Low Prospects

[RhodoniteRed]

How the fuck am I gonna get hired if my real name is here and I don't have a Dominican working ID? Like am I destined to spend the res tof my life in mom's basment or homeless on the street probably smoking drugs?

 

[slopslinger]

ughh I feel your pain atp I might just redownload Grindr and make some money that way

 

[moggerofhumanity]

How the fuck am I gonna get hired if my real name is here

I don’t think your employers will know. If you’re concerned tho, you can try your luck asking Dean or the mods to remove the post containing your name.

 

[Randomized Shame]

How do you get a 'Dominican working ID'? I guess the first step would be to apply for one and go through the process it takes to get one, if possible.

I would go through your post history, find out where your name is and remove it if possible. I'm surprised you would share your full legal name here to begin with. If it's just your first name then it's unlikely they'll find it.

 

[RhodoniteRed]

How do you get a 'Dominican working ID'? I guess the first step would be to apply for one and go through the process it takes to get one, if possible.

I would go through your post history, find out where your name is and remove it if possible. I'm surprised you would share your full legal name here to begin with. If it's just your first name then it's unlikely they'll find it.

I didn't share it, but I probably pissed off someone and they might have spread around my pics plus one of my old emails was hacked last year

 

[Randomized Shame]

I didn't share it, but I probably pissed off someone and they might have spread around my pics plus one of my old emails was hacked last year

Are they NSFW or of you doing something that an employer would be disgusted by? Most women post photos of themselves on the internet, most of the time in lewd contexts like wearing a small bikini, and survive employment.

I'm not saying what you're saying is irrational, I don't know your situation and I believe you when you say it might be a risk, but it's about the statistical likelihood of it happening. If there's a 70%+ chance that someone might send it to your employer, then I would be a bit hesitant, but I can't imagine you being that high of a target.

Don't share who your employer is if you did get hired. If the images are not too graphic, it's cringe but you'll probably survive. Working provides a type of freedom that's hard to understand if you've never been employed before. Having your own money, having something to do during the day, having routine, getting out of the house more often, having people you interact with the real world, etc., can be valuable assets to someone who does not already have or do these things. The risk is probably worth it, but it's for you to decide mainly.

 

[RhodoniteRed]

Are they NSFW or of you doing something that an employer would be disgusted by? Most women post photos of themselves on the internet, most of the time in lewd contexts like wearing a small bikini, and survive employment.

I'm not saying what you're saying is irrational, I don't know your situation and I believe you when you say it might be a risk, but it's about the statistical likelihood of it happening. If there's a 70%+ chance that someone might send it to your employer, then I would be a bit hesitant, but I can't imagine you being that high of a target.

Don't share who your employer is if you did get hired. If the images are not too graphic, it's cringe but you'll probably survive. Working provides a type of freedom that's hard to understand if you've never been employed before. Having your own money, having something to do during the day, having routine, getting out of the house more often, having people you interact with the real world, etc., can be valuable assets to someone who does not already have or do these things. The risk is probably worth it, but it's for you to decide mainly.

They are fairly tame and mostly wannarexic type of shit, but my post history is so horrendous that I'm basically a huge red flag to anyone looking for a reliable person, and I have also been in many dramas and other petty or extremely disgusting things on Discord

 

[Randomized Shame]

They are fairly tame and mostly wannarexic type of shit, but my post history is so horrendous that I'm basically a huge red flag to anyone looking for a reliable person, and I have also been in many dramas and other petty or extremely disgusting things on Discord

Worst case scenario is you don't get hired, which is fine because you already don't have a job and/or don't depend on your own income, or you do get hired and they find out and then you get fired, at that point it means you got some experience of dealing with the real world which isn't a horrible thing.

If I were in your shoes, I'd be a bit scared. So I get why it doesn't seem like an appealing option for you, especially if you get your housing, food and other expenses paid for by someone else already. But you should want to become self sufficient eventually, because situations change often.

 

[RhodoniteRed]

Worst case scenario is you don't get hired, which is fine because you already don't have a job and/or don't depend on your own income, or you do get hired and they find out and then you get fired, at that point it means you got some experience of dealing with the real world which isn't a horrible thing.

If I were in your shoes, I'd be a bit scared. So I get why it doesn't seem like an appealing option for you, especially if you get your housing, food and other expenses paid for by someone else already. But you should want to become self sufficient eventually, because situations change often.

Its pretty important that I become self-sufficient because I need atleast 100K saved by I'm 23 and also my mom is disabled so someone has to take care of her needs and expenses when she gets older

 

[neymar]

Why ur names here dumbass

 

[RhodoniteRed]

Why ur names here dumbass

I just suspect it is cuz my pic is here and I'm fairly easy to recognize

 

[zygos]

How the fuck am I gonna get hired if my real name is here and I don't have a Dominican working ID? Like am I destined to spend the res tof my life in mom's basment or homeless on the street probably smoking drugs?

Bacon egg n cheese cheese cheese cheese cheese

 

[sup]

when i was looking for employment, i nuked accounts that i felt being associated with me irl would just be counter productive.

however, let’s say you do not wanna do that…
- change privacy settings on every account you don’t want super accessible, remove or edit content that is still available publicly
- create a new email for work related things, and only use it for that
- changing usernames to something less recognizable or consistent. i use a different username for every single site i use personally
- from now on, avoid posting non-edited photos of your face publicly. use only new photos for work profiles/email. assuming somebody hates you enough, your photos and accounts are already publicly archived. this includes photo metadata, which will be linked to you directly. i recommend looking into how to strip metadata from photos/videos.
- if you are questioned directly by your employer, you have plausible deniability ASSUMING you followed previous steps AND removed this post. don’t share any accounts with anyone irl you dont want sent to ur employer. especially coworkers

 

[RhodoniteRed]

when i was looking for employment, i nuked accounts that i felt being associated with me irl would just be counter productive.

however, let’s say you do not wanna do that…
- change privacy settings on every account you don’t want super accessible, remove or edit content that is still available publicly
- create a new email for work related things, and only use it for that
- changing usernames to something less recognizable or consistent. i use a different username for every single site i use personally
- from now on, avoid posting non-edited photos of your face publicly. use only new photos for work profiles/email. assuming somebody hates you enough, your photos and accounts are already publicly archived. this includes photo metadata, which will be linked to you directly. i recommend looking into how to strip metadata from photos/videos.
- if you are questioned directly by your employer, you have plausible deniability ASSUMING you followed previous steps AND removed this post. don’t share any accounts with anyone irl you dont want sent to ur employer. especially coworkers

Thank you so fucking much