My social anxiety needs to be studied

[ela67]

I swear I got none when I am by myself in the city where I study but when I get home...oh god! I fear going out and having to see acquaintances.
I just have to go the store rn and I am shaking fr. I have cancelled this plan for a week now.

And my fear was triggered by a comment made by someone to my father. He told him I was walking weird.

Context: I was on my bike and crossed the street to avoid that man.

My father told me it is no big deal, but have been constantly thinking about that since

 

[born superior]

maybe you were really walking weird

 

[height]

Just sounds like he noticed your autistic motorfunction

 

[ela67]

maybe you were really walking weird

Maybe but that shouldn't be other's business as long as you don't cause trouble. I have undiagnostified audhd You never know what happens in someone's life

 

[ela67]

Just sounds like he noticed your autistic motorfunction

And how is that his business? Not to mention I don't even know him

 

[slopslinger]

can't blame him if I saw u walking irl my frens would never hear the end of it

 

[height]

Maybe but that shouldn't be other's business as long as you don't cause trouble. I have undiagnostified audhd You never know what happens in someone's life

No it's a good thing that he noticed it and mentioned it to your father. It's your father's responsibility to understand what is wrong with you. For the stranger you were just someone who had an anomaly. Your father is the one who is wrong in this situation because he is pushing his responsibility on you since it's a father's job to make sure his kids health problems get identified correctly. Your threat identification is wrong in this instance because you were unable to recognize the intention.

 

[ela67]

No it's a good thing that he noticed it and mentioned it to your father. It's your father's responsibility to understand what is wrong with you. For the stranger you were just someone who had an anomaly. Your father is the one who is wrong in this situation because he is pushing his responsibility on you since it's a father's job to make sure his kids health problems get identified correctly. Your threat identification is wrong in this instance because you were unable to recognize the intention.

My life ain't his business...idk if he had good intentions or not. There is nothing wrong with AuDHD. We are still humans)
I haven't caused any issue to anyone so it made no sense for that dude to tell him that.
I walk how I want.

I have seen lots of weird things yet I didn't say I word cuz it isn t my business.

My parents are against going to doctor because we've already been there since I had delayed speech.

The only persons I am mad at are my teachers cuz it was their job to notice it yet they kept telling just good things to my parents