Something that hurts me

[ermhilol]

The only people who are attracted to me are people who don't know me

If they get to know me they dislike me

Or msbye it's that I dont notice the people around me? Mabye its all in my head???


I will never be more than my looks, my physical appearance will define my life and it hurts I hate it, I hate it so much I have not been doing well and I've been slipping I'm really lonely I don't know what to do

 

[Deleted Member 115357]

Or maybe you know the wrong people or people are attracted to you they're just too shy to say-so

 

[ermhilol]

people are attracted to you they're just too shy to say-so

It might be this to be honest I think alot of what I go through is just on my head

 

[Deleted Member 115357]

It might be this to be honest I think alot of what I go through is just on my head

just try to find something to do in your free time rather than sitting alone wiht ur thoughts

 

[übermenschgrimreaper]

The only people who are attracted to me are people who don't know me

If they get to know me they dislike me

Or msbye it's that I dont notice the people around me? Mabye its all in my head???


I will never be more than my looks, my physical appearance will define my life and it hurts I hate it, I hate it so much I have not been doing well and I've been slipping I'm really lonely I don't know what to do

thats a skill issue so its ur personality or traits

 

[vastumevasatyam]

Man there is no true self what do you think humans are these beings with a permanent self, we are not. We are like vending machines, coins are the epigenetic factors, your machanics are genetic. The way you are or the way you act is all real and your true self.

You should rephrase it as something like I don't feel comfortable with my actions I do around these certain people or when I do these sets of actions I usually do or enjoy people stop liking me. It's more correct and removes the spiritual or bro physcology side you were giving it.

And fuck you man. You can easily solve these problems if you know the exact cause. Work on your metacognition, understand what is the root cause, and finally fix it. Simple as that. Love you