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(skip first part scroll to end it's just yap) surgery and softmaxx recs plz + yap + basically vent about being ugly

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(skip this part and skip to the TLDR it's just straight venting and yap)

Alright, so I had the misfortune of being born with terrible facial thirds that make me look masculine. My lower third and mid face are the same size, but my lower third is disproportionately huge compared to my forehead. My forehead is the smallest third of my face, but the problem is my head in general is huge. Huge heads are good for guys but not for women. When I use filters that reduce the size of my jaw, I look extraordinarily better. I also look way better with a smaller nose. My infraorbital region is also pretty sunken. I have dark circles.
My jaw is okay. It's just that even from the side, it's masculine looking. I have a low hyoid, but I fix it with mewing. Even my friend jokingly said I looked like a guy every day.

To combat all of this, I have curtain bangs, face framing layers, and a wolf cut to make my head look less fucking huge. And cuz my nose is a little wide from the front, I push my glasses down onto the tip of my nose. I also have a negative canthal tilt (wooooo) and high upper eyelid exposure, but I reduce it with mascara and an eyelasher curler. I'm considering frauding like Brook Monk by using fake eyelashes to fake a positive tilt and elongate my eyes. Also, I'm thinking about drawing in my inner corner to fraud Adrianna Lima's medial canthus lol. I haven't yet cuz I'm really fucking lazy. I did get a compliment from my friend today because I was wearing lower eyelid eyeliner. Crazy how much eye region matters and yet I was born with one that was so fucking terrible. Unfair. At least I have the privilege of being a woman.

I'm LTB, but I can still pull because women are just blessed you know? Some MTNs and (and even a HMTN) have wanted me (holy average looksmatch in 2025) Even though I'm ugly, I have used the benefits of being a woman regardless.

I look at other girls and think it's wild how my base was kinda fucked and I'll never be as pretty as them. I was super high inhib in middle school when I was especially ugly with acne, small glasses (that made my face look longer), and ugly fucking hair. Girls didn't want to talk to me. Neither did guys. Now that I'm better looking in high school and better dressed, I'm confident talking to people and people actually try to talk to me. Crazy how that works. It's also crazy that no matter how much I softmaxx, my base will always hinder me. At least I'm a girl so my life's quality isn't impacted that much.



So TLDR Do not reproduce

what surgeries should I get? Yes i need surgery or ill fucking kms
Long mid face and lower third (unattractive as a girl)
Negative canthal tilt
Dark circles
Wideish nose
High upper eyelid exposure

I wish I could show you my convexity angle cuz that's also kinda fucked but too insecure

I also mentioned in a diff thread that I'm intersex and literally can't have sex because of my anatomy, so yeah, I got nerfed from fucking birth. Shitty genetic lottery. At least I'll be loyal and can't cheat with chad... Jk ltb can't pull chad
get me the rope brah.

I've noticed a lot of the girls on here truly are gorgeous and they're lucky for that 😭😭 ahhhwhy did i have to be born this way
im not suuuuper ugly im prolly 3 psl brutal world
 
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