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This is what works for me, this might not work for you but it's always worth a try.
why is growth important?
By staying stagnant as a person, we can destroy our relationships, miss out on opportunities and limit our potential.
Growth is an important factor for communication and as a byproduct increases life quality hugely. As the saying goes "happy wife, happy life" I think the same can be said about any relationship you have. You wouldn't want to be around someone who had a bad personality or who is a horrible person chances are.
The impact of positive activities on mental health: the mediating role of positive emotion - PMC https://share.google/zb8y8PX8F9yx8774F
Being in a positive head space can decrease cortisol and make us more active and productive as a result. This can help us improve our appearance too
how do I grow as a person?
1. REFLECT - for this step we need to try and push aside our personal biases and emotions in order to look at this logically. Look deep into yourself and think about the negative traits you possess and what you can improve upon. A good place to start can be to look at things people often critic or insult you on.
Ways of reflecting | Reflection Toolkit | Reflection Toolkit https://share.google/XuCh1OWkuFPt4x16D
how to push aside emotion?
If this is something you struggle with I suggest you look into stoicism. Stoicism also gives insight into how to be a virtues' person
2. STRATAGISE - now we know what we want to change about ourselves we will need to think how can we do this? Say you're angry constantly maybe you'll look into ways to control these emotions and put use to them elsewhere. Psychology and philosophy can give you really good insights to this. Maybe listen to input and stories from others who went through similar struggles
Use Strategic Thinking to Create the Life You Want https://share.google/KRLsrv3dasERTcF2f
3. TAKE ACTION - adapt these ways of thinking into your day to day life, be open minded, don't be ruled by your emotions and become the best person you can be
WHY LYING AND WEAKNESS CAN BE BAD:
If you had to chose between 2 people of the same level of attraction but one person was good and had a good personality vs the other who is bad and has a bad personality, I think we would all choose the 1st right?
Take the whitepill https://forum.looksmaxxing.com/threads/take-the-whitepill.88026/
why is growth important?
By staying stagnant as a person, we can destroy our relationships, miss out on opportunities and limit our potential.
Growth is an important factor for communication and as a byproduct increases life quality hugely. As the saying goes "happy wife, happy life" I think the same can be said about any relationship you have. You wouldn't want to be around someone who had a bad personality or who is a horrible person chances are.
The impact of positive activities on mental health: the mediating role of positive emotion - PMC https://share.google/zb8y8PX8F9yx8774F
Being in a positive head space can decrease cortisol and make us more active and productive as a result. This can help us improve our appearance too
how do I grow as a person?
1. REFLECT - for this step we need to try and push aside our personal biases and emotions in order to look at this logically. Look deep into yourself and think about the negative traits you possess and what you can improve upon. A good place to start can be to look at things people often critic or insult you on.
Ways of reflecting | Reflection Toolkit | Reflection Toolkit https://share.google/XuCh1OWkuFPt4x16D
how to push aside emotion?
If this is something you struggle with I suggest you look into stoicism. Stoicism also gives insight into how to be a virtues' person
2. STRATAGISE - now we know what we want to change about ourselves we will need to think how can we do this? Say you're angry constantly maybe you'll look into ways to control these emotions and put use to them elsewhere. Psychology and philosophy can give you really good insights to this. Maybe listen to input and stories from others who went through similar struggles
Use Strategic Thinking to Create the Life You Want https://share.google/KRLsrv3dasERTcF2f
3. TAKE ACTION - adapt these ways of thinking into your day to day life, be open minded, don't be ruled by your emotions and become the best person you can be
WHY LYING AND WEAKNESS CAN BE BAD:
If you had to chose between 2 people of the same level of attraction but one person was good and had a good personality vs the other who is bad and has a bad personality, I think we would all choose the 1st right?
[B]there's always room for improvement[/B][B]this can be used for life maxxing, looksmaxxing, in sports, in relationships and in school.[/B]Take the whitepill https://forum.looksmaxxing.com/threads/take-the-whitepill.88026/
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