Serious conversation:How to raise a daughter?

[Balian]

Usually when this conversation is brought up in bp spaces the common response is

“If I found out it’s a girl, abortion it is”

“If you have a daughter you’re a cuck”

Followed by a video/pic of a foid being a whore, degenerate, etc
But let’s be honest and real for a moment, if you’re gonna have children, there’s 50% it’s a girl
A common response to that by the average guy is

“She was raised without a father”

“Fatherless activities”

But in my anecdotal experience this doesn’t seem to serve true completely
I know sisters from the same household, with great and caring parents

One ends with a family and children

Other all tattooed up, probably with a new guy every week

And serves in the other direction too
A girl from a broken household with a permanently drunken father
Gets accepted to one of the best unis, has a great job, married at 25

There’s nothing inherently bad about having a daughter, these foids were not like this 60 years ago
Most, if not all of this is socially induced


It seems like you can do everything wrong and the result turns out alright, or perhaps do everything right, and it ends horribly

Which begs the question: how to raise a daughter properly?
Nobody here has experience with a raising a child, but let’s hear everyone’s thoughts

 

[Newday]

dnr you will never have children

 

[Balian]

dnr you will never have children

How’s that

 

[insomnia]

Do your best and understand that she will be the person she wants to be, regardless of what you do.

 

[Deleted Member 46433]

a lot of this can be said for sons too

 

[Balian]

Do your best and understand that she will be the person she wants to be, regardless of what you do.

Person she wants to be might be an only fans creator, a pornstar , whore, murderer
Etc

 

[rickydickydoodahgrimes]

t

Usually when this conversation is brought up in bp spaces the common response is

“If I found out it’s a girl, abortion it is”

“If you have a daughter you’re a cuck”

Followed by a video/pic of a foid being a whore, degenerate, etc
But let’s be honest and real for a moment, if you’re gonna have children, there’s 50% it’s a girl
A common response to that by the average guy is

“She was raised without a father”

“Fatherless activities”

But in my anecdotal experience this doesn’t seem to serve true completely
I know sisters from the same household, with great and caring parents

One ends with a family and children

Other all tattooed up, probably with a new guy every week

And serves in the other direction too
A girl from a broken household with a permanently drunken father
Gets accepted to one of the best unis, has a great job, married at 25

There’s nothing inherently bad about having a daughter, these foids were not like this 60 years ago
Most, if not all of this is socially induced


It seems like you can do everything wrong and the result turns out alright, or perhaps do everything right, and it ends horribly

Which begs the question: how to raise a daughter properly?
Nobody here has experience with a raising a child, but let’s hear everyone’s thoughts

theres issues with raising boys too, i love how people act like having a daughter is the worst thing in the world when statistically they are far less likely to; be a paedophile, be a rapist, be a murderer, be a domestic abuser etc
if ur biggest fear is ur kid growing up to be a bit promiscuous (which to be clear i don't agree with for either gender male or female) then you live a truly privileged and sheltered life

 

[Balian]

a lot of this can be said for sons too

It can
But there’s something different about daughters, it seems to me they require more effort
Women were always the gatkeepers of integrity
There’s been way more push to degenerate them

 

[insomnia]

Person she wants to be might be an only fans creator, a pornstar , whore, murderer
Etc

you can do everything in your power to stop her from becoming a whore, and she might still end up as one. My point is that you should try and guide her to what is right, but at the end of the day she's still a human being with free will.

 

[Balian]

t

theres issues with raising boys too, i love how people act like having a daughter is the worst thing in the world when statistically they are far less likely to; be a paedophile, be a rapist, be a murderer, be a domestic abuser etc
if ur biggest fear is ur kid growing up to be a bit promiscuous (which to be clear i don't agree with for either gender male or female) then you live a truly privileged and sheltered life

I never said there aren’t issues with raising boys
There are, what I’m saying is totally different
Pedophile, rapist and abuser are all extremely socially shamed
being promiscuous isn’t, not the way it used to be
It’s way more likely to have a child who’s promiscuous than one who’s a pedophile,

And I don’t live a shelterd or privileged life jfl
And I never said having a daughter is a bad thing

 

[rickydickydoodahgrimes]

I never said there aren’t issues with raising boys
There are, what I’m saying is totally different
Pedophile, rapist and abuser are all extremely socially shamed
being promiscuous isn’t, not the way it used to be
It’s way more likely to have a child who’s promiscuous than one who’s a pedophile,

And I don’t live a shelterd or privileged life jfl
And I never said having a daughter is a bad thing

im just saying i see all this over the top shit about what about ism surrounding ur own daughters sex life as if its the worst possible outcome
also a son is just as likely to be promiscuous, so why is it only an issue if a daughter does it ?
what even is the difference ?
and also, for ALLLL these women to be slutty, to make shitloads of money off of OF and the like, theres a shitload of men who are sleeping with said women and paying them for content
this isnt a female degeneracy issue, its just a degeneracy issue and im sick of it being blamed on women as men are just as much to blame as there is no supply without demand
these arent the witch trials anymore and some people really like to point fingers like it is

