Nigggas deadass tell girls to

[Koji]

“Calm down” when they’re mad or upset about something. Congratulations, you’ve made it worse. Never say that shit. It’s dismissive.

What you do wanna do is validate her feelings first, make sure you regulate your own emotions so that it’s easier for them to actually calm down without even saying a word and calmly offer help.

Idk. I saw my friend tryna comfort his first gf and I was facepalming halfway through. It might be useful to someone though

 

[RAD]

wtf is the performative ass thread @lizzy grant

 

[Koji]

wtf is the performative ass thread @lizzy grant

You did not read it RAD

 

[lizzy grant]

wtf is the performative ass thread @lizzy grant

calm down.

 

[RAD]

You did not read it RAD

 

[Recession]

calm down.

“Calm down” when they’re mad or upset about something. Congratulations, you’ve made it worse. Never say that shit. It’s dismissive.

What you do wanna do is validate her feelings first, make sure you regulate your own emotions so that it’s easier for them to actually calm down without even saying a word and calmly offer help.

Idk. I saw my friend tryna comfort his first gf and I was facepalming halfway through. It might be useful to someone though

calm down g

 

[Kaligula567]

“Calm down” when they’re mad or upset about something. Congratulations, you’ve made it worse. Never say that shit. It’s dismissive.

What you do wanna do is validate her feelings first, make sure you regulate your own emotions so that it’s easier for them to actually calm down without even saying a word and calmly offer help.

Idk. I saw my friend tryna comfort his first gf and I was facepalming halfway through. It might be useful to someone though

i do that all the time, i now know why they hate me