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[Deleted member 42538]

im finally confident enough to attempt making friends but im not sure how to
in my country (sweden) people do NOT speak to strangers
dont like anyone at my school and only old people in my town

Therefore im gonna try contacting my friends i had when i was 13 (18 now)
I only had 2 friends and we lost contact when i moved across country
ive been back in my home town for a while now and i know theyre here

1 of them is a girl, ltb, muslim, adhd, generous, her family hated me
i like her because she talks alot so i wont have to

2nd is a man, htn (had a huge glowup since we last met), lots of friends, very kind, atheist, his mom loved me
i like him because he always included me even when his friends made fun of him for hanging out with me

im very nervous to meet with them and especially the guy as ive changed alot. I used to be very outgoing and super funny. Dont know how to be funny anymore and spent sm time online we probably dont share any interests and havent had a conversation outside of arguing or smalltalk for years. Im scared i might freeze up and they have sm friends

 

[Salludon]

@sportsmogger rizz her up she is a blackskin kween

 

[Deleted member 49549]

What? Sweden is like the most socially acceptable country I mean when it comes to being friendly with strangers, every single person I met from Sweden has been bubbly and kind.

 

[Whitepill]

i hope yo succeed or im sorry for whatever happened
dnr

 

[Deleted member 42538]

What? Sweden is like the most socially acceptable country I mean when it comes to being friendly with strangers, every single person I met from Sweden has been bubbly and kind.

maybe its because i live north but here people will literally wait til the neighbours pass before going outside

 

[Deleted member 49549]

maybe its because i live north but here people will literally wait til the neighbours pass before going outside

Be the change you want to see tbh, like honestly that would be awesome.

 

[Deleted member 42538]

Be the change you want to see tbh, like honestly that would be awesome.

i should practise on immigrants

 

[Deleted member 42538]

actually i just remembered i have a grandma i can just practise on her

 

[James Othy]

im finally confident enough to attempt making friends but im not sure how to
in my country (sweden) people do NOT speak to strangers
dont like anyone at my school and only old people in my town

Therefore im gonna try contacting my friends i had when i was 13 (18 now)
I only had 2 friends and we lost contact when i moved across country
ive been back in my home town for a while now and i know theyre here

1 of them is a girl, ltb, muslim, adhd, generous, her family hated me
i like her because she talks alot so i wont have to

2nd is a man, htn (had a huge glowup since we last met), lots of friends, very kind, atheist, his mom loved me
i like him because he always included me even when his friends made fun of him for hanging out with me

im very nervous to meet with them and especially the guy as ive changed alot. I used to be very outgoing and super funny. Dont know how to be funny anymore and spent sm time online we probably dont share any interests and havent had a conversation outside of arguing or smalltalk for years. Im scared i might freeze up and they have sm friends

 

[TonyDr]

dont like anyone at my school

you need to talk to them before

To make friends you need to do some hobbies when people meet and become friends with : theater/drama classes, martial arts, pottery, knitting, yoga... anything

Finding a social job will help you being more confident socializing with strangers : waiter, barman, salesman etc etc

 

[Deleted member 42538]

you need to talk to them before

i dont wanna be friends with them

To make friends you need to do some hobbies when people meet and become friends with : theater/drama classes, martial arts, pottery, knitting, yoga... anything

my hobbies are too niche and there are no such classes in swedish school

Finding a social job will help you being more confident socializing with strangers : waiter, barman, salesman etc etc

im busy

 

[TonyDr]

my hobbies are too niche and there are no such classes in swedish school

What kind of hobbies ?

 

[Deleted member 42538]

What kind of hobbies ?

apologetics, reading, walking in the forest at night

the girl just scrolls on tiktok 24/7 and the guy goes to parties and stuffs i guess i could probably make more conversation w the girl but she isnt very smart so ill just have to play dumb and speak about nonsense

also my classmates went up to me and asked for my friendship before and i shut them down so there is no going back

 

[Deleted member 42538]

but it will also be difficult for me to not bring up islam when speaking to her which would turn into an argument
so cant let her know im into apologetics

 

[neymar]

@sportsmogger rizz her up she is a blackskin kween

Hes out of her league

 

[97baHater]

im busy

you're not

apologetics

interesting, which religion?

reading

what do you like to read?

walking in the forest at night

"I'm different" ahh hobby

 

[Deleted member 42538]

you're not

yes i am studying

interesting, which religion?

