Should I ask this guy out

[Lelemane]

I like this guy and he knows I like him, but I feel like he just enjoys the idea of a girl liking him and that it’s not something he geninuely rlly cares abt. We don’t even talk but it’s just so awkward I’m kinda tired of our only interactions being eye contact. And apart from that, ik he likes to have a religious gf and I’m not religious at all. I’m very open to ppls opinions and I dont believe in religion, but I believe in god. I Just don’t think he’d want to associate with someone who isn’t religious like him. And I feel like if he already knows I like him, he would’ve asked me already so I just don’t think it’s a good decision to try anyways.

 

[ifsixwasnine]

No

 

[ifsixwasnine]

If u feel like it won’t be a good decision and there’s already signs it won’t work out then don’t.

 

[Lelemane]

If u feel like it won’t be a good decision and there’s already signs it won’t work out then don’t.

thanks for the advice, I also think that if there’s signs something isn’t meant to be it won’t

 

[zinsa]

I like this guy and he knows I like him, but I feel like he just enjoys the idea of a girl liking him and that it’s not something he geninuely rlly cares abt. We don’t even talk but it’s just so awkward I’m kinda tired of our only interactions being eye contact. And apart from that, ik he likes to have a religious gf and I’m not religious at all. I’m very open to ppls opinions and I dont believe in religion, but I believe in god. I Just don’t think he’d want to associate with someone who isn’t religious like him. And I feel like if he already knows I like him, he would’ve asked me already so I just don’t think it’s a good decision to try anyways.

i was in the exact situation as a guy, like not your situation but that im the guy perspective situation. i dont even think about stuff like relationships at all im sure theres allot of women in my school talking rumors behind my back because my friends tell me these rumors and nationality is a big topic in my country and they gossip while im forgetting half of these foids names and im sure every other guy is like that . men tent to not overthing stuff. men generally produce more GABA than women. means that women overthing about bs more then men do. therefore you overthinking this, its not that deep dawg. do what feels right

 

[Lelemane]

i was in the exact situation as a guy, like not your situation but that im the guy perspective situation. i dont even think about stuff like relationships at all im sure theres allot of women in my school talking rumors behind my back because my friends tell me these rumors and nationality is a big topic in my country and they gossip while im forgetting half of these foids names and im sure every other guy is like that . men tent to not overthing stuff. men generally produce more GABA than women. means that women overthing about bs more then men do. therefore you overthinking this, its not that deep dawg. do what feels right

Your right I’m generally a overthinker regardless, so I think I’ll just stick to my gut feeling of not doing it although I never really even planned on doing it anyways

 

[James Othy]

I like this guy and he knows I like him, but I feel like he just enjoys the idea of a girl liking him and that it’s not something he geninuely rlly cares abt. We don’t even talk but it’s just so awkward I’m kinda tired of our only interactions being eye contact. And apart from that, ik he likes to have a religious gf and I’m not religious at all. I’m very open to ppls opinions and I dont believe in religion, but I believe in god. I Just don’t think he’d want to associate with someone who isn’t religious like him. And I feel like if he already knows I like him, he would’ve asked me already so I just don’t think it’s a good decision to try anyways.

Try, but he doesn't like you judging from what you described.

 

[James Othy]

I like this guy and he knows I like him, but I feel like he just enjoys the idea of a girl liking him and that it’s not something he geninuely rlly cares abt. We don’t even talk but it’s just so awkward I’m kinda tired of our only interactions being eye contact. And apart from that, ik he likes to have a religious gf and I’m not religious at all. I’m very open to ppls opinions and I dont believe in religion, but I believe in god. I Just don’t think he’d want to associate with someone who isn’t religious like him. And I feel like if he already knows I like him, he would’ve asked me already so I just don’t think it’s a good decision to try anyways.

i was in the exact situation as a guy, like not your situation but that im the guy perspective situation. i dont even think about stuff like relationships at all im sure theres allot of women in my school talking rumors behind my back because my friends tell me these rumors and nationality is a big topic in my country and they gossip while im forgetting half of these foids names and im sure every other guy is like that . men tent to not overthing stuff. men generally produce more GABA than women. means that women overthing about bs more then men do. therefore you overthinking this, its not that deep dawg. do what feels right

You girls better stop talking about guys who aren't me. From now on you'll only have eyes for me. I'm the daddy on this forum. Young ladies like yourselves had better get with the program.

