one question for the og

[meh.guy]

@ZyzzReincarnate does sex feel good
or can i cope with lack of sex

 

[Br4va]

Bro he won’t respond

 

[Br4va]

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

It feels better mentally than physically for me but thats probably because I am a former incel

Thinking about it in hindsight, the fact that I'm slaying girls that I thought would've never looked in my direction in my entire life and thinking about how badly they wanted me after not being wanted for so long feels better than the actual sex in the moment

 

[Br4va]

It feels better mentally than physically for me but thats probably because I am a former incel

is it because emotional connection is simply a deeper human need than physical intimacy, and you realized that as you progressed with your own experience?

Do you think every incel will feel like that if / when they become slayers

Thinking about it in hindsight, the fact that I'm slaying girls that I thought would've never looked in my direction in my entire life and thinking about how badly they wanted me after not being wanted for so long feels better than the actual sex in the moment

Yea I want that feeling

Fuck

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

is it because emotional connection is simply a deeper human need than physical intimacy, and you realized that as you progressed with your own experience?

Do you think every incel will feel like that if / when they become slayers

Yeah sex feels a lot better in the moment with a person you actually love and got to know before you fucked them than with a random foid. Honestly the entire time with a random foid you don't give a shit about, it feels like a performance you have to put on if the chick is really hot (so they continue to bang you) or if its with a mid tier foid then its basically jerking off

The emotional connection and your desire for the other person being reciprocated by them is a much deeper human need than the intimacy itself tbh

I think that every incel that manages to ascend to slayer status will end up realizing that seeking sex in of itself is usually more trouble than what its worth but can get stuck into the slaymaxxing addiction out of it feeding their ego / running a victory lap of your ascension on repeat for dopamine and self-worth (im dealing with this issue myself rn tbh)

 

[Br4va]

Yeah sex feels a lot better in the moment with a person you actually love and got to know before you fucked them than with a random foid. Honestly the entire time with a random foid you don't give a shit about, it feels like a performance you have to put on if the chick is really hot (so they continue to bang you) or if its with a mid tier foid then its basically jerking off

The emotional connection and your desire for the other person being reciprocated by them is a much deeper human need than the intimacy itself tbh

I think that every incel that manages to ascend to slayer status will end up realizing that seeking sex in of itself is usually more trouble than what its worth but can get stuck into the slaymaxxing addiction out of it feeding their ego / running a victory lap of your ascension on repeat for dopamine and self-worth (im dealing with this issue myself rn tbh)

So it’s only when you become a slayer when you realize the true purpose / greatest fulfillment in life is being with the one you love and experiencing peak humanity (sex) with them?

Crazy how it takes so much just for one to realize the truth

But tbf many of us start of as desperate so they do anything to fill the void temporarily

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

So it’s only when you become a slayer when you realize the true purpose / greatest fulfillment in life is being with the one you love and experiencing peak humanity (sex) with them?

nah the greatest fulfillment in life has nothing to do with sex tbh its if you accomplish all of ur hopes and dreams + manage to meet the love of your life, spawn kids, raise them well, and watch them become moggers too, then die happy knowing you changed the world, made great memories, have epic children and grandchildren by ur bedside, and had a great love story with an amazing loyal woman who backed you up at ur highest and lowest points no matter what prob

 

[Br4va]

nah the greatest fulfillment in life has nothing to do with sex tbh its if you accomplish all of ur hopes and dreams + manage to meet the love of your life, spawn kids, raise them well, and watch them become moggers too, then die happy knowing you changed the world, made great memories, have epic children and grandchildren by ur bedside, and had a great love story with an amazing loyal woman who backed you up at ur highest and lowest points no matter what prob

But you make all that by having sex …

And building your legacy. It’s all in our nature , to have sex and repopulate. But natural selection is what gives us the hard time

I do agree with you I think that’s the dream for everyone …

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

But you make all that by having sex …

no its not about sex bro lol you can literally nut in ur wife in 2 strokes and get her pregnant and the rest follows. the sex is literally just the action that creates the other human being but raising them and building ur life and working through the struggles is the rest of the journey... like i dont remember every time ive had sex (would be impossible tbh) but i remember my retarded struggles ive endured in my life and the achievements ive made

 

[Br4va]

no its not about sex bro lol you can literally nut in ur wife in 2 strokes and get her pregnant and the rest follows. the sex is literally just the action that creates the other human being but raising them and building ur life and working through the struggles is the rest of the journey...

but what I mean is that for us in our nature as human beings having kids , sex , raising them is truly peak humanity greatest fulfillment / accomplishment you can do; carry on your genes.

Yea I’m sure I’ll get a more formulated opinion in the future tho. I’ll take your word for now tho

like i dont remember every time ive had sex (would be impossible tbh)

Don’t you find that crazy ? Like you’ve fucked so much bitches you probably wouldn’t be able to notice one from a crowd …

but i remember my retarded struggles ive endured in my life and the achievements ive made

Of course. I’ve made a thread about how I could never appreciate a process but only the end result. But when you make it so far only then you somewhat have a little smirk and think to yourself how much work you really put in

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

Don’t you find that crazy ? Like you’ve fucked so much bitches you probably wouldn’t be able to notice one from a crowd …

i was in a long term relationship for 3.5 yrs tbh but after we broke up ab a year and a half ago ive racked up a lottttttt of slays since then bc i continued to looksmax and ascend further while locked up w her

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

Of course. I’ve made a thread about how I could never appreciate a process but only the end result. But when you make it so far only then you somewhat have a little smirk and think to yourself how much work you really put in

honestly man i look back at the journey and it was fucking epic and i often times miss the incredible, absolute manic/insane drive toward ascension that i had. i was legit so obsessive and crazy it was a 24/7 thought in my brain id literally be like locked in 24/7 brow furrowed brutally rent free on my mind

 

[Br4va]

i was in a long term relationship for 3.5 yrs tbh but after we broke up ab a year and a half ago ive racked up a lottttttt of slays since then bc i continued to looksmax and ascend further while locked up w her

But the feeling and emotions (I’m assuming) with her was much more intimate and more fulfilling then any slay could be ?

nothing could beat a lifelong loyal partner

This is giving me hopeful thx

 

[Br4va]

honestly man i look back at the journey and it was fucking epic and i often times miss the incredible, absolute manic/insane drive toward ascension that i had. i was legit so obsessive and crazy it was a 24/7 thought in my brain id literally be like locked in 24/7 brow furrowed brutally rent free on my mind

Life fuel Honeslty

Yea I guess I got a long way to go

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

But the feeling and emotions (I’m assuming) with her was much more intimate and more fulfilling then any slay could be ?

the best memories and intense emotions in my life so far were with her tbh but she became so insufferable in daily life that none of it matters to me anymore

i also mogged her to death

 

[Br4va]

the best memories and intense emotions in my life so far were with her tbh but she became so insufferable in daily life that none of it matters to me anymore

i also mogged her to death

Damn. I fear such changes. But personally I don’t really know how I would go about if I lost a partner after so long I feel like I would be lost. Well that’s if I can even find one.

Do you think your current lifestyle is a way to fill the void the you built up over the years being an incel or have you forgotten about everything and you are jsut living your best life subconsciously, just doing what you’ve been missing out on ?

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

Do you think your current lifestyle is a way to fill the void the you built up over the years being an incel or have you forgotten about everything and you are jsut living your best life subconsciously, just doing what you’ve been missing out on ?

i had realized i forgot what it was like to be incel when i re-watched some old blackpill youtube videos on how you get treated at different looks levels by women that i had seen way back in the day and i had a very sudden realization that i fell into the "chad" categories (despite facially being mtn). suddenly a lot of the memories of those times spawned in all at once and i realized just how far i had come and was surprised this genuinely became normal life for me

im not really filling any void of years of being an incel, im probably moreso filling a void of the love i had from my ex that i lost. (even though i dont miss her at all in the fucking slightest)

i just really really appreciate the company of women and their desire for me. it feels euphoric every fucking time i am with a girl that i find stunning and they're looking at me the same way

 

[Br4va]

i had realized i forgot what it was like to be incel when i re-watched some old blackpill youtube videos on how you get treated at different looks levels by women that i had seen way back in the day and i had a very sudden realization that i fell into the "chad" categories (despite facially being mtn). suddenly a lot of the memories of those times spawned in all at once and i realized just how far i had come and was surprised this genuinely became normal life for me

Hmmm I get it

im not really filling any void of years of being an incel, im probably moreso filling a void of the love i had from my ex that i lost. (even though i dont miss her at all in the fucking slightest)

Oh ok I see. I feel like I’m just looking at it from a “incel” perspective then hmmm shit

i just really really appreciate the company of women and their desire for me. it feels euphoric every fucking time i am with a girl that i find stunning and they're looking at me the same way

Damn that’s beautiful

 

[Br4va]

@ZyzzReincarnate

Before we go our seperate ways I wanted to ask if you remember my user from the last time we talked about how insane it is that this whole niche is mainstream now (it was on org tho same username)

Idk just wanted to ask maybe it’s a yes

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

Damn that’s beautiful

Tbh I see it as a weakness of mine but it is true nonetheless. Last night I spent the night at this girl's place I've had on my radar since December but we just randomly started hitting it off in more recent times and even though I was absolutely plastered I remember very vividly her face when she was telling me I was very attractive and how she looked at me after we kissed, slaying, whatnot. I remember her laying on my chest and her running her fingers up and down my body its legit euphoric being a former incel that would only have these things in imagination and being angry that I could never experience such things let alone with very very attractive hard to get women

and on Sunday I was over at this other girl's place I banged and it was the same situation. We had our faces maybe an inch apart and I'm looking into her eyes and seeing her pupils dilate and I was reading nothing but put desire and attraction. These moments albeit quite common in today's day and age for me get etched into my brain so vividly because of my past

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

@ZyzzReincarnate

Before we go our seperate ways I wanted to ask if you remember my user from the last time we talked about how insane it is that this whole niche is mainstream now (it was on org tho same username)

Idk just wanted to ask maybe it’s a yes

You had the same pfp, yes or no?

 

[Deleted Member 43638]

7 years

 

[Br4va]

Tbh I see it as a weakness of mine but it is true nonetheless. Last night I spent the night at this girl's place I've had on my radar since December but we just randomly started hitting it off in more recent times and even though I was absolutely plastered I remember very vividly her face when she was telling me I was very attractive and how she looked at me after we kissed, slaying, whatnot. I remember her laying on my chest and her running her fingers up and down my body its legit euphoric being a former incel that would only have these things in imagination and being angry that I could never experience such things let alone with very very attractive hard to get women

You probably day dream in a situation like that thinking “shit man after what Ive used to be , and now im here…” crazy things

and on Sunday I was over at this other girl's place I banged and it was the same situation. We had our faces maybe an inch apart and I'm looking into her eyes and seeing her pupils dilate and I was reading nothing but put desire and attraction. These moments albeit quite common in today's day and age for me get etched into my brain so vividly because of my past

Do you think it’s a problem going around slaying ? Maybe this is a way to hold off you’re true desire of finding a life long partner

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

7 years

8, actually. but i left all psl forums in 2020 and i didnt return until 2025

 

[Br4va]

You had the same pfp, yes or no?

Well right now I have the same pfp on both forums but back then it was jsut some stupid gif. I might have a screen shot I can pull up.

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

You probably day dream in a situation like that thinking “shit man after what Ive used to be , and now im here…” crazy things

yes and i even thought about this in the past era. i would daydream and picture my ascended self living my literal current life now as motivation to keep going. now that im living that reality i look back realizing i dreamed of this and i appreciate it a lot more and also see it as a reference point of what im capable of. ideally my future self is living the dream life i am picturing for myself later on now and will feel the same way

Do you think it’s a problem going around slaying ? Maybe this is a way to hold off you’re true desire of finding a life long partner

yeah its kind of a problem but only because i tend to make it one by needing alcohol and such to larp being NT.

 

[Br4va]

yes and i even thought about this in the past era. i would daydream and picture my ascended self living my literal current life now as motivation to keep going. now that im living that reality i look back realizing i dreamed of this and i appreciate it a lot more and also see it as a reference point of what im capable of. ideally my future self is living the dream life i am picturing for myself later on now and will feel the same way

yea i feel like anyone would appreciate such a glow up

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yeah its kind of a problem but only because i tend to make it one by needing alcohol and such to larp being NT.

at the end of the day the goal is always known, its just about who gets there and who stays behind. a lot of work to do, a lot of sacrifices to make...

do you think your mental wellbeing will be better off if you just slowed down or volcel maxxed for some time or are you happy with life how it is?

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

do you think your mental wellbeing will be better off if you just slowed down or volcel maxxed for some time or are you happy with life how it is?

i have been really happy lately but there is a lot i have left to do and stressors in my life as well

i think the best thing i did for my mental that also propelled my ascension into full gear was having left psl communities altogether in 2020 after having gathered all the necessary knowledge i needed to exact my ascension plan, then i made it happen while going out and PVPing getting as much NT irl experience as possible without polluting my brain with blackpill bullshit

 

[Br4va]

i have been really happy lately but there is a lot i have left to do and stressors in my life as well

what would be the stuff you have left to do ? of course if its private dont say

i think the best thing i did for my mental that also propelled my ascension into full gear was having left psl communities altogether in 2020 after having gathered all the necessary knowledge i needed to exact my ascension plan, then i made it happen while going out and PVPing getting as much NT irl experience as possible without polluting my brain with blackpill bullshit

i dont think i could ever do that just yet, despite being a fairly new user being introduced to all this stuff in late 2025 i think im here to stay for now given my life situation.

but i do think it was/ could be a good move for anyone who is looking to truly revolutionize their life in the future since the forums are what given most of these dudes depression.

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

what would be the stuff you have left to do ? of course if its private dont say

i need to lock in on my social media grind instead of spending my time and money slaymaxxing women on repeat. im attaching soul ties to myself that are affecting my inhibitions regarding content i post on instagram (seeing as theyre following my account and i am caring about their opinions and some of them im kind of attached to emotionally tbh)

i dont think i could ever do that just yet, despite being a fairly new user being introduced to all this stuff in late 2025 i think im here to stay for now given my life situation.

but i do think it was/ could be a good move for anyone who is looking to truly revolutionize their life in the future since the forums are what given most of these dudes depression.

i think you'll know when its time to go. i had known for a long while that these communities were no longer serving me and in fact were holding me back before i had left.

 

[Br4va]

i need to lock in on my social media grind instead of spending my time and money slaymaxxing women on repeat. im attaching soul ties to myself that are affecting my inhibitions regarding content i post on instagram (seeing as theyre following my account and i am caring about their opinions and some of them im kind of attached to emotionally tbh)

Oh I see. You want to use the current wave of this niche to your advantage ? Or something of your own ?

i think you'll know when its time to go. i had known for a long while that these communities were no longer serving me and in fact were holding me back before i had left.

Hmmm yea you’re right

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]