Rage Men hypocrisy

[chillgirl]

jfl at men complaining about us only wanting chad and then basically treating as worthy only above average women.
I feel like the reason about the 20-80% paradox is that men just settle for average and below average women because of their physiological need to have sex (their sex drive is much stronger than ours, and honestly we fraud hard with makeup and styling) , but they don’t actually like and appreciate them.
I think the main difference about these two genders (both naturally superficial ), is that a woman can idealize a normal guy and actually see him as the hottest thing in the world, while men only fall in love with what they’re seeing (unless it’s like , they’re first love or they’re completely desperate).
This is prolly water, but holy I need some girls to talk about this with.

I wanna say that I’m not actually mad at men or anything, I’m not the kind of girls that hates men, it’s just human nature I guess, but still frustrating .

 

[isimostar]

I personally don't value women at all if they are not Margaret Qualley.

 

[chillgirl]

I personally don't value women at all if they are not Margaret Qualley.

actually high T choice

 

[Deleted Member 70339]

Gurl wan chad

Boy wan stacy

 

[repented]

Gender wars will forever be a thing because the other gender does not know how to be the other gender or understand it as much as one. I understand this is just a complaint and it’s probably been on your mind for a while, but convincing someone who will stick with their ideology is like talking to a wall. So, if a man complains about that the best option would be to disregard it. Each man is their own person, so just focus on you.

 

[isimostar]

actually high T choice

She's the only girl in the world to me

 

[chillgirl]

Gender wars will forever be a thing because the other gender does not know how to be the other gender or understand it as much as one. I understand this is just a complaint and it’s probably been on your mind for a while, but convincing someone who will stick with their ideology is like talking to a wall. So, if a man complains about that the best option would be to disregard it. Each man is their own person, so just focus on you.

you’re right, I just wanted to share my frustration to collect new perspectives, I think we all have our own struggles and complaints and I’m open to all point of views

 

[swanneo]

i do think men can fall in love with chopped girls genuinely not just for sex, i think they can feel emotions too (?) maybe... it really depends on the guy. i can fall into men hating a lot but i don't want to generalize them.

 

[repented]

you’re right, I just wanted to share my frustration to collect new perspectives, I think we all have our own struggles and complaints and I’m open to all point of views

I didn’t mean to give you the thought of you’re right, haha. Just wanted to share my thoughts alongside you, because I also agree with you— everyone is a bit of a hypocrite, no?

 

[chillgirl]

I didn’t mean to give you the thought of you’re right, haha. Just wanted to share my thoughts alongside you, because I also agree with you— everyone is a bit of a hypocrite, no?

yeah yeah I know, but you were right so

 

[Deleted Member 76281]

i do think men can fall in love with chopped girls genuinely not just for sex, i think they can feel emotions too (?) maybe... it really depends on the guy. i can fall into men hating a lot but i don't want to generalize them.

A lot of it stems from guys interfering with other guys aswell. Judas hung himself with his own rope type of vibe. When I was 15, this girl and I were for sure heads over heels for each other. However, my closest friend at the time who’s kinda one of those popular jocks kept telling me she was “ugly” and that it “doesn’t count.” I listened to him and lost a great opportunity, however that doesn’t excuse the fact that it was my fault for listening to him.

Anyways, a lot of guys do it to themselves, and their friends. I wish everyone was more civil.

 

[swanneo]

A lot of it stems from guys interfering with other guys aswell. Judas hung himself with his own rope type of vibe. When I was 15, this girl and I were for sure heads over heels for each other. However, my closest friend at the time who’s kinda one of those popular jocks kept telling me she was “ugly” and that it “doesn’t count.” I listened to him and lost a great opportunity, however that doesn’t excuse the fact that it was my fault for listening to him.