 

[CurryMOgger]

I like this guy and he knows I like him, but I feel like he just enjoys the idea of a girl liking him and that it’s not something he geninuely rlly cares abt. We don’t even talk but it’s just so awkward I’m kinda tired of our only interactions being eye contact. And apart from that, ik he likes to have a religious gf and I’m not religious at all. I’m very open to ppls opinions and I dont believe in religion, but I believe in god. I Just don’t think he’d want to associate with someone who isn’t religious like him. And I feel like if he already knows I like him, he would’ve asked me already so I just don’t think it’s a good decision to try anyways.

What's your ethnicity?

 

[TonyTheLooksmaxxDR]

I like this guy and he knows I like him, but I feel like he just enjoys the idea of a girl liking him and that it’s not something he geninuely rlly cares abt. We don’t even talk but it’s just so awkward I’m kinda tired of our only interactions being eye contact. And apart from that, ik he likes to have a religious gf and I’m not religious at all. I’m very open to ppls opinions and I dont believe in religion, but I believe in god. I Just don’t think he’d want to associate with someone who isn’t religious like him. And I feel like if he already knows I like him, he would’ve asked me already so I just don’t think it’s a good decision to try anyways.

You never talked to him ? you don't even know him ? You want him and then you invent possible scenarios so you'll not be rejected ?

 

[Wilk]

I like this guy and he knows I like him, but I feel like he just enjoys the idea of a girl liking him and that it’s not something he geninuely rlly cares abt. We don’t even talk but it’s just so awkward I’m kinda tired of our only interactions being eye contact. And apart from that, ik he likes to have a religious gf and I’m not religious at all. I’m very open to ppls opinions and I dont believe in religion, but I believe in god. I Just don’t think he’d want to associate with someone who isn’t religious like him. And I feel like if he already knows I like him, he would’ve asked me already so I just don’t think it’s a good decision to try anyways.

Why you like him? What is attractive at him? What are your desires to him?

 

[mazolay]

thanks for the advice, I also think that if there’s signs something isn’t meant to be it won’t

bro i was in the same exact situation but as the guy, if i was u id ask anyway if ur cute enough for him he will think, i can change her or some shit, but if ur not cute enough he'll probably say no nd use the religion as the reason

 

[mazolay]

also bro, theres no way he knows u like him js from eye contact unless u told ur friend to tell him cuz thats what happened to me

 

[Lelemane]

also bro, theres no way he knows u like him js from eye contact unless u told ur friend to tell him cuz thats what happened to me

No it’s not just cuz of the eye contact we used to have classes together and sometimes my friend would make it obvious to him that I liked him

 

[Lelemane]

You never talked to him ? you don't even know him ? You want him and then you invent possible scenarios so you'll not be rejected ?

I know who he is, I don’t rlly picture scenarios I’m not rlly an imaginative person. It’s just a crush rlly, you find someone attractive you want to get to know them better

 

[Lelemane]

What's your ethnicity?

Persian and some Turkish descent.

 

[mazolay]

No it’s not just cuz of the eye contact we used to have classes together and sometimes my friend would make it obvious to him that I liked him

i mean idk the guy but either hes bad at taking hints and has no idea, hes introverted, or he knows and doesn't care cuz if he knew hed probably try talking to you some way or another or snapping you or something ,but some guys just don't cuz theyre unsure, its really hard to say but u should probably get ur friend to be straight up or tell him

 

[Lelemane]

Why you like him? What is attractive at him? What are your desires to him?

