She was all i wanted

[s3amoonbear]

Man, idk, i just wanted her. Now i cant maybe in some other timeline

 

[Deleted Member 106344]

I feel the same way about a girl right now, and I can only feel her slipping through my fingers


Sucks, doesn’t it?The feeling that you’re losing her forever

 

[Sammy]

i wish you the best going foward bhai
Eventually you will hardly think about her, try to focus on other things for know twin.
Dont reach out to her it will only make things worse and take longer to get over.

true love exists and you will find it

 

[Deleted Member 47925]

you won't find shit or hope, just give up.

 

[Deleted Member 106344]

i wish you the best going foward bhai
Eventually you will hardly think about her, try to focus on other things for know twin.
Dont reach out to her it will only make things worse and take longer to get over.

true love exists and you will find it

I’m highly doubtful of that statement a various of reasons, particularly that most humans nowadays lack pair-bonding abilities due to heightened dopamine from false activites rather innate ones, as well as the more obvious cancer that roams our once structured society: promiscuity

 

[s3amoonbear]

i wish you the best going foward bhai
Eventually you will hardly think about her, try to focus on other things for know twin.
Dont reach out to her it will only make things worse and take longer to get over.

true love exists and you will find it

Maybe, or maybe I'll never, i just want someone to understand me

 

[apatheia]

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I’m highly doubtful of that statement a various of reasons, particularly that most humans nowadays lack pair-bonding abilities due to heightened dopamine from false activites rather innate ones, as well as the more obvious cancer that roams our once structured society: promiscuity

Promiscuity is still decently low.

 

[Deleted Member 106344]

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Promiscuity is still decently low.

Perhaps promiscuity itself, but tendencies that correlate with it certainly aren’t, and I take it very seriously. I just can’t sit there and accept a red flag from a woman, even though most people have red flags. It’s not something I can do, hence why I don’t believe in true love. That’s just my perspective, I understand most people aren’t as hyper fixated on it as I am

 

[apatheia]

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Perhaps promiscuity itself, but tendencies that correlate with it certainly aren’t, and I take it very seriously. I just can’t sit there and accept a red flag from a woman, even though most people have red flags. It’s not something I can do, hence why I don’t believe in true love. That’s just my perspective, I understand most people aren’t as hyper fixated on it as I am

And what tendencies would you say correlate with promiscuity? Just making sure we are on the same page.

 

[Deleted Member 106344]

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And what tendencies would you say correlate with promiscuity? Just making sure we are on the same page.

Just to list a few, and of course all of these hold different weight in their own regards

Unreasonably high number of male friendships
Not over an ex/still in contact with an ex
Wears revealing clothing on a basis
High body count
Goes out to parties/clubs/bars often
Has female friends who are known to be promiscuous

 

[apatheia]

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Just to list a few, and of course all of these hold different weight in their own regards

Unreasonably high number of male friendships
Not over an ex/still in contact with an ex
Wears revealing clothing on a basis
High body count
Goes out to parties/clubs/bars often
Has female friends who are known to be promiscuous

Yes, you are right about that, but the up to date statistics still show that promiscuity is much lower than you'd expect it to be. You'd probably be surprised.

 

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Yes, you are right about that, but the up to date statistics still show that promiscuity is much lower than you'd expect it to be. You'd probably be surprised.

I suppose if the ends justify the means, then I’ll be fine as I simply don’t want to be cheated on. But the issue is that women who have promiscuous tendencies, even if they aren’t promiscuous, tend to be harder to bond with and often end in messy break ups or dead bedrooms. Not entirely set on if that’s worth the risk

 

[apatheia]

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I suppose if the ends justify the means, then I’ll be fine as I simply don’t want to be cheated on. But the issue is that women who have promiscuous tendencies, even if they aren’t promiscuous, tend to be harder to bond with and often end in messy break ups or dead bedrooms. Not entirely set on if that’s worth the risk

I agree, but at the same time you need to assess a woman on an individual basis, learning how to become a good judge of character will benefit you immensely in finding a successful long term relationship. After learning that, you'll have to just trust your partner.