Experience Status is often more important than looks (stay with me now)

[girlfailure]

My friends are always hating on my boyfriend. Mostly, they call him ugly. Is he ugly? No, he’s objectively average facially. But the thing is:

He’s not popular. He gets harassed, a lot of people consider him weird, he dresses kinda emo. Now theres a guy that a lot of girls like. He’s funny, popular, and also ugly. He’s recessed, has acne, he’s below average height, his hair is always messy and is just not very nice to look at. If he had been raised differently, or was on the spectrum, or had some other hindrance that led him to not be popular he would be considered ugly, girls wouldn’t like him and he would probably die alone.

What this thread is actually going to focus on is my friends and other women. My friends obviously care about status more than looks. Many women (like me) will end up falling for a guy who isn’t very popular, but their friends and women online will convince them that they deserve “better”, even though they’re happy with that guy. My friends who are the same in terms of status as me and my bf, chase men who are above them in status, like the guy i had mentioned earlier.

 

[Kaligula567]

talles from @shizuku1111 asylum



@alurmo @glamourpursuer @sigma

 

[N30N]

My friends are always hating on my boyfriend. Mostly, they call him ugly. Is he ugly? No, he’s objectively average facially. But the thing is:

He’s not popular. He gets harassed, a lot of people consider him weird, he dresses kinda emo. Now theres a guy that a lot of girls like. He’s funny, popular, and also ugly. He’s recessed, has acne, he’s below average height, his hair is always messy and is just not very nice to look at. If he had been raised differently, or was on the spectrum, or had some other hindrance that led him to not be popular he would be considered ugly, girls wouldn’t like him and he would probably die alone.

What this thread is actually going to focus on is my friends and other women. My friends obviously care about status more than looks. Many women (like me) will end up falling for a guy who isn’t very popular, but their friends and women online will convince them that they deserve “better”, even though they’re happy with that guy. My friends who are the same in terms of status as me and my bf, chase men who are above them in status, like the guy i had mentioned earlier.

It really does depend on certain circumstances and setting. There are worse looking people than me that get attention and have girlfriends, but are statusmaxxed like crazy. Overall, looks > status cannot be disputed as a rule, but there are exceptions.

 

[sigma]

talles from @shizuku1111 asylum

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@alurmo @glamourpursuer @sigma

stop tagging me
i may be a bird but let me be free of the shackles of the tag noti
only tag me if its emergency or something

 

[sigma]

My friends are always hating on my boyfriend. Mostly, they call him ugly. Is he ugly? No, he’s objectively average facially. But the thing is:

He’s not popular. He gets harassed, a lot of people consider him weird, he dresses kinda emo. Now theres a guy that a lot of girls like. He’s funny, popular, and also ugly. He’s recessed, has acne, he’s below average height, his hair is always messy and is just not very nice to look at. If he had been raised differently, or was on the spectrum, or had some other hindrance that led him to not be popular he would be considered ugly, girls wouldn’t like him and he would probably die alone.

What this thread is actually going to focus on is my friends and other women. My friends obviously care about status more than looks. Many women (like me) will end up falling for a guy who isn’t very popular, but their friends and women online will convince them that they deserve “better”, even though they’re happy with that guy. My friends who are the same in terms of status as me and my bf, chase men who are above them in status, like the guy i had mentioned earlier.

water

 

[N30N]

water

Although this is, everything is water to you.

 

[sigma]

Although this is, everything is water to you.

water all around me

 

[Whitepill]

You literally just described how it isn’t. Face is more important

 

[Incognito]

My friends are always hating on my boyfriend. Mostly, they call him ugly. Is he ugly? No, he’s objectively average facially. But the thing is:

He’s not popular. He gets harassed, a lot of people consider him weird, he dresses kinda emo. Now theres a guy that a lot of girls like. He’s funny, popular, and also ugly. He’s recessed, has acne, he’s below average height, his hair is always messy and is just not very nice to look at. If he had been raised differently, or was on the spectrum, or had some other hindrance that led him to not be popular he would be considered ugly, girls wouldn’t like him and he would probably die alone.

What this thread is actually going to focus on is my friends and other women. My friends obviously care about status more than looks. Many women (like me) will end up falling for a guy who isn’t very popular, but their friends and women online will convince them that they deserve “better”, even though they’re happy with that guy. My friends who are the same in terms of status as me and my bf, chase men who are above them in status, like the guy i had mentioned earlier.

Status matters so much because it's part of women's hypergamous nature; most women tend to want to date someone who is above their own level. I would even go as far as to say that the only reason looks matter, or the biggest reason, is because they contribute to a person's status.

 

[ratedLTN]

Not staying with you

 

[girlfailure]

You literally just described how it isn’t. Face is more important

this is literally an experience

 

[girlfailure]

Status matters so much because it's part of women's hypergamous nature; most women tend to want to date someone who is above their own level. I would even go as far as to say that the only reason looks matter, or the biggest reason, is because they contribute to a person's status.