Christianity

what do you like to read?

i read very broadly but i love books with unreliable narrators my top 3 except for Bible is probably No longer human, Blood meridian, Memoirs of a geisha (not in order)

"I'm different" ahh hobby

brah there is little to do in my location

 

[TonyDr]

reading

A lot of women are into books. Bookworms

also my classmates went up to me and asked for my friendship before and i shut them down so there is no going back

@97baHater CSC historique carton rouge

 

[Deleted member 42538]

A lot of women are into books. Bookworms

not where i live. I only met around 5 people who were and they were all harry potter type people its boring

@97baHater CSC historique carton rouge

what does it mean

 

[TonyDr]

not where i live. I only met around 5 people who were and they were all harry potter type people its boring

Yeah women now tend to read a lot of erotic books too. The porn of women

what does it mean

That you have sabotaged yourself by refusing free friendship

 

[97baHater]

yes i am studying

Plenty of people have a part-time job while studying, how far are you in ur school system? Uni?

Christianity

Hmm alr, are u Catholic, protestant, Anglican, or Orthodox?

i read very broadly but i love books with unreliable narrators my top 3 except for Bible is probably No longer human, Blood meridian, Memoirs of a geisha (not in order)

Why do you like books with unreliable authors? I read Memoirs of a Geisha btw, nice novel

brah there is little to do in my location

alr

 

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[TonyDr]

I read Memoirs of a Geisha btw, nice novel

Only geisha i know is geisha balls

 

[Deleted member 42538]

Yeah women now tend to read a lot of erotic books too. The porn of women

i hate porn

That you have sabotaged yourself by refusing free friendship

ur right. It was a few month ago and i just had no courage to say yes

Plenty of people have a part-time job while studying, how far are you in ur school system? Uni?

true but im also scared to work around people. Im very shy and just a month ago i wasnt even able to look at people.

alr, are u Catholic, protestant, Anglican, or Orthodox

im non denominational but im leaning towards orthodoxy, might convert

Why do you like books with unreliable authors?

its a nice experience to figure out what actually happened just gives it more excitement and is so interesting to me

read Memoirs of a Geisha btw, nice novel

bro thats actually awesome i never heard anyone say that i love that book sm thats so cool that u like it i thought it would be the one youre least likely to have read

 

[Deleted Member 77884]

Just put yourself out there brah

 

[neymar]

Ur never gonna make decent female friends u cant even project ur voice or have normal interests like other girls. If anything u can befriend male losers obsessed with religion and theology

 

[Deleted member 42538]

Just put yourself out there brah

where

 

[97baHater]

true but im also scared to work around people. Im very shy and just a month ago i wasnt even able to look at people.

Understandable

im non denominational but im leaning towards orthodoxy, might convert

y Orthodoxy over Catholicism tho? U don't like the pope?

bro thats actually awesome i never heard anyone say that i love that book sm thats so cool that u like it i thought it would be the one youre least likely to have read

Naah I fw that

 

[Deleted Member 77884]

where

It was a joke
Tbh your main worry are tour colored lenses because it's very uncommon for someone to use colored lenses even more if your eyes don't need jt

 

[Deleted member 42538]

y Orthodoxy over Catholicism tho? U don't like the pope?

I dont mind being non denominational forever as i think my mind is rational enough to not lead me to heresy but i was just curious to find out about the orthdox/catholic faith so i asked my friend. As im into apologetics i have alot of knowledgeable friends. I was as bias as i could be and after hearing the opinions of my friends the ones that spoke against the catholic church made more sense to me. In my opinion its orthodxy>protestantism>catholicism between the 3. But its hard to find a good protestant church these days due to lgbtq etc.

what about you are you religious? or into apologetics?

 

[Deleted member 42538]

It was a joke
Tbh your main worry are tour colored lenses because it's very uncommon for someone to use colored lenses even more if your eyes don't need jt

really? even as a girl? and it looks so much better and they look very natural

 

[Deleted Member 77884]

really? even as a girl? and it looks so much better and they look very natural

Yeah but if your goal is to make friends, they will eventually know you use colored lenses
Your only way of getting out is to find an artistic reason, your outfits are very out of norm so you can get out by saying that
You would need more colored lenses tho

Like for example, Zeta is a tiktoker that has maxed out looks bit he has brown eyes, and he uses colored lenses for the majority of his tijtok/omegle videos, probably for when he goes to parties too. Only works for people that you meet one time, AKA hookups

 

[Deleted member 42538]

Your only way of getting out is to find an artistic reason, your outfits are very out of norm so you can get out by saying that

ill try to make them more out of norm.