I rlly like his smile a lot, I usually don’t get a crushes at ppl who are just attractive but like idk I heard him talking in class and I thought he was funny caused his friend was talking about how he messed up his haircut and before that I never payed attention to him so that day I looked at him and I thought he was really attractive. I don’t really have like sexual desires for people like I don’t want to imagine people I like that way, but I guess I just want to get to know him so badly.

 

[Ibn]

Would you rather wonder 10 years from now about what could've happened or know what actually happened?

If it does work out, maybe it'll be good, or maybe it'll lead into a decent or darkness. Just ask

 

[Lelemane]

i mean idk the guy but either hes bad at taking hints and has no idea, hes introverted, or he knows and doesn't care cuz if he knew hed probably try talking to you some way or another or snapping you or something ,but some guys just don't cuz theyre unsure, its really hard to say but u should probably get ur friend to be straight up or tell him

He knows and he told his friends, but I think he treats it more as a game and something to boost his confidence up. Like I know if he wasn’t unsure he would’ve asked me out or at least add me on a social, that’s why I don’t wanna be a type of girl to reach out to a guy who doesn’t really like her.

 

[mazolay]

He knows and he told his friends, but I think he treats it more as a game and something to boost his confidence up. Like I know if he wasn’t unsure he would’ve asked me out or at least add me on a social, that’s why I don’t wanna be a type of girl to reach out to a guy who doesn’t really like her.

Yeah he prob doesn't like u then if he knows fs, or else he would'v done what u said, it could be alot of things but its better to move on wether that be forgetting abut it or asking him to get it over with

 

[Lelemane]

Yeah he prob doesn't like u then if he knows fs, or else he would'v done what u said, it could be alot of things but its better to move on wether that be forgetting abut it or asking him to get it over with

Thx for the advice, I was kinda getting over him during this break so I think this’ll help me more. And I feel like I was just using a crush as a way to motivate myself for school

 

[TonyTheLooksmaxxDR]

I know who he is, I don’t rlly picture scenarios I’m not rlly an imaginative person. It’s just a crush rlly, you find someone attractive you want to get to know them better

So you should try your luck and see how it goes before you regret it

 

[choripan]

Idk if I'm crazy but maybe you can actually TALK to him and KNOW him better BEFORE taking the decision of asking him out
Anime ahh mindset

 

[Lelemane]

Idk if I'm crazy but maybe you can actually TALK to him and KNOW him better BEFORE taking the decision of asking him out
Anime ahh mindset

Well obviously, I just have a crush on him and I think he’s cute? But obviously if there’s no chance to talk to him I can’t get to know hi,

 

[choripan]

Well obviously, I just have a crush on him and I think he’s cute? But obviously if there’s no chance to talk to him I can’t get to know hi,

Just talk to him and be chill then you will know if you want to go on or not

 

[Wilk]

I rlly like his smile a lot, I usually don’t get a crushes at ppl who are just attractive but like idk I heard him talking in class and I thought he was funny caused his friend was talking about how he messed up his haircut and before that I never payed attention to him so that day I looked at him and I thought he was really attractive. I don’t really have like sexual desires for people like I don’t want to imagine people I like that way, but I guess I just want to get to know him so badly.

thats social magnetism, not sexual atraction

 

[Lelemane]

thats social magnetism, not sexual atraction

I still like him. Doesn’t mean it has to be sexual

 

[Lelemane]

Just talk to him and be chill then you will know if you want to go on or not

He hasn’t been to school in like 3 weeks and like one day he randomly came back and like idk I didn’t get the chance to see him fully. I feel like I just prob have to wait till next semester to see if I still have feelings for him

 

[choripan]

He hasn’t been to school in like 3 weeks and like one day he randomly came back and like idk I didn’t get the chance to see him fully. I feel like I just prob have to wait till next semester to see if I still have feelings for him

Good I guess