Socialmaxxing guide needed

[dolphinn]

I used to be very popular and could easily make friends but over time my social skills have gotten worse and worse and im losing friends, connections, along with not being able to make new ones when the opportunity is given. I have somewhat held up romantically these past few years but idk its getting worse and if this keeps up I’ll die alone

Edit: forget the romantic part I just remembered how many talking dtages n gfs n bfs ive had in the past year and I have a gf rn

 

[limo8]

sorry to hear that but anti social outcast like myself only could gave you advice how to unhealthy cope if that can help feel free to ask

 

[vexnaut]

Just socialize

 

[limo8]

Just socialize

golden medal

 

[rand anon]

the generic answer you'll get is exposure therapy

I think it's all cope though

 

[tulip]

Throughout primary school I was very loud and bratty and had many friends. After we ledt the uk and mvoed to the Nethetlands I too had a phase like this. I experienced what it was like to be the backround charachter, I was quiet and reserved and could not build bonds or connections. I chose self isolation over interaction. It shocked me how I went from having everything to abseloutely fuck all.

When middle school started, I knew I couldn't risk being some ND freak. And now i'm popular again and my snapchat list if full of these friends at school. I'm 15 so idk how well this'll help, but the main thing you need to do is observe. Figure out who you want to be friends with and how to appeal to people like that, also learn to loosen up.

Stop overthinking every interaction, if you know you have something good, funny, interesting to say then blurt it out. Ask questions always force yourself to ask questions. Take advice from other women (assuming you are one) and give them advice too, let them borrow shit, borrow shit from them. Build subtle bonds and connections. Be someone's safe person. And slowly but surely everybody will gravitate towards you because you're a lovely beautiful perfect queen and they must worship you!!

 

[VoniLa]

how did your social skills become worse? what happend

 

[faithful]

i just ask alot of open ended questions and let people rant. that got me most of my friends

 

[Zyrrak]

I used to be very popular and could easily make friends but over time my social skills have gotten worse and worse and im losing friends, connections, along with not being able to make new ones when the opportunity is given. I have somewhat held up romantically these past few years but idk its getting worse and if this keeps up I’ll die alone

Same exact thing happening to me. I hope we won't die losing all our relationships

 

[lmrz.]

I used to be very popular and could easily make friends but over time my social skills have gotten worse and worse and im losing friends, connections, along with not being able to make new ones when the opportunity is given. I have somewhat held up romantically these past few years but idk its getting worse and if this keeps up I’ll die alone

get therapy

 

[limo8]

get therapy

3rd time see you saying it ig com needs help

 

[dolphinn]

Just socialize

Wow thanks

 

[dolphinn]

Throughout primary school I was very loud and bratty and had many friends. After we ledt the uk and mvoed to the Nethetlands I too had a phase like this. I experienced what it was like to be the backround charachter, I was quiet and reserved and could not build bonds or connections. I chose self isolation over interaction. It shocked me how I went from having everything to abseloutely fuck all.

When middle school started, I knew I couldn't risk being some ND freak. And now i'm popular again and my snapchat list if full of these friends at school. I'm 15 so idk how well this'll help, but the main thing you need to do is observe. Figure out who you want to be friends with and how to appeal to people like that, also learn to loosen up.

Stop overthinking every interaction, if you know you have something good, funny, interesting to say then blurt it out. Ask questions always force yourself to ask questions. Take advice from other women (assuming you are one) and give them advice too, let them borrow shit, borrow shit from them. Build subtle bonds and connections. Be someone's safe person. And slowly but surely everybody will gravitate towards you because you're a lovely beautiful perfect queen and they must worship you!!

Already doing this but its more like im starting to care less and less about people

 

[dolphinn]

how did your social skills become worse? what happend

Idek I still have a pretty large group of friends I hangout with daily and I go to functions its just idk smthings off and I can’t rlly have a convo with ppl and idk how to instigate a convo anymore and istg I have to fake every emotion for every interaction even with my closest friends like idk

 

[VoniLa]

Idek I still have a pretty large group of friends I hangout with daily and I go to functions its just idk smthings off and I can’t rlly have a convo with ppl and idk how to instigate a convo anymore and istg I have to fake every emotion for every interaction even with my closest friends like idk

i advise you to start abusing benzos

 

[dolphinn]

i advise you to start abusing benzos

Its not that im nervous or anything n I alr do tm drugs

 

[eyeslikethesky777]

i didn't read anything
i have never ever found something as powerful as:::
venusian arts
it litteraly made me achieve heights i never dreamed of before

 

[eyeslikethesky777]

Venusian arts
by
Mystery

 

[dolphinn]

Venusian arts
by
Mystery

I have bitches just not friends

 

[eyeslikethesky777]

I have bitches just not friends

same rules apply actually

 

[raspadinha]

just talk n***a

 

[DonJuanDeMarco]

Idek I still have a pretty large group of friends I hangout with daily and I go to functions its just idk smthings off and I can’t rlly have a convo with ppl and idk how to instigate a convo anymore and istg I have to fake every emotion for every interaction even with my closest friends like idk

start being urself man
u don't have to perform to talk to ppl.
sometimes ur gonna piss someone off for being u, but thats ight. just be urself unapologetically and its gonna fix everything.
speak up n***a

 

[dolphinn]

same rules apply actually

I dont have to try as much to get girls

 

[dolphinn]

just talk n***a

No

 

[dolphinn]

start being urself man
u don't have to perform to talk to ppl.
sometimes ur gonna piss someone off for being u, but thats ight. just be urself unapologetically and its gonna fix everything.
speak up n***a

I genuinely think I've forgotten who I am like
I’ve lost all my personality idfk y and I kinda don’t care but like I do

 

[ragnarok787]

asking here how to socialize wont help