^^^

 

[girlfailure]

It really does depend on certain circumstances and setting. There are worse looking people than me that get attention and have girlfriends, but are statusmaxxed like crazy. Overall, looks > status cannot be disputed as a rule, but there are exceptions.

id say once you get out of school looks definitely trumps status

 

[N30N]

id say once you get out of school looks definitely trumps status

They always did, but social status does have merit in younger years.

 

[osteochondromyxoma]

My friends are always hating on my boyfriend. Mostly, they call him ugly. Is he ugly? No, he’s objectively average facially. But the thing is:

He’s not popular. He gets harassed, a lot of people consider him weird, he dresses kinda emo. Now theres a guy that a lot of girls like. He’s funny, popular, and also ugly. He’s recessed, has acne, he’s below average height, his hair is always messy and is just not very nice to look at. If he had been raised differently, or was on the spectrum, or had some other hindrance that led him to not be popular he would be considered ugly, girls wouldn’t like him and he would probably die alone.

What this thread is actually going to focus on is my friends and other women. My friends obviously care about status more than looks. Many women (like me) will end up falling for a guy who isn’t very popular, but their friends and women online will convince them that they deserve “better”, even though they’re happy with that guy. My friends who are the same in terms of status as me and my bf, chase men who are above them in status, like the guy i had mentioned earlier.

 

[osteochondromyxoma]

id say once you get out of school looks definitely trumps status

I disagree, Looks matters more in school because girls have lower standards for finances, status, house, etc. They can just freely date based on height, Looks, race(although this is tricky). Later on standards will also include finances and status because they are at an adult age meaning these things become relevant and more important.

 

[Wilk]

Living worrying about status of someone is to have a rooted inside. I don't want to date gold diggers or sexual addicted person. I am more worried about my own "spiritual" healthyness.
Staying away from people help. People are almost all toxic.

 

[alan777]

Redpill cope.
Status only matters if it's insane (famous level). You may be seeing your boyfriend with higher looks than reality because you are in love.

 

[alan777]

Living worrying about status of someone is to have a rooted inside. I don't want to date gold diggers or sexual addicted person. I am more worried about my own "spiritual" healthyness.
Staying away from people help. People are almost all toxic.

U could say the same about people dating/judging by looks (in this case everyone does it even unconsciously)

 

[alan777]

Status matters so much because it's part of women's hypergamous nature; most women tend to want to date someone who is above their own level. I would even go as far as to say that the only reason looks matter, or the biggest reason, is because they contribute to a person's status.

Basically admitting that your looks are your status

 

[Incognito]

Basically admitting that your looks are your status

it’d be naïve to claim my looks aren’t part of my status, just like it would be foolish to believe that if I were a millionaire, people liked me solely for my personality and not my money. Sure, some people don’t care about status, but they’re a rare minority, almost nonexistent.

 

[alan777]

it’d be naïve to claim my looks aren’t part of my status, just like it would be foolish to believe that if I were a millionaire, people liked me solely for my personality and not my money. Sure, some people don’t care about status, but they’re a rare minority, almost nonexistent.

status doesn't matter unless it's huge because your looks are your status when you are an average wage person or teen.
the only cases when status are separated from your looks is when you are millonare or famous.
So basically OP's boyfriend is probably ugly.

 

[Incognito]

status doesn't matter unless it's huge because your looks are your status when you are an average wage person or teen.
the only cases when status are separated from your looks is when you are millonare or famous.
So basically OP's boyfriend is probably ugly.

Status isn’t just about looks, bro. It’s a much broader concept. Are you saying that when you were a teen, the only people at your school with a high status were good looking teens? That’s bullshit.

 

[Whitepill]

this is literally an experience

Your experience is cope

 

[Dandelions]

Since when did you get a boyfriend, i’m gonna rope??

 

[Whitepill]

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GPT maxxed answer, still correct. Status doesn't exist

 

[Ceisriel]

being a loner does certainly detract at least 4 points from your market value and how others perceive you as a human

 

[rand anon]

U can’t develop status anyways unless u hve the right personality traits and/or looks

It always comes back to genetics

 

[Neil Patrick Harris]

Oh-ho, I see what you’re saying, and trust me, I’m with you. Status > Looks? You’re speaking my language. I mean, take it from a guy who’s suited up 24/7—looks are great, but when you walk into a room, and everyone knows who you are? That’s a whole other level of power. You don’t need perfect cheekbones if your name does the heavy lifting for you.

Status? That’s like your VIP pass to life. It’s about who you are, what you’ve done, and how you carry yourself. It’s the "I could show up in sweatpants, but you’ll still respect me" energy.

So yeah, you’re absolutely right. Looks might get you in the door, but status is what lets you own the room. Now if you can combine both? Well, you’re basically me—and that's just unfair to the rest of humanity.