Anyways, a lot of guys do it to themselves, and their friends. I wish everyone was more civil.

that's terrible. i do think guys probably speak badly of their friends' girlfriends lookwise. we girls are more like sure he looks a bit ugly but if you're happy... i think. i would never interfere in stuff like that unless a bf is treating her poorly. also, teenagers are stupid a lot of the times but maybe u have that feeling of lost first love which sucks haha

 

[based god gigi]

Men typically do things for male validation. They do things to make their friends laugh, to make their friends feel good, things that their friends approve of. A man would never date a girl that his whole friend group wouldn't date.

I'm not saying women dont do this either but I do see it happen more often with men than with women, because women seek male validation as well due to the construct that we've established.

@Smallville creds tbh

 

[mxri]

The faces killing me why nobody gaf

 

[Deleted Member 76281]

Men typically do things for male validation. They do things to make their friends laugh, to make their friends feel good, things that their friends approve of. A man would never date a girl that his whole friend group wouldn't date.

I'm not saying women dont do this either but I do see it happen more often with men than with women, because women seek male validation as well due to the construct that we've established.

@Smallville creds tbh

Yes this is very true. Conformity. It’s very difficult to fight against because the need to fit in is one that many strive for, but it causes
more harm than good more often than not.

 

[chillgirl]

The faces killing me why nobody gaf

pardon?

 

[faithful]

some men but theres different ones.

 

[chillgirl]

some men but theres different ones.

For example? What do you think about it?

 

[Aion]

jfl at men complaining about us only wanting chad and then basically treating as worthy only above average women.
I feel like the reason about the 20-80% paradox is that men just settle for average and below average women because of their physiological need to have sex (their sex drive is much stronger than ours, and honestly we fraud hard with makeup and styling) , but they don’t actually like and appreciate them.
I think the main difference about these two genders (both naturally superficial ), is that a woman can idealize a normal guy and actually see him as the hottest thing in the world, while men only fall in love with what they’re seeing (unless it’s like , they’re first love or they’re completely desperate).
This is prolly water, but holy I need some girls to talk about this with.

I wanna say that I’m not actually mad at men or anything, I’m not the kind of girls that hates men, it’s just human nature I guess, but still frustrating .

You’re calling men shallow while admitting you invest thousands in cosmetics and styling, whose nature is that? You put in the emotional labor to look your best, then get upset when men appreciate it. Hard to blame the viewers for applauding the spectacle.

Also interesting interesting claim about first love being the exception. Care to explain why so many women stay hung up on their exes even years later? If women were truly "idealizing normal guys," you’d have no trouble moving on when he turns out to be just normal.

 

[mxri]

You’re calling men shallow while admitting you invest thousands in cosmetics and styling, whose nature is that? You put in the emotional labor to look your best, then get upset when men appreciate it. Hard to blame the viewers for applauding the spectacle.

Also interesting interesting claim about first love being the exception. Care to explain why so many women stay hung up on their exes even years later? If women were truly "idealizing normal guys," you’d have no trouble moving on when he turns out to be just normal.

I know far too many women that would refuse a man as short as them/ as out of shape/ same looks level in comparison to men I know whod accept

Op is in her heartbrocken xxxtentacion phase and blaming men now

 

[chillgirl]

both men and women are shallow, I’m just saying that it’s not true that we have it better than men. We’re both kinda in the same boat, in fact, when the idealization phase fades we’re as superficial as you guys (I explicitly said I’m not hating on men)

 

[chillgirl]

I know far too many women that would refuse a man as short as them/ as out of shape/ same looks level in comparison to men I know whod accept

Op is in her heartbrocken xxxtentacion phase and blaming men now

I personally don’t care about height that much , and I’m not going out there pretending to date someone who’s out of my league.
X is peak tho , and I’m kind of avoiding any relationship rn cause I’m painfully insecure…I wouldn’t say I’m heartbroken, I’m just sharing my experience.

