Rage My girlfriend keeps using the N-term when she's with her black partners and it bothers me.

[gloss]

Hey everyone. I'll try to make it short.


So we are both white, my girlfriend and I have been together for about two years.


We're in an open relationship, but it's pretty one-sided. She's the one who sees other people while I don't.


At some point I began watching them when she's with her partners. (only when they allow it of course)


Now basically all of her partners have been Black men and this is absolutely no problem for me, in fact I really enjoy the contrast of their skin.


But here is the problem. When she's with a new partner, she'd ask if she can use the n-word during sex. Some allow it, some don't. But if they do, she starts using it so frequently and careless like she's on a kkk rally.


I feel really uncomfortable about this and honestly, I think it's racist. But I don't know how to approach her about this. Am I being too sensitive?

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@Schizotypalcel @shia.jihadist @Whitepill

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@Nairod

 

[Nihilus]

Only the arrival of Kalki can save you
Pray that this agent of destruction comes asap to release you from your torment
@LilPeep started praying to kalki , what are you waiting for son

 

[Whitepill]

Tell her to cut that shit out!
The n word in 2024? Saying that to the bulls?! You need to politely ask her to stop though, disciplining her is misogynistic

 

[gloss]

Tell her to cut that shit out!
The n word in 2024? Saying that to the bulls?! You need to politely ask her to stop though, disciplining her is misogynistic

Im not trying to be disrespectful especially to a staff member but i dont think you are qualified to give me advice. Perhaps someone like @Nairod would know better

 

[Whitepill]

Im not trying to be disrespectful especially to a staff member but i dont think you are qualified to give me advice. Perhaps someone like @Nairod would know better

Unfortunately I dont think Nairod would he a good pick as he is white and a member of the Save Australia campaign.

 

[Wilk]

Hey everyone. I'll try to make it short.


So we are both white, my girlfriend and I have been together for about two years.


We're in an open relationship, but it's pretty one-sided. She's the one who sees other people while I don't.


At some point I began watching them when she's with her partners. (only when they allow it of course)


Now basically all of her partners have been Black men and this is absolutely no problem for me, in fact I really enjoy the contrast of their skin.


But here is the problem. When she's with a new partner, she'd ask if she can use the n-word during sex. Some allow it, some don't. But if they do, she starts using it so frequently and careless like she's on a kkk rally.


I feel really uncomfortable about this and honestly, I think it's racist. But I don't know how to approach her about this. Am I being too sensitive?

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@Schizotypalcel @shia.jihadist @Whitepill

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@Nairod

I hope you are trollying

 

[Wilk]

Im not trying to be disrespectful especially to a staff member but i dont think you are qualified to give me advice. Perhaps someone like @Nairod would know better

omg, you r indicating that it is not a joke

 

[gloss]

I hope you are trollying

Why would i be trollying? Racism is a serious issue in modern society Wilk, do better

 

[Wilk]

Why would i be trollying? Racism is a serious issue in modern society Wilk, do better

ok, that sounds like a joke, thanks g

 

[Nairod]

Im not trying to be disrespectful especially to a staff member but i dont think you are qualified to give me advice. Perhaps someone like @Nairod would know better

I have been summoned

 

[Nairod]

Unfortunately I dont think Nairod would he a good pick as he is white and a member of the Save Australia campaign.

I may be an Aryan super human but I do know a thing or two about black culture

 

[Nairod]

Im not trying to be disrespectful especially to a staff member but i dont think you are qualified to give me advice. Perhaps someone like @Nairod would know better

Ok so I have consulted the Tyrone BBC council and we and our leader(Jeremy Meeks) have come to the conclusion of that it’s weird and it’s not at the same time. Wanting to say ts during sex is weird but saying it casually is something we kinda don’t care about cause I have been talking to the bp/incel community for a while and it doesn’t bother me in the slightest. I actually know a white girl that says ts *cough cough* @ripskeem.

 

[ripskeem]

I actually know a white girl that says ts *cough cough* @ripskeem.

i do not say it irl and no one knows i say it online

 

[Nairod]

i do not say it irl and no one knows i say it online

I know I’m just fw you. And of course you wouldn’t say it irl lmfaooo that’s social suicide lmfaooo

 

[ripskeem]

I know I’m just fw you. And of course you wouldn’t say it irl lmfaooo that’s social suicide lmfaooo

LOL ye. i have a black friend who is very against it and so is my bf soooo

 

[Nairod]

LOL ye. i have a black friend who is very against it and so is my bf soooo

The BBC council approves of you skeem

 

[ripskeem]

The BBC council approves of you skeem

thanks n****r

 

[Nairod]

thanks n****r

Nvm we take it back

 

[97baHater]

i do not say it irl and no one knows i say it online

Low E behaviour. Next time u go to the subway make sure to scream it to every black man and woman you see, straight to their face too

 

[Nairod]

Low E behaviour. Next time u go to the subway make sure to scream it to every black man and woman you see, straight to their face too

How to increase E levels?

 

[ripskeem]

Low E behaviour. Next time u go to the subway make sure to scream it to every black man and woman you see, straight to their face too

i would get shot

 

[gloss]

i do not say it irl and no one knows i say it online

@Dean This is the person u want to represent ur forum and trust with ensuring a safe user experience to colored folk btw. A kkk grand wizard. Ridiculous if u ask me

 

[TonyTheLooksmaxxDR]

Low E behaviour. Next time u go to the subway make sure to scream it to every black man and woman you see, straight to their face too

i would get shot

Here in France it's called Lepenmaxxing btw just sayin

 

[ripskeem]

@Dean This is the person u want to represent ur forum and trust with ensuring a safe user experience to colored folk btw. A kkk grand wizard. Ridiculous if u ask me

dnr

 

[RAJ GHRANDHICK]

i used to call a guy n****r in my class few years ago