smth else and dont forget she might be influenced by her friends or family who knows
 
There’s one of two reasons
A flip switched she’s turned off and sees u as a disposed trash
Or she is trying to mentally detach by being a bitch
and probably her hg that hates me had an effect on her
 
their brain work different, she might say smth but believe smth else and dont forget she might be influenced by her friends or family who knows
i genuinely wish her the best and im still like new to going out with girls and dating so i dont really have much experience shes the first girl i ever went on a date with (im a highschooler that first planned to keep to myself until marriage and now im exploring options because hopefully im gonna marry someone early while in university if my projects generate enough income)
 
i genuinely wish her the best and im still like new to going out with girls and dating so i dont really have much experience shes the first girl i ever went on a date with (im a highschooler that first planned to keep to myself until marriage and now im exploring options because hopefully im gonna marry someone early while in university if my projects generate enough income)
since ya in high school focus on urself other than women, even tho teenage love seem so wanted but to love someone u have to love urself first, so spoil urself love it and take care of it before doing that to someone else
 
since ya in high school focus on urself other than women, even tho teenage love seem so wanted but to love someone u have to love urself first, so spoil urself love it and take care of it before doing that to someone else
yea and honestly it leaves alot of unnecessary and unwanted scars
 
People don't give closure. It's good to look back at the relationship, see what you both did wrong, and what you did right.
 
like east europe?
Idk where you're from but seriously speaking I don't think Eastern European girls are any better. Maybe culture/traditions/cooking wise yea but a lot are gold diggers or players. from all the friends I've had I think it's better u stay far away for both your peace, mental health and wallet
 
Only read the first sentence, but if you were Chad she wouldn’t have rejected u
i didn't get rejected, i was in a full blown relationship
Idk where you're from but seriously speaking I don't think Eastern European girls are any better. Maybe culture/traditions/cooking wise yea but a lot are gold diggers or players. from all the friends I've had I think it's better u stay far away for both your peace, mental health and wallet
Anyways I'm sorry to hear what happened to you, I hope you get better
i appreciate this piece of advice alot thank you for letting me know
 
i didn't get rejected, i was in a full blown relationship


i appreciate this piece of advice alot thank you for letting me know
well you know what i mean, she wouldn't have broken up with you because you are too valuable for her
 
well you know what i mean, she wouldn't have broken up with you because you are too valuable for her
looks attract, personality keeps. it's always been like that; you can't build a family solely out of looks.
 

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