 

[Deleted Member 76332]

I personally don’t care about height that much , and I’m not going out there pretending to date someone who’s out of my league.
X is peak tho , and I’m kind of avoiding any relationship rn cause I’m painfully insecure…I wouldn’t say I’m heartbroken, I’m just sharing my experience.

tbh you make great points and any guy who wouldn't get with a girl bc they're not the beauty standard deserves to be in the position that they're in. how are you gonna feel the exact same way and then replicate that behaviour and pass that poison onto someone else. the cycle is endless and vicious, having a partner is 1% sex and 99% patience and understanding. most of the time, for me anyway, I've been in situations where i could get with girls who are gorgeous to me, because i actually don't put my own insecurities onto other people and i notice that they push away because of their own insecurities, I was told once by this girl in college that she was actually into me too but she didn't go for me because she thought that she was worthless because she weighed 30-40 pounds overweight and by then she'd moved to australia, at first i thought it was cause i was chopped, sometimes men, well men 99% of the time need to brainmaxx instead of looksmaxx... like let's use critical thinking here. (yea someone may be 'chopped' at the time you meet them, but that doesn't mean you can't come together as ONE and lift each other up so.. yeah idk

sometimes you have to make your own destiny, or just get really lucky and hope you meet someone that couldn't give af about other peoples looks... most of the time they're too busy hating on themselves.

thats just mee thoo

(oh and most of the time if men only go for 10/10s it's cause they're using that woman as an extension of themselves, to make themselves feel better, but a real man wont be like that) so yea

 

[chillgirl]

tbh you make great points and any guy who wouldn't get with a girl bc they're not the beauty standard deserves to be in the position that they're in. how are you gonna feel the exact same way and then replicate that behaviour and pass that poison onto someone else. the cycle is endless and vicious, having a partner is 1% sex and 99% patience and understanding. most of the time, for me anyway, I've been in situations where i could get with girls who are gorgeous to me, because i actually don't put my own insecurities onto other people and i notice that they push away because of their own insecurities, I was told once by this girl in college that she was actually into me too but she didn't go for me because she thought that she was worthless because she weighed 30-40 pounds overweight and by then she'd moved to australia, at first i thought it was cause i was chopped, sometimes men, well men 99% of the time need to brainmaxx instead of looksmaxx... like let's use critical thinking here. (yea someone may be 'chopped' at the time you meet them, but that doesn't mean you can't come together as ONE and lift each other up so.. yeah idk

sometimes you have to make your own destiny, or just get really lucky and hope you meet someone that couldn't give af about other peoples looks... most of the time they're too busy hating on themselves.

thats just mee thoo

(oh and most of the time if men only go for 10/10s it's cause they're using that woman as an extension of themselves, to make themselves feel better, but a real man wont be like that) so yea

you sound like a very mature and smart guy ngl

 

[Deleted Member 76332]

you sound like a very mature and smart guy ngl

i mean yeah i guess, most people are they just get caught up in things that they can't control
i only have time to hate myself, there's no room for anything else when the world is already miserable enough

 

[chillgirl]

i mean yeah i guess, most people are they just get caught up in things that they can't control
i only have time to hate myself, there's no room for anything else when the world is already miserable enough

you just perfectly described how I feel about all of this. Being hateful and pessimistic is useless, people shouldn’t worry about things they can’t control, and rather focus on what they can change in better.

 

[Deleted Member 76281]

you just perfectly described how I feel about all of this. Being hateful and pessimistic is useless, people shouldn’t worry about things they can’t control, and rather focus on what they can change in better.

Whitepill!

 

[Aion]

you just perfectly described how I feel about all of this. Being hateful and pessimistic is useless, people shouldn’t worry about things they can’t control, and rather focus on what they can change in better.

You’re petrified of being looked down on, so you preemptively bury any man who dares look up, death by a thousand disclaimers. And Verk already mourned himself alive, scripting a eulogy where your only company is self-loathing. Preaching patience and understanding, but the only patient witness here is the void you both keep digging.

