Looksmaxxing Forum Logo

Join 45,000+ Looksmaxxing Members!

Register a FREE account today to become a member. Once signed in, you'll be able to participate on this site by adding your own topics and posts, as well as connect with other members through your own private inbox.

Register Log in
  • DISCLAIMER: DO NOT ATTEMPT TREATMENT WITHOUT LICENCED MEDICAL CONSULTATION AND SUPERVISION

    This is a public discussion forum. The owners, staff, and users of this website ARE NOT engaged in rendering professional services to the individual reader. DO NOT use the content of this website as an alternative to personal examination and advice from licenced healthcare providers. DO NOT begin, delay, or discontinue treatments and/or exercises without licenced medical supervision. Learn more

ranting

ameliaisbasd

ameliaisbasd

Well-known member
Established
Joined
Mar 5, 2025
Messages
781
Time Online
3h 28m
Reputation
1,004
when will it be my turn
whenever i see a happy couple, even a miserable couple i just feel so angry
i work hard, i take care of myself, im funny,
when will it be my turn?????
this world is so cruel to ltb
i can cook and clean
that should be enough
stupid ltns dating gorgeous but cruel cruel women
nice girls lose
maybe if i was a bitchy blonde id find love
 
ameliaisbasd said:
when will it be my turn
whenever i see a happy couple, even a miserable couple i just feel so angry
i work hard, i take care of myself, im funny,
when will it be my turn?????
this world is so cruel to ltb
i can cook and clean
that should be enough
stupid ltns dating gorgeous but cruel cruel women
nice girls lose
maybe if i was a bitchy blonde id find love
Click to expand...
You'll be fine, ain't no way guys aren't interested in you
 
ameliaisbasd said:
i was a hikkikomori for 2 years and now i cant really talk well
Click to expand...
Did you go to school? Hikikomori is like the Japanese version of NEET. Doesn't really apply if you were in education of some kind, like school.

If you just mean isolation, it's normal. It'd take time to rebuild that skill but that's probably the primary factor, not your looks.
 
Randomized Shame said:
Did you go to school? Hikikomori is like the Japanese version of NEET. Doesn't really apply if you were in education of some kind, like school.

If you just mean isolation, it's normal. It'd take to rebuild that skill but that's primary factor, not your looks.
Click to expand...
i didnt go to school, i didnt leave my house, or even my room
 
ameliaisbasd said:
i didnt go to school, i didnt leave my house, or even my room
Click to expand...
That's tough, especially someone as young as you are. Do you seek mental health treatment of some kind? Medicine, therapy, etc?

You're pretty young and so it'd be easier for you to re-learn the skills of socialization. It gets harder the older you get but it's not impossible.
 
Randomized Shame said:
That's tough, especially someone as young as you are. Do you seek mental health treatment of some kind? Medicine, therapy, etc?

You're pretty young and so it'd be easier for you to re-learn the skills of socialization. It gets harder the older you get but it's not impossible.
Click to expand...
ive been to 6 coucellers, 3 therapists, and the ward 7 times, early schizoaffective and proggressed borderline alone with heavy anxiety, idk if i can relearn
 
ameliaisbasd said:
i dont know, they just always look sad, and i have bpd so i get mad alot and i dont trust myself to care for an animal.
Click to expand...
Those are fair points. But if you cannot take care of an animal due to having BPD, do you think it is wise to enter a relationship?
 
ameliaisbasd said:
ive been to 6 coucellers, 3 therapists, and the ward 7 times, early schizoaffective and proggressed borderline alone with heavy anxiety, idk if i can relearn
Click to expand...
One aspect of looksmaxxing is having the desire and drive to change the things about your life that you don't like. If you don't like how you look, you change it. If you don't like how you feel, you change it. Obviously your condition(s) are pretty intense and severe, so you have to do what works best for your situation.
 
ameliaisbasd said:
i was a hikkikomori for 2 years and now i cant really talk well
Click to expand...
Relatable. I've lost my social skills due to being a NEET / hikikomori (ヒキコモリ) but when I was in high school, I was extremely social. Now I'm quite awkward to say the least. Not always, though.
 
ameliaisbasd said:
when will it be my turn
whenever i see a happy couple, even a miserable couple i just feel so angry
i work hard, i take care of myself, im funny,
when will it be my turn?????
this world is so cruel to ltb
i can cook and clean
that should be enough
stupid ltns dating gorgeous but cruel cruel women
nice girls lose
maybe if i was a bitchy blonde id find love
Click to expand...
Again, that's not healthy and is part of narcissism disorder being built. See the thread, it can improve your life

Wilk

Discussion Formulating a new theory

Now, the sense (opinions, etc.) that an individual has of themselves (including their sense of value, acceptance, etc.) is shaped by a psychological function called the "ego." Contrary to the common notion that "ego" means overrating oneself, in psychology, the ego refers to the function by which an individual discovers and asserts who they are based on their own original notions. Thus, someone with a strong ego is not necessarily someone who praises themselves excessively, but rather someone who can autonomously form a sense of their own identity.

However, the opinions you hold about...
  • Like
  • Gold
  • Wow
 
Spuffy said:
now how does this reflect on me
Click to expand...
You're not a guy? What's up with everyone I'm assuming is a guy not being a guy? I also thought you were an .org user like OP.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top