rant abt the guy i like

[aryy]

so i like him, i know he likes me. i said i wasnt ready to date before, but the thing is like basically we have a mutual friend and she told me he likes me i told her to tell him that i said he was cute but im not ready to date. i really like him, i cant look at him without my heartbeat rising up but i dont think im ready to date, i need to prepare for my medical exam. Plus, i think im not good at relationships. But basically, he said he was also like kinda jealous (main reason i dont wanna date) to my friend, and hes lwk trying again. idk what to do

 

[CopingManiac]

 

[CopingManiac]

so i like him, i know he likes me. i said i wasnt ready to date before, but the thing is like basically we have a mutual friend and she told me he likes me i told her to tell him that i said he was cute but im not ready to date. i really like him, i cant look at him without my heartbeat rising up but i dont think im ready to date, i need to prepare for my medical exam. Plus, i think im not good at relationships. But basically, he said he was also like kinda jealous (main reason i dont wanna date) to my friend, and hes lwk trying again. idk what to do

u should date him despite whats bothering you

 

[aryy]

u should date him despite whats bothering you

but i cant get over the fact we may breakup

 

[rickydickydoodahgrimes]

so i like him, i know he likes me. i said i wasnt ready to date before, but the thing is like basically we have a mutual friend and she told me he likes me i told her to tell him that i said he was cute but im not ready to date. i really like him, i cant look at him without my heartbeat rising up but i dont think im ready to date, i need to prepare for my medical exam. Plus, i think im not good at relationships. But basically, he said he was also like kinda jealous (main reason i dont wanna date) to my friend, and hes lwk trying again. idk what to do

this guy sounds like a lot of hassle tbh
i dont fw men that i think are gonna be a hassle and cause me stress cos i start to look like a goblin when stressed over long periods of time (hives, poor skin quality, eyebags, worse eating habits u name it)

 

[CopingManiac]

but i cant get over the fact we may breakup

I mean you can also just not date him. staying khhv as a foid is high appeal

 

[aryy]

this guy sounds like a lot of hassle tbh
i dont fw men that i think are gonna be a hassle and cause me stress cos i start to look like a goblin when stressed over long periods of time (hives, poor skin quality, eyebags, worse eating habits u name it)

yeah tbh relationships cause me alot of stress so thats also why im trying to avoid

 

[aryy]

I mean you can also just not date him. staying khhv as a foid is high appeal

yeahh but i do really like him so im confused

 

[rickydickydoodahgrimes]

I mean you can also just not date him. staying khhv as a foid is high appeal

often times it does attract weirdos
minute u tell a man ur a virgin they start rubbing their hands tg n shit thinking theyre gonna be the man to change that (theyre not) jfl

 

[nanac]

often times it does attract weirdos
minute u tell a man ur a virgin they start rubbing their hands tg n shit thinking theyre gonna be the man to change that (theyre not) jfl

this is my biggest fear stop

 

[drchad]

so i like him, i know he likes me. i said i wasnt ready to date before, but the thing is like basically we have a mutual friend and she told me he likes me i told her to tell him that i said he was cute but im not ready to date. i really like him, i cant look at him without my heartbeat rising up but i dont think im ready to date, i need to prepare for my medical exam. Plus, i think im not good at relationships. But basically, he said he was also like kinda jealous (main reason i dont wanna date) to my friend, and hes lwk trying again. idk what to do

Focus on your medical exam if its soon if not then just play the long game with him dont have to date immediately

 

[rickydickydoodahgrimes]

this is my biggest fear stop

as a fellow v card holder im so sorry
its brutal out here esp in the uk

 

[drchad]

as a fellow v card holder im so sorry
its brutal out here esp in the uk

But what if the guy also had his v card?

 

[nanac]

as a fellow v card holder im so sorry
its brutal out here esp in the uk

boi i keep hearing horror stories from the uk im genuinely so sorry for u guys
hookup culture needs to change immediately

 

[CopingManiac]

often times it does attract weirdos
minute u tell a man ur a virgin they start rubbing their hands tg n shit thinking theyre gonna be the man to change that (theyre not) jfl

wtv

yeahh but i do really like him so im confused

it's up to you, I wouldn't let strangers on the internet dictate my life like that

 

[rickydickydoodahgrimes]

But what if the guy also had his v card?

this is nrly impossible at my age in the UK
even the dudes who arent gl at all will look u dead in the eyes and tell u they have a bc of 15 like its normal

 

[Anna]

as a fellow v card holder im so sorry
its brutal out here esp in the uk

boi i keep hearing horror stories from the uk im genuinely so sorry for u guys
hookup culture needs to change immediately

@kimothy WHAT has this got to do with the uk?!