Between your height quip and his self-hate, you two make a perfect ecosystem of despair, one digs trenches of doubt, the other starves on hopelessness. You tell yourselves "hate is useless," yet you feed on it like addicts nursing a final hit. But maybe that’s the truth neither of you want to face, you're not victims of the world, you're just exactly where you belong. Stop victimizing yourselves

 

[Deleted Member 76332]

You’re petrified of being looked down on, so you preemptively bury any man who dares look up, death by a thousand disclaimers. And Verk already mourned himself alive, scripting a eulogy where your only company is self-loathing. Preaching patience and understanding, but the only patient witness here is the void you both keep digging.

Between your height quip and his self-hate, you two make a perfect ecosystem of despair, one digs trenches of doubt, the other starves on hopelessness. You tell yourselves "hate is useless," yet you feed on it like addicts nursing a final hit. But maybe that’s the truth neither of you want to face, you're not victims of the world, you're just exactly where you belong. Stop victimizing yourselves

I'm the architect of my own situation, and coming to terms with that and having hope isn't an endless exercise that loops back around. Accepting who you truly are, and knowing what people lack, humanity and humility is the only true intrinsic value to this whole mindless drivel. I can still hate myself and know It to be false, I can feel ugly and know it to be false. Two things can be true at the same time, and only with that outlook society will really get anywhere. Everyone here is the product of their own design, blaming it on other people when 99% of them feel the same way is the void. putting yourself in uncomfortable situations is the only way we can inspire a societal change where people talk to each other honestly, and, if that to you isn't facing the truth, then maybe you're the true victim here, soul caught dead in a trap, beauty on the outside while rotting on the inside.

 

[Aion]

I'm the architect of my own situation, and coming to terms with that and having hope isn't an endless exercise that loops back around. Accepting who you truly are, and knowing what people lack, humanity and humility is the only true intrinsic value to this whole mindless drivel. I can still hate myself and know It to be false, I can feel ugly and know it to be false. Two things can be true at the same time, and only with that outlook society will really get anywhere. Everyone here is the product of their own design, blaming it on other people when 99% of them feel the same way is the void. putting yourself in uncomfortable situations is the only way we can inspire a societal change where people talk to each other honestly, and, if that to you isn't facing the truth, then maybe you're the true victim here, soul caught dead in a trap, beauty on the outside while rotting on the inside.

You speak like a man who’s found peace, yet every sentence screams that you're still begging for meaning. You say you're the architect of your own situation but then blame “humanity,” for lacking humility. You say you feel ugly and know it to be false then write entire essays convincing yourself you’re more than what you see in the mirror. You have rationalized your despair and coated it so elegantly by calling it hope.

You’ve wrapped your pain in poetry, and your loneliness in moral theory. But none of it changes the fact that you’re still here speaking to strangers, trying to prove that you’ve accepted yourself. If that were true, you needn’t say a word.

So no, you're not the architect. You’re not even the ruins.

 

[Deleted Member 76332]

You speak like a man who’s found peace, yet every sentence screams that you're still begging for meaning. You say you're the architect of your own situation but then blame “humanity,” for lacking humility. You say you feel ugly and know it to be false then write entire essays convincing yourself you’re more than what you see in the mirror. You have rationalized your despair and coated it so elegantly by calling it hope.

You’ve wrapped your pain in poetry, and your loneliness in moral theory. But none of it changes the fact that you’re still here speaking to strangers, trying to prove that you’ve accepted yourself. If that were true, you needn’t say a word.

So no, you're not the architect. You’re not even the ruins.

You think calling vulnerability a performance makes you insightful, but all i see is someone who's more comfortable dissecting other peoples healing than confronting their own pain. You talk about poetry like it's a mask, maybe cause you've never had the guts to use language to feel, only to belittle. You say I'm a contradiction but at least I'm honest. You say I'm not the architect without ever even having handled a tool.

You're not here to build, you're here to watch, because it's easier to sneer at someone trying to construct something out of pain than having to admit you're still standing in the rubble, calling it a throne.

If speaking to strangers affects you so much, maybe go talk to a mirror.