 

[Whitepill]

Oh-ho, I see what you’re saying, and trust me, I’m with you. Status > Looks? You’re speaking my language. I mean, take it from a guy who’s suited up 24/7—looks are great, but when you walk into a room, and everyone knows who you are? That’s a whole other level of power. You don’t need perfect cheekbones if your name does the heavy lifting for you.

Status? That’s like your VIP pass to life. It’s about who you are, what you’ve done, and how you carry yourself. It’s the "I could show up in sweatpants, but you’ll still respect me" energy.

So yeah, you’re absolutely right. Looks might get you in the door, but status is what lets you own the room. Now if you can combine both? Well, you’re basically me—and that's just unfair to the rest of humanity.

Cope

 

[cookie-cel]

Oh-ho, I see what you’re saying, and trust me, I’m with you. Status > Looks? You’re speaking my language. I mean, take it from a guy who’s suited up 24/7—looks are great, but when you walk into a room, and everyone knows who you are? That’s a whole other level of power. You don’t need perfect cheekbones if your name does the heavy lifting for you.

Status? That’s like your VIP pass to life. It’s about who you are, what you’ve done, and how you carry yourself. It’s the "I could show up in sweatpants, but you’ll still respect me" energy.

So yeah, you’re absolutely right. Looks might get you in the door, but status is what lets you own the room. Now if you can combine both? Well, you’re basically me—and that's just unfair to the rest of humanity.

Agreed , you definitely have that charm you speak of.

 

[TonyTheLooksmaxxDR]

Yeah social skills is a better term than status. Status means money and only gold diggers go for men with status because they want the money and material things from these men

Social skills are important

 

[rand anon]

u can’t get it without the right genetics anyways

 

[girlfailure]

Since when did you get a boyfriend, i’m gonna rope??

september 19th

 

[Dandelions]

september 19th

How did you guys meet and escalate

 

[girlfailure]

How did you guys meet and escalate

we technically met in health class last school year, but we didnt really talk.

i told him i liked his pants over snap and he texted me good morning the next morning. it turned out we had mutual friends (which i didnt know) and he had liked me for a while.

 

[N30N]

we technically met in health class last school year, but we didnt really talk.

i told him i liked his pants over snap and he texted me good morning the next morning. it turned out we had mutual friends (which i didnt know) and he had liked me for a while.

Jumped to the snap real quick, eh?

 

[Dandelions]

Jumped to the snap real quick, eh?

Don’t mean to be weird but I bet their saved chats and snaps are beyond diabolical

 

[girlfailure]

Don’t mean to be weird but I bet their saved chats and snaps are beyond diabolical

?

 

[Dandelions]

?

I won’t specify

 

[aguachento]

Oh-ho, I see what you’re saying, and trust me, I’m with you. Status > Looks? You’re speaking my language. I mean, take it from a guy who’s suited up 24/7—looks are great, but when you walk into a room, and everyone knows who you are? That’s a whole other level of power. You don’t need perfect cheekbones if your name does the heavy lifting for you.

Status? That’s like your VIP pass to life. It’s about who you are, what you’ve done, and how you carry yourself. It’s the "I could show up in sweatpants, but you’ll still respect me" energy.

So yeah, you’re absolutely right. Looks might get you in the door, but status is what lets you own the room. Now if you can combine both? Well, you’re basically me—and that's just unfair to the rest of humanity.

I agree with this and it is valid if you are a super sports star or a super famous person.

but then what many do not understand, is that physical appearance is one more element of status.

 

[Prismatic]

My friends are always hating on my boyfriend. Mostly, they call him ugly. Is he ugly? No, he’s objectively average facially. But the thing is:

He’s not popular. He gets harassed, a lot of people consider him weird, he dresses kinda emo. Now theres a guy that a lot of girls like. He’s funny, popular, and also ugly. He’s recessed, has acne, he’s below average height, his hair is always messy and is just not very nice to look at. If he had been raised differently, or was on the spectrum, or had some other hindrance that led him to not be popular he would be considered ugly, girls wouldn’t like him and he would probably die alone.

What this thread is actually going to focus on is my friends and other women. My friends obviously care about status more than looks. Many women (like me) will end up falling for a guy who isn’t very popular, but their friends and women online will convince them that they deserve “better”, even though they’re happy with that guy. My friends who are the same in terms of status as me and my bf, chase men who are above them in status, like the guy i had mentioned earlier.

Every person who disagrees with this has a mental disorder. It is obvious status is most important. For example, dreads are mostly dirty, ugly, etc.. except for really good ones, but they have status so now everyone wants their nonchalant dreadhead. Not too long ago, light skins were the ideal of the black community, right now it is either brown/dark skins due to status. This applies to height as well, do you think every single girl suddenly started to care about height differences at once? Other girls want it, so the girls compete to achