Experience nerf war

[fordirelifesake]

i had a nerf war with my older brother for the first time in years. it was like reliving my childhood. very fun and chill, and im glad we got to hang out because hes going to college and i dont have much more time with him. sometimes we dont get along because we arent very much alike but this was good

 

[fordirelifesake]

brutal dnr incoming i can feel it

 

[chudlite67]

i had a nerf war with my older brother for the first time in years. it was like reliving my childhood. very fun and chill, and im glad we got to hang out because hes going to college and i dont have much more time with him. sometimes we dont get along because we arent very much alike but this was good

Aw that’s so cute

 

[drchad]

sometimes we dont get along because we arent very much alike but this was good

this made me miss my brother

Regret not being super close with him and constantly arguing

 

[icnone]

this made me miss my brother

Regret not being super close with him and constantly arguing

my relationship with my brother was always strained
we never really talked (and the few times we did, he was mean to me)
he was also very successful and set a high bar for me that I utterly missed
its like the worst of both being an only child and having a sibling

 

[Deleted Member 104328]

im so happy for u boi

 

[fordirelifesake]

my relationship with my brother was always strained
we never really talked (and the few times we did, he was mean to me)
he was also very successful and set a high bar for me that I utterly missed
its like the worst of both being an only child and having a sibling

sorry to hear that. id say you should try and talk it out with him and just be candid about your feelings. idk though

 

[drchad]

my relationship with my brother was always strained
we never really talked (and the few times we did, he was mean to me)
he was also very successful and set a high bar for me that I utterly missed
its like the worst of both being an only child and having a sibling

Damn i have almost the exact same situation

He stopped being mean to me after he left though

Childhood was pretty strained i would always tell him i wish he wasnt my brother and just dumb shit like that , i regret not being close with him and having a closer brother brother relationship

Always burns a hole in my heart when i see my friends brothers and them laughing it up like school friends

 

[fordirelifesake]

Damn i have almost the exact same situation

He stopped being mean to me after he left though

Childhood was pretty strained i would always tell him i wish he wasnt my brother and just dumb shit like that , i regret not being close with him and having a closer brother brother relationship

Always burns a hole in my heart when i see my friends brothers and them laughing it up like school friends

yes. my brother and i have always been opposite. our relationship has never been that "casual" and we're both pretty quiet so sometimes it feels like theres a wall thats been built up between us. i know, however, that deep down we love each other and that is very consoling to me

 

[icnone]

sorry to hear that. id say you should try and talk it out with him and just be candid about your feelings. idk though

I mean, I think we made up (sort of?) a while back, but we are still worlds apart. He was the popular extreme over achiever in high school, I was the no-name loser who had zero friends, multiple fuck ups, and spent all day doing nothing. Our lives are so different that there is no reconciling us.

Always burns a hole in my heart when i see my friends brothers and them laughing it up like school friends

I feel this. Over the past few years, I've begun to realize that the bond between siblings is very close, and it always feels weird to me when I see a TV show and siblings act like best friends.

 

[Deleted Member 121099]

I need to have another nerf war with my brother so I can smoke his ass again

 

[drchad]

yes. my brother and i have always been opposite. our relationship has never been that "casual" and we're both pretty quiet so sometimes it feels like theres a wall thats been built up between us. i know, however, that deep down we love each other and that is very consoling to me

would only talk to argue most of the times so i felt that “wall” between us as well almost like he wasnt my brother

When we went to highschool together we would walk past eachother, my friends and their big brothers would laugh it up and hang out with my group

Still kind of a wall because of long distance and we live different lives

But now that were kind to eachother and check up every couple months im just glad that we love eachother and i have a big brother like him

 

[drchad]

I mean, I think we made up (sort of?) a while back, but we are still worlds apart. He was the popular extreme over achiever in high school, I was the no-name loser who had zero friends, multiple fuck ups, and spent all day doing nothing. Our lives are so different that there is no reconciling us.

Titles and achievements dont matter tbh i get why you would feel like that but as you age you will realize its just about being brothers , check up on eachother and try talking it might feel akward at first as it did with my brother but be genuine and say you appreciate him and all that over time itll grow

always feels weird to me when I see a TV show and siblings act like best friends.

Swear

 

[drchad]

Titles and achievements dont matter tbh i get why you would feel like that but as you age you will realize its just about being brothers , check up on eachother and try talking it might feel akward at first as it did with my brother but be genuine and say you appreciate him and all that over time itll grow

Swear

He really pushed to rekindle the connection and not be distant brothers who never see eachother i really wondered why he was even trying but im glad he did

 

[icnone]

but be genuine and say you appreciate him

That would be being disingenuous. My brother gave me a general life trajectory to follow (study hard in school, get into a good college) but beyond that, I don't really have anything to appreciate him for.

but as you age you will realize its just about being brothers

But what does that mean? If my brother flew back home for the summer and met me, we might have a normal conversation to catch up on things but beyond that we would never talk to each other.

 

[drchad]

That would be being disingenuous. My brother gave me a general life trajectory to follow (study hard in school, get into a good college) but beyond that, I don't really have anything to appreciate him for.

But what does that mean? If my brother flew back home for the summer and met me, we might have a normal conversation to catch up on things but beyond that we would never talk to each other.

Honestly just appreciating eachother for being brothers , checking up every couple months and ending the phone call with an i love you stay safe , knowing hes your brother and your in this life together

Till this day me and him dont really connect on anything but are just there for eachother , maybe because he took me on some akward trips and had some long conversations that started off akward i feel as if hes my friend now

But yea at first it felt very disingenuous