My experience with looksmaxxing

[Stardust_]

I know I’m not a man, and society’s standards are becoming more harsher, but it’s also a hint that self acceptance is widely needed. Again this post is purely my own viewpoint.

My journey with looksmaxxing started in April, I didn’t really do that much. I went into the forum because I can relate to what people are saying about constantly chasing an ideal and trying to look close to perfect as possible but it doesn’t exist. I just changed hair colour, got false eyelashes and other stuff done for a wedding. Over time it made me feel like I should be perfect with more things done to suit an ideal, maybe to get more friends or dates (not even mentioning my health issues having a negative effect on my self esteem) but this can waste my time and money. The reality of things, even if I’m close to being ‘’perfect’’ is that this BP thing can destroy people even if they aren’t fully in the blackpill yet. I can now analyse someone’s face when I’m out in the street, this isn’t good. Even if I reach perfection, will someone want to be with me for the real me, not just looks?

I’m not saying looks aren’t important, but it’s equally as important to be kind to yourself and focus on other things too.

 

[Deleted Member 49771]

Agree. At the end of the day though, you are entirely unable to share the great things you have to offer if you are ugly. You could be the most talented, funny, and enjoyable person to be around, but you will ultimately be ostracized and hated. That is not to say that looks are all that matters, but that they matter enough that a distinct lack of them will lead to all of the aforementioned becoming null. Thus, ones primary objective in their youth should be their looks (softmaxxing doesnt take that much time) followed by these other things, because again, the other things you could learn become null should the looks be below a certain level.

int looks;
string[] talent = {"Talent 1", "Talent 2", "Talent 3"};

if(looks <= 4)
{
talent = null;
}

 

[Stardust_]

Agree. At the end of the day though, you are entirely unable to share the great things you have to offer if you are ugly. You could be the most talented, funny, and enjoyable person to be around, but you will ultimately be ostracized and hated. That is not to say that looks are all that matters, but that they matter enough that a distinct lack of them will lead to all of the aforementioned becoming null. Thus, ones primary objective in their youth should be their looks (softmaxxing doesnt take that much time) followed by these other things, because again, the other things you could learn become null should the looks be below a certain level.

int looks;
string[] talent = {"Talent 1", "Talent 2", "Talent 3"};

if(looks <= 4)
{
talent = null;
}

I just feel like the more times I’m on these forums, the more times I’m going to start believing into BP

 

[recai]

tldr?

 

[Stardust_]

tldr?

My point is not to believe in BP too long before it hurts you

 

[recai]

My point is not to believe in BP too long before it hurts you

hurts… neck… neck hurts aqqhehehhhhhh eseeaaaaa eseaaaqqqq

 

[Stardust_]

hurts… neck… neck hurts aqqhehehhhhhh eseeaaaaa eseaaaqqqq

lol

 

[recai]

hurts… neck… neck hurts aqqhehehhhhhh eseeaaaaa eseaaaqqqq

@eldritch thoughts? make more neck hurts thread s please!

 

[azaire]

I know I’m not a man, and society’s standards are becoming more harsher, but it’s also a hint that self acceptance is widely needed. Again this post is purely my own viewpoint.

My journey with looksmaxxing started in April, I didn’t really do that much. I went into the forum because I can relate to what people are saying about constantly chasing an ideal and trying to look close to perfect as possible but it doesn’t exist. I just changed hair colour, got false eyelashes and other stuff done for a wedding. Over time it made me feel like I should be perfect with more things done to suit an ideal, maybe to get more friends or dates (not even mentioning my health issues having a negative effect on my self esteem) but this can waste my time and money. The reality of things, even if I’m close to being ‘’perfect’’ is that this BP thing can destroy people even if they aren’t fully in the blackpill yet. I can now analyse someone’s face when I’m out in the street, this isn’t good. Even if I reach perfection, will someone want to be with me for the real me, not just looks?

I’m not saying looks aren’t important, but it’s equally as important to be kind to yourself and focus on other things too.