 

[Deleted Member 77884]

Yeah but if your goal is to make friends, they will eventually know you use colored lenses
Your only way of getting out is to find an artistic reason, your outfits are very out of norm so you can get out by saying that
You would need more colored lenses tho

Like for example, Zeta is a tiktoker that has maxed out looks bit he has brown eyes, and he uses colored lenses for the majority of his tijtok/omegle videos, probably for when he goes to parties too. Only works for people that you meet one time, AKA hookups

Btw @TonyTheLooksmaxxDR @Whitepill @rand anon @sigma do you agree? Or am I retarding?

 

[Deleted member 42538]

Btw @TonyTheLooksmaxxDR @Whitepill @rand anon @sigma do you agree? Or am I retarding?

and would it be more acceptable to wear unnatrual contacts? As then they may realise youre not trying to get away with having a different eye color without anyone noticing that they are lenses because theyre obviously lenses

 

[TonyDr]

true but im also scared to work around people

Real life in few years is gonna be crazy for you

ill try to make them more out of norm.

Slay kween

Btw @TonyTheLooksmaxxDR @Whitepill @rand anon @sigma do you agree? Or am I retarding?

No you're right Chorizopan. Wearing coloured lenses is the least thing you need to looksmaxx, even harder when you're a woman

 

[Deleted member 42538]

like purple/unnatrual colors or huge anime like lenses

 

[rand anon]

Btw @TonyTheLooksmaxxDR @Whitepill @rand anon @sigma do you agree? Or am I retarding?

Def agree, it’s the same reason why I’d never and suggest other fellow manlets to not wear lifts. It’s pointless if ur trying for a ltr. Only works for hookup/short term situations

 

[Deleted member 42538]

even harder when you're a woman

why is it worse as a woman? I thought it would be the opposite as women are allowed to "customise their character more"
a girl wearing lenses could be a fashion statement but when a guy does it its just gay (according to society not me)

 

[Deleted Member 77884]

and would it be more acceptable to wear unnatrual contacts? As then they may realise youre not trying to get away with having a different eye color without anyone noticing that they are lenses because theyre obviously lenses

Depends what you call unnatural and your objectives
Short term meeting people= most natural lenses possible, increases appeal
Long term meeting people= exploring various colors because you like to customize yourself, adds personality interest because it's an unknown way of being. It's a way of nichemaxxing too
Make sure it looks like good and not too uncanny tho. Maybe look up that niche, I guess it's more a cosplay niche

 

[Deleted member 42538]

It's a way of nichemaxxing too

makes sense

 

[TonyDr]

why is it worse as a woman? I thought it would be the opposite as women are allowed to "customise their character more"
a girl wearing lenses could be a fashion statement but when a guy does it its just gay (according to society not me)

Not worse but useless to women looksmaxxing

But still ok if you play the goth/emo/dark sakuke girl, like crazy make up, or hair dye

 

[Deleted Member 77884]

Not worse but useless to women looksmaxxing

But still ok if you play the goth/emo/dark sakuke girl, like crazy make up, or hair dye

Tbh given your outfit likeness you should exploit this with fantasy lenses

 

[Deleted member 42538]

Not worse but useless to women looksmaxxing

But still ok if you play the goth/emo/dark sakuke girl, like crazy make up, or hair dye

the look im going for/inspire
is it achievable or does my face sabotage too much ? theyre all wearing contacts in all pics

 

[Deleted member 42538]

Tbh given your outfit likeness you should exploit this with fantasy lenses

yes oki i will but i dont have many outfits. Idk where u got this from because i only wear plain shirts and sweatpants but im trying to upgrde wardrobe

 

[97baHater]

the look im going for/inspire
is it achievable or does my face sabotage too much ? theyre all wearing contacts in all pics

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where are u from?

 

[97baHater]

what about you are you religious? or into apologetics?

I used to be Muslim, but now I'm an atheist

 

[Deleted member 42538]

I used to be Muslim, but now I'm an atheist

thats nice, what made you leave islam ?

 

[97baHater]

thats nice, what made you leave islam ?

Lack of empirical evidence, creationism, and Noah's ark

 

[Whitepill]

Btw @TonyTheLooksmaxxDR @Whitepill @rand anon @sigma do you agree? Or am I retarding?

ye