Experience ND trait: People think you are uninterested in them

[failednormieemocel]

Now that I think back about it, this is probably one of the reasons why I failed to make friends. I talked with this fuckass monotone voice that sounds like I do not want to be there at all

 

[ecoli]

rent a friend

 

[fashist]

I sound way too aggressive whenever i explain something

 

[ecoli]

Now that I think back about it, this is probably one of the reasons why I failed to make friends. I talked with this fuckass monotone voice that sounds like I do not want to be there at all

i always talk to fast they think i'm crazy

 

[failednormieemocel]

i always talk to fast they think i'm crazy

if i do this i tend to stutter like an autist so i slow myself down on purpose when talking

 

[ecoli]

if i do this i tend to stutter like an autist so i slow myself down on purpose when talking

i just can't talk slow and i stutter sometimes

 

[BigDihDiddy]

Now that I think back about it, this is probably one of the reasons why I failed to make friends. I talked with this fuckass monotone voice that sounds like I do not want to be there at all

I really am uninterested in Normie cucks tho

 

[EggWhites4u]

it takes a lotttt of practice you’ll be alright
just be careful with how you respond to people and try to be lighthearted to build habits that people like

Are you gay or something?

 

[Decay]

Happened to me many times.

 

[Byro]

Now that I think back about it, this is probably one of the reasons why I failed to make friends. I talked with this fuckass monotone voice that sounds like I do not want to be there at all

I fail to look at anyone and I rant it sucks really bad jfl

 

[EggWhites4u]

no im a girl

I was going to say. Your advice is toxic af.

 

[EggWhites4u]

??? literally how

Because following your advice will lead a person to pain and suffering.

 

[EggWhites4u]

no it will not
not sure if you’ve ever experienced fitting in but it offers a type of fulfillment that’s hard to experience as an ND person

Yes, it will. People have biases and ND people are looked down upon as subhuman to most people. So, being weak and nice will lead an ND person to ruin real quickly and they'll experience a lot of pain. ND people cant fit in. It's an impossiblity.

 

[EggWhites4u]

that’s absolutely not true

It is according to the statistics.

i think my entire life has been an example of why not i didn’t speak at all until i was 6 and was really quiet and weird, obviously aspergers

You were a small child, hello?

i didn’t make any friends until highschool, but now as a senior i’ve figured out how to interact with NTs like they do with each other and people are shocked to find out im ND

The halo effect + masking can work for a while. The reason you confessed your ND nature was more than likely down to your fear of being found out as an imposter.

it’s not about being weak and nice, it’s about being nice enough and being welcoming and easy to talk to
i fit in just fine

Being nice is weak to NTs. Love, you are going to get r***d and destroyed if you don't wisen up real fast. Your niceness will be taken advantage of by NT and psychopaths and they will destroy you.

 

[EggWhites4u]

6 is not a normal age to start speaking that was an example from my life to show how i was incredibly socially impaired since the beginning of my life
it’s worked for a long time and people generally like me because im a sweet enjoyable person to be around not because i see normal
im not excessively nice, just nice enough to be likable
not everyone is a monster a lot of people have good hearts and want to make more friends

Autistic people aren't inherently socially impaired!! You self hating weirdo.

It only works for a short period of time because you are female and in your attractiveness prime. You probably look half decent unlike most of the women on here.

You can't become likeable. A person either likes you or they don't. There's nothing someone can do to change how another person feels about them. That's on them. Not you or anyone else.

Most people don't have good hearts. They're judgemental and size you up based on various evolved instinctual drives.

 

[Schizotypalcel]

Everyone thinks i dislike them for some odd reason

 

[EggWhites4u]

Everyone thinks i dislike them for some odd reason

Are you actually a schizotypal individual?

 

[Schizotypalcel]

Are you actually a schizotypal individual?

Yes, why do you ask?

 

[EggWhites4u]

Yes, why do you ask?

Are you diagnosed?

 

[Schizotypalcel]

Are you diagnosed?

Yes, the moment i turned 18.

 

[EggWhites4u]

Yes, the moment i turned 18.

Its the reason why people tend to think you dislike them. Your behaviours are off putting to them. Given you aint ugly or sub 5.

 

[EggWhites4u]

that’s not even self hating i do recognize that i personally am socially impaired and it’s not a bad thing i’ve learned to accommodate
you absolutely can become likable by the general public by assimilating and learning what people like
i don’t agree with that i think everyone is born with the purest heart and their situations can make them more irritable or hateful or whatever

You may be socially impaired but not every autistic is inherently socially impaired. A person cant convince someone who feels negatively towards them to change their mind. How about they learn what you like and conform to your wishes? You see, that's where your whole thinking goes right down the toilet. No, human beings are judgemental and quite toxic in general. It is actually autistic people who value fairness and are some of the kindest people around by trying to understand others and their suffering. Hence the fact that they're taken advantage of a lot. Whereas, NTs attack those they see as weak and will destroy them if they can get away with it.

 

[xy2m]

talk less smile more (niche reference)

 

[EggWhites4u]

talk less smile more (niche reference)

Shower more as well and hold frame.

 

[xy2m]

Shower more as well and hold frame.

censor that word weirdo

 

[EggWhites4u]

censor that word weirdo

You're ugly hoe. Imagine failing as an NT woman, pathetic.

 

[xy2m]

You're ugly hoe. Imagine failing as an NT woman, pathetic.

pathetic! more like anaesthetic

get it cus they rhyme

 

[EggWhites4u]

pathetic! more like anaesthetic

get it cus they rhyme

Just admit it. You want all 8 inches of my slong?

 

[xy2m]

Just admit it. You want all 8 inches of my slong?

shut up

 

[EggWhites4u]

shut up

No!

 

[xy2m]

No!

listen here you!!

 

[EggWhites4u]

listen here you!!

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[Deleted Member 84302]

tbh they do bore me after a period of time