Getting into BP just made me more picky tbh

Now I pay attention to peoples looks more than I ever did

 

[Stardust_]

Getting into BP just made me more picky tbh

Now I pay attention to peoples looks more than I ever did

I mean does it make you feel like you have low self esteem because of BP? I often feel this way

 

[azaire]

I mean does it make you feel like you have low self esteem because of BP? I often feel this way

Depends. Some days all I can see are my falios and I feel insecure, but other days it actually boosts my ego, and makes me feel better about my looks.

 

[Deleted Member 82170]

Dnr but ban this foid larper @jannies

 

[Stardust_]

Depends. Some days all I can see are my falios and I feel insecure, but other days it actually boosts my ego, and makes me feel better about my looks.

That’s interesting, for me I feel like I’m not good enough but I think that’s just what I think inside my head and it’s not true. BP also had an effect where I like sport and fitness now too.

 

[Stardust_]

Dnr but ban this foid larper @jannies

Go back to org then ffs

 

[azaire]

That’s interesting, for me I feel like I’m not good enough but I think that’s just what I think inside my head and it’s not true. BP also had an effect where I like sport and fitness now too.

Me too, tbh it did more good than bad in my case. I started eating better, having better habits, exercising more.
I think my hormones are just still irregular because I’m still in puberty, that’s why my self esteem and level of insecurity fluctuates throughout the month

 

[Love]

huh

 

[twinkdestroyer]

@kahuro thoughts

 

[Deleted Member 82170]

Go back to org then ffs

Get a life, your balls must be empty to larp as a girl on a forum like this

 

[recai]

huh

 

[Stardust_]

Me too, tbh it did more good than bad in my case. I started eating better, having better habits, exercising more.
I think my hormones are just still irregular because I’m still in puberty, that’s why my self esteem and level of insecurity fluctuates throughout the month

I wonder why it has a positive effect on women more than men, I hope that you are able to have good self esteem all the time

 

[Love]

 

[Stardust_]

Get a life, your balls must be empty to larp as a girl on a forum like this

It’s better than larping as you

 

[azaire]

I wonder why it has a positive effect on women more than men, I hope that you are able to have good self esteem all the time

I hope you feel better too

 

[Stardust_]

I hope you feel better tooView attachment 172234

Thank you

 

[apatheia]

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I just feel like the more times I’m on these forums, the more times I’m going to start believing into BP

Getting into BP just made me more picky tbh

Now I pay attention to peoples looks more than I ever did

When you say blackpill, I will assume the lookism blackpill.

It exists, but it is exaggerated to no end on these forums. I have yet to see someone's physical attractiveness so low on these forums that they can not get into a happy relationship at all with their looks or looks potential.

Is finding a partner not the point for the majority of looksmaxxers?

The majority of society underrates the importance of looks, while blackpill spheres overrate it.

You are in your upper 20's now, graduated, and with a job. How about instead of taking the word of crackhead blackpill theories on these forums, you actually research evolutionary psychology, do your own observations, and get your own conclusions.

Do not use incelwiki though. Highly biased website and misconstrues studies. I can refer you to some good sources if you want, just "PM" me.

 

[azaire]

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When you say blackpill, I will assume the lookism blackpill.

It exists, but it is exaggerated to no end on these forums. I have yet to see someone's physical attractiveness so low on these forums that they can not get into a happy relationship at all with their looks or looks potential.

Is finding a partner not the point for the majority of looksmaxxers?

The majority of society underrates the importance of looks, while blackpill spheres overrate it.

You are in your upper 20's now, graduated, and with a job. How about instead of taking the word of crackhead blackpill theories on these forums, you actually research evolutionary psychology, do your own observations, and get your own conclusions.

Do not use incelwiki though. Highly biased website and misconstrues studies. I can refer you to some good sources if you want, just "PM" me.

I know that, I’ve been saying that it’s exaggerated, and most of the peoples here issue is their personality, and their victim mentally, not their looks.
I meant that researching looksmaxxing and the whole blackpill community helped me learn and upkeep better habits like good posture, health etc!

 

[apatheia]

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I know that, I’ve been saying that it’s exaggerated, and most of the peoples here issue is their personality, and their victim mentally, not their looks.
I meant that researching looksmaxxing and the whole blackpill community helped me learn and upkeep better habits like good posture, health etc!

To be honest I do not know why I quoted you, I know you think the blackpill is exaggerated, but I agree nonetheless.