 

[Balian]

im just saying i see all this over the top shit about what about ism surrounding ur own daughters sex life as if its the worst possible outcome
also a son is just as likely to be promiscuous, so why is it only an issue if a daughter does it ?
what even is the difference ?
and also, for ALLLL these women to be slutty, to make shitloads of money off of OF and the like, theres a shitload of men who are sleeping with said women and paying them for content
this isnt a female degeneracy issue, its just a degeneracy issue and im sick of it being blamed on women as men are just as much to blame as there is no supply without demand
these arent the witch trials anymore and some people really like to point fingers like it is

Maybe there are worse outcomes there
It’s still a pretty terrible outcome
Do you want your daughter to be a new man’s lay every week? You don’t
There is a degeneracy issue
But it’s totally different
Women have historically been the gatekeepers of integrity,
The reason hook up and sex culture became so prevalent is practically the female sexual revolution
yes men were less degenerate in the past, but the real reason society used to be like that was not that many men weren’t looking for sex
It was mainly because women didn’t give it up
There has been way more effort to degenerate girls and women than vice versa and that’s why I think raising a daughter is way more different and harder

reason a man is shamed less
Is because it’s seen as an achievement, a man needs to be above other men to even have the capability to be promiscuous
A woman just needs to have the will for it

 

[Deleted Member 46433]

I never said there aren’t issues with raising boys
There are, what I’m saying is totally different
Pedophile, rapist and abuser are all extremely socially shamed
being promiscuous isn’t, not the way it used to be
It’s way more likely to have a child who’s promiscuous than one who’s a pedophile,

And I don’t live a shelterd or privileged life jfl
And I never said having a daughter is a bad thing

youre comparing a daughter making choices you dont like that only harms herself to a son committing crimes that destroy lives. youre defining degeneration as her not following your specific societal rules, whereas with a son, youre defining it as him being a criminal. those arent the same stakes, and its frankly unfair. its way more likely for a child to be a liar than a murderer too, but that doesnt make raising a truthful child the hardest task in the world. your daughters sexuality shouldnt be the biggest problem you think of when raising a daughter. people forget its very easy for a women to be promiscuous because there are men out there that constantly want that from women and encourage the system. if a man (or woman, but lets be honest porn was made for men) has ever watched porn, they have contributed to encouraging promiscuity in females at some level. so, my point is that there are far more important things to protect your son and daughter from. being promiscuous in general is a terrible example as it involves 2 people always, but the focus is always on the woman as she is considered the "temptress".

im not defending being a whore or anything either. i personally dont agree with promiscuity, but i can still say its not on the same scale as the crimes you listed. im just pointing out how i feel like what youre saying feels biased and narrow minded. a big part of bp i think encourages men into promiscuity as well, so i dont know why bringing up bp would support your point. it would probably do the opposite. look at clavicular for example. when people say one gender is harder to raise than another or requires more effort, its usually never for an actually good reason.

if you just want to protect your daughter from creepy men or want her to live a nice life and get married and have children, i think thats great. but i dont think it means theyre more work because they need more protection from men. i see your responses, and theyre all concerned with your daughter being in bad situations with men, so how is it not seen that its hard to raise boys too as such a large amount of them are doing this with women? your main issue it seems is that you want to protect your daughters from men, which is good, but then it would seem that the men are the common denominator here. it takes just as much work for making a daughter into being a good person as a son

 

[HeavyMetalGoth]

youre comparing a daughter making choices you dont like that only harms herself to a son committing crimes that destroy lives. youre defining degeneration as her not following your specific societal rules, whereas with a son, youre defining it as him being a criminal. those arent the same stakes, and its frankly unfair. its way more likely for a child to be a liar than a murderer too, but that doesnt make raising a truthful child the hardest task in the world. your daughters sexuality shouldnt be the biggest problem you think of when raising a daughter. people forget its very easy for a women to be promiscuous because there are men out there that constantly want that from women and encourage the system. if a man (or woman, but lets be honest porn was made for men) has ever watched porn, they have contributed to encouraging promiscuity in females at some level. so, my point is that there are far more important things to protect your son and daughter from. being promiscuous in general is a terrible example as it involves 2 people always, but the focus is always on the woman as she is considered the "temptress".

im not defending being a whore or anything either. i personally dont agree with promiscuity, but i can still say its not on the same scale as the crimes you listed. im just pointing out how i feel like what youre saying feels biased and narrow minded. a big part of bp i think encourages men into promiscuity as well, so i dont know why bringing up bp would support your point. it would probably do the opposite. look at clavicular for example. when people say one gender is harder to raise than another or requires more effort, its usually never for an actually good reason.