 

[Glamour]

dnr

 

[chillgirl]

I'm the architect of my own situation, and coming to terms with that and having hope isn't an endless exercise that loops back around. Accepting who you truly are, and knowing what people lack, humanity and humility is the only true intrinsic value to this whole mindless drivel. I can still hate myself and know It to be false, I can feel ugly and know it to be false. Two things can be true at the same time, and only with that outlook society will really get anywhere. Everyone here is the product of their own design, blaming it on other people when 99% of them feel the same way is the void. putting yourself in uncomfortable situations is the only way we can inspire a societal change where people talk to each other honestly, and, if that to you isn't facing the truth, then maybe you're the true victim here, soul caught dead in a trap, beauty on the outside while rotting on the inside.

I mean, I’m pretty sure that everyone that acknowledged the truth about reality has his own way to cope honestly, we’re all victims and “bad guys” for ourselves and the others at the same time. Life is overall unpredictable, cruel and ruthless, what do you want me to do exactly…?

 

[zombiebeatz2006]

dnr

 

[chillgirl]

dnr

sorry I’m a newgen and english is not my first language, what does it mean?

 

[zombiebeatz2006]

sorry I’m a newgen and english is not my first language, what does it mean?

that i didnt read your shitass thread

 

[chillgirl]

that i didnt read your shitass thread

it wasn’t really meant for male users btw, but k

 

[cindythetvisleaking]

jfl at men complaining about us only wanting chad and then basically treating as worthy only above average women.
I feel like the reason about the 20-80% paradox is that men just settle for average and below average women because of their physiological need to have sex (their sex drive is much stronger than ours, and honestly we fraud hard with makeup and styling) , but they don’t actually like and appreciate them.
I think the main difference about these two genders (both naturally superficial ), is that a woman can idealize a normal guy and actually see him as the hottest thing in the world, while men only fall in love with what they’re seeing (unless it’s like , they’re first love or they’re completely desperate).
This is prolly water, but holy I need some girls to talk about this with.

I wanna say that I’m not actually mad at men or anything, I’m not the kind of girls that hates men, it’s just human nature I guess, but still frustrating .

I agree

 

[VoniLa]

jfl at men complaining about us only wanting chad and then basically treating as worthy only above average women.
I feel like the reason about the 20-80% paradox is that men just settle for average and below average women because of their physiological need to have sex (their sex drive is much stronger than ours, and honestly we fraud hard with makeup and styling) , but they don’t actually like and appreciate them.
I think the main difference about these two genders (both naturally superficial ), is that a woman can idealize a normal guy and actually see him as the hottest thing in the world, while men only fall in love with what they’re seeing (unless it’s like , they’re first love or they’re completely desperate).
This is prolly water, but holy I need some girls to talk about this with.

I wanna say that I’m not actually mad at men or anything, I’m not the kind of girls that hates men, it’s just human nature I guess, but still frustrating .

who hurt you sweetie?

 

[chillgirl]

who hurt you sweetie?

no one in particular, I never engaged in anything physical with men , so

 

[VoniLa]

no one in particular, I never engaged in anything physical with men , so

then stop listening to tiktok feminists about men, my latest crush was a ltb but i thought she was the most gorgeous woman ever

 

[chillgirl]

then stop listening to tiktok feminists about men, my latest crush was a ltb but i thought she was the most gorgeous woman ever

I’m not listening to feminist tiktok, I’m just talking from what I’ve observed about men in my lifetime, I could be wrong !

 

[Ody]

I’m not listening to feminist tiktok, I’m just talking from what I’ve observed about men in my lifetime, I could be wrong !

Instead of finding validation on tinder, you make an account here and play pretend victim? Two sides of the same coin to be honest. You know you are above average in terms of attraction, and all your yap here is to have your loser mentality reinforced. Take some accountability in your life

 

[Currycelloser]

jfl at men complaining about us only wanting chad and then basically treating as worthy only above average women.
I feel like the reason about the 20-80% paradox is that men just settle for average and below average women because of their physiological need to have sex (their sex drive is much stronger than ours, and honestly we fraud hard with makeup and styling) , but they don’t actually like and appreciate them.
I think the main difference about these two genders (both naturally superficial ), is that a woman can idealize a normal guy and actually see him as the hottest thing in the world, while men only fall in love with what they’re seeing (unless it’s like , they’re first love or they’re completely desperate).
This is prolly water, but holy I need some girls to talk about this with.

I wanna say that I’m not actually mad at men or anything, I’m not the kind of girls that hates men, it’s just human nature I guess, but still frustrating .

i hope u are joking

 

[BigDihDiddy]

jfl at men complaining about us only wanting chad and then basically treating as worthy only above average women.
I feel like the reason about the 20-80% paradox is that men just settle for average and below average women because of their physiological need to have sex (their sex drive is much stronger than ours, and honestly we fraud hard with makeup and styling) , but they don’t actually like and appreciate them.
I think the main difference about these two genders (both naturally superficial ), is that a woman can idealize a normal guy and actually see him as the hottest thing in the world, while men only fall in love with what they’re seeing (unless it’s like , they’re first love or they’re completely desperate).
This is prolly water, but holy I need some girls to talk about this with.

I wanna say that I’m not actually mad at men or anything, I’m not the kind of girls that hates men, it’s just human nature I guess, but still frustrating .

Men in these forums act pickier than they actually are

They call a girl ugly but if she talked to them irl they’d definitely be flattered

 

[chillgirl]

Instead of finding validation on tinder, you make an account here and play pretend victim? Two sides of the same coin to be honest. You know you are above average in terms of attraction, and all your yap here is to have your loser mentality reinforced. Take some accountability in your life

I’m a mtb be fr, and calm down, you’re acting like I insulted you

 

[chillgirl]

i hope u are joking

Idk men, I’m talking for what I’ve seen over the years , but I could be wrong (which I said many times under this thread, I’m just expressing my opinion)

 

[Currycelloser]

Idk men, I’m talking for what I’ve seen over the years , but I could be wrong (which I said many times under this thread, I’m just expressing my opinion)

alr

 

[blanquita444]

jfl at men complaining about us only wanting chad and then basically treating as worthy only above average women.
I feel like the reason about the 20-80% paradox is that men just settle for average and below average women because of their physiological need to have sex (their sex drive is much stronger than ours, and honestly we fraud hard with makeup and styling) , but they don’t actually like and appreciate them.
I think the main difference about these two genders (both naturally superficial ), is that a woman can idealize a normal guy and actually see him as the hottest thing in the world, while men only fall in love with what they’re seeing (unless it’s like , they’re first love or they’re completely desperate).
This is prolly water, but holy I need some girls to talk about this with.

I wanna say that I’m not actually mad at men or anything, I’m not the kind of girls that hates men, it’s just human nature I guess, but still frustrating .

girl ify this board is frustrating sometimes, some of these girls think women want like perfect beings but tbh im happy with htn. it doesnt rlly matter how they look anyway though cuz usually every guy falls out of love and yadda yadda

 

[lee_]

jfl at men complaining about us only wanting chad and then basically treating as worthy only above average women.
I feel like the reason about the 20-80% paradox is that men just settle for average and below average women because of their physiological need to have sex (their sex drive is much stronger than ours, and honestly we fraud hard with makeup and styling) , but they don’t actually like and appreciate them.
I think the main difference about these two genders (both naturally superficial ), is that a woman can idealize a normal guy and actually see him as the hottest thing in the world, while men only fall in love with what they’re seeing (unless it’s like , they’re first love or they’re completely desperate).
This is prolly water, but holy I need some girls to talk about this with.

I wanna say that I’m not actually mad at men or anything, I’m not the kind of girls that hates men, it’s just human nature I guess, but still frustrating .

literally doesn't happen
LTBs get worshipped daily