 

[aryy]

Focus on your medical exam if its soon if not then just play the long game with him dont have to date immediately

its in 1.5 years

 

[kimothy]

@kimothy WHAT has this got to do with the uk?!

i have no idea

 

[tuberculosisinmybal]

so i like him, i know he likes me. i said i wasnt ready to date before, but the thing is like basically we have a mutual friend and she told me he likes me i told her to tell him that i said he was cute but im not ready to date. i really like him, i cant look at him without my heartbeat rising up but i dont think im ready to date, i need to prepare for my medical exam. Plus, i think im not good at relationships. But basically, he said he was also like kinda jealous (main reason i dont wanna date) to my friend, and hes lwk trying again. idk what to do

self manipulation

 

[drchad]

its in 1.5 years

Enough time to be “friends” with him for a while and see where it goes, let him know early about your goals and when you get somewhat serious down the line it wont be a shocker when your not always there

 

[aryy]

Enough time to be “friends” with him for a while and see where it goes, let him know early about your goals and when you get somewhat serious down the line it wont be a shocker when your not always there

true, he also plans to give medical so if we get into the same college id lowk get into a ltr w him

 

[selank]

so i like him, i know he likes me. i said i wasnt ready to date before, but the thing is like basically we have a mutual friend and she told me he likes me i told her to tell him that i said he was cute but im not ready to date. i really like him, i cant look at him without my heartbeat rising up but i dont think im ready to date, i need to prepare for my medical exam. Plus, i think im not good at relationships. But basically, he said he was also like kinda jealous (main reason i dont wanna date) to my friend, and hes lwk trying again. idk what to do

Date his dad.

 

[drchad]

so how do you plan on talking to him

i want to get a foids perspective on this

 

[aryy]

so how do you plan on talking to him

i want to get a foids perspective on this

like ill reply when he talks, if he brings it up ill say i like him but im scared etc

 

[Currycelloser]

so i like him, i know he likes me. i said i wasnt ready to date before, but the thing is like basically we have a mutual friend and she told me he likes me i told her to tell him that i said he was cute but im not ready to date. i really like him, i cant look at him without my heartbeat rising up but i dont think im ready to date, i need to prepare for my medical exam. Plus, i think im not good at relationships. But basically, he said he was also like kinda jealous (main reason i dont wanna date) to my friend, and hes lwk trying again. idk what to do

just lower cortisol

 

[aryy]

just lower cortisol

good advice bhai

 

[Bojack]

so i like him, i know he likes me. i said i wasnt ready to date before, but the thing is like basically we have a mutual friend and she told me he likes me i told her to tell him that i said he was cute but im not ready to date. i really like him, i cant look at him without my heartbeat rising up but i dont think im ready to date, i need to prepare for my medical exam. Plus, i think im not good at relationships. But basically, he said he was also like kinda jealous (main reason i dont wanna date) to my friend, and hes lwk trying again. idk what to do

Lol when it's all about looks n shiiii

 

[aryy]

Lol when it's all about looks n shiiii

how so?

 

[Bojack]

how so?

It's simple really, my dear Watson. An ugly person thinks to themselves, "oh if only I were good at relationships!" A good looking person thinks, "damn, I'm so good at relationships!" Do you see the dichotomy here?

 

[aryy]

It's simple really, my dear Watson. An ugly person thinks to themselves, "oh if only I were good at relationships!" A good looking person thinks, "damn, I'm so good at relationships!" Do you see the dichotomy here?

ehh its not thatt tho im the one who brokeup in my prev relationships, but i lwk caused alot of problems so

 

[Almighty Sigma Wolf]

its in 1.5 years

Do you genuinely plan to prepare for 1.5 years for a test

 

[Bojack]

ehh its not thatt tho im the one who brokeup in my prev relationships, but i lwk caused alot of problems so

It all comes back to your looks yoooo

 

[aryy]

Do you genuinely plan to prepare for 1.5 years for a test

people usually prepare for 2.5 years here

 

[aryy]

It all comes back to your looks yoooo

how so

 

[Bojack]

how so

Negative feedback look, you aren't good looking most likely if you're boyfriend doesn't put up with your attitude n shiiii. A good looking girl has more leeway with her bf tbh ngl

 

[aryy]

Negative feedback look, you aren't good looking most likely if you're boyfriend doesn't put up with your attitude n shiiii. A good looking girl has more leeway with her bf tbh ngl

maybe, i tried breaking up 50 times in my prev relationships so i do have some problems asw

 

[Bojack]

maybe, i tried breaking up 50 times in my prev relationships so i do have some problems asw

yea stacy can break up 100 times and the guy will keep coming back for more n shiii

 

[foidslayer22]

give yourself some time