if you just want to protect your daughter from creepy men or want her to live a nice life and get married and have children, i think thats great. but i dont think it means theyre more work because they need more protection from men. i see your responses, and theyre all concerned with your daughter being in bad situations with men, so how is it not seen that its hard to raise boys too as such a large amount of them are doing this with women? your main issue it seems is that you want to protect your daughters from men, which is good, but then it would seem that the men are the common denominator here. it takes just as much work for making a daughter into being a good person as a son

holy text

 

[Balian]

youre comparing a daughter making choices you dont like that only harms herself to a son committing crimes that destroy lives. youre defining degeneration as her not following your specific societal rules, whereas with a son, youre defining it as him being a criminal. those arent the same stakes, and its frankly unfair. its way more likely for a child to be a liar than a murderer too, but that doesnt make raising a truthful child the hardest task in the world. your daughters sexuality shouldnt be the biggest problem you think of when raising a daughter. people forget its very easy for a women to be promiscuous because there are men out there that constantly want that from women and encourage the system. if a man (or woman, but lets be honest porn was made for men) has ever watched porn, they have contributed to encouraging promiscuity in females at some level. so, my point is that there are far more important things to protect your son and daughter from. being promiscuous in general is a terrible example as it involves 2 people always, but the focus is always on the woman as she is considered the "temptress".

im not defending being a whore or anything either. i personally dont agree with promiscuity, but i can still say its not on the same scale as the crimes you listed. im just pointing out how i feel like what youre saying feels biased and narrow minded. a big part of bp i think encourages men into promiscuity as well, so i dont know why bringing up bp would support your point. it would probably do the opposite. look at clavicular for example. when people say one gender is harder to raise than another or requires more effort, its usually never for an actually good reason.

if you just want to protect your daughter from creepy men or want her to live a nice life and get married and have children, i think thats great. but i dont think it means theyre more work because they need more protection from men. i see your responses, and theyre all concerned with your daughter being in bad situations with men, so how is it not seen that its hard to raise boys too as such a large amount of them are doing this with women? your main issue it seems is that you want to protect your daughters from men, which is good, but then it would seem that the men are the common denominator here. it takes just as much work for making a daughter into being a good person as a son

The premise of half of what u said is wrong
I never said, a son being pedophile is the same, or on par with a daughter being a whore
Granted they’re both degeneracy in my book
But they’re totally different crimes, and one being worse obviously
What I said was in response to Ricky’s bringing them up
I don’t have to worry much about my son ending up as a pedophile, don’t need to go out of my way, put effort so he wouldn’t end up as one
pedophilia to this day is extremely socially stigmatised, promiscuity isn’t
Hell, some even embrace it
it’s a way easier Pitt to fall in, I imagine, I do have to put in effort and do something so my daughter wouldn’t end up as one
Since society doesn’t do that anymore
I brought bp to give a sample of how people react to this question, “ if you raise a daughter you’re cuck etc”

Yes I’d like to protect my daughter if I had one, I’d like her to be educated, married and have a family
Point is, the society muddies the water in that direction, so many women don’t up like this anymore because of that
Choices are shaped by experiences and environment
it’s literally in women’s nature and dna code, to be nurturing, want to reproduce
Yet today you have women who hate that ? How is that not socially engineering?
It’s literally like convincing a tiger to graze on grass instead of eating meat

My point with promiscuity is that
How do I defend my daughter against not simply men but this engineering?
It is simply different for girls and boys
Naturally it is
I’ve explained this in the post above

 

[rickydickydoodahgrimes]

Maybe there are worse outcomes there
It’s still a pretty terrible outcome
Do you want your daughter to be a new man’s lay every week? You don’t
There is a degeneracy issue
But it’s totally different
Women have historically been the gatekeepers of integrity,
The reason hook up and sex culture became so prevalent is practically the female sexual revolution
yes men were less degenerate in the past, but the real reason society used to be like that was not that many men weren’t looking for sex
It was mainly because women didn’t give it up
There has been way more effort to degenerate girls and women than vice versa and that’s why I think raising a daughter is way more different and harder

reason a man is shamed less
Is because it’s seen as an achievement, a man needs to be above other men to even have the capability to be promiscuous
A woman just needs to have the will for it

i would find it equally as gross for my son or daughter to be promiscuous as its just a sign of a lack of self control and respect, it isn't an achievement for a man to be with a new girl every week it simply means he likely has an STI and has a lack of self respect, control and no form of identity and self worth
its equally as bad
don't care if society thinks my son is 'cool' for being a hoe, in my eyes that makes him and by extension my parenting a failure

 

[tjlfmz]

i would find it equally as gross for my son or daughter to be promiscuous as its just a sign of a lack of self control and respect, it isn't an achievement for a man to be with a new girl every week it simply means he likely has an STI and has a lack of self respect, control and no form of identity and self worth
its equally as bad
don't care if society thinks my son is 'cool' for being a hoe, in my eyes that makes him and by extension my parenting a failure

ur son is 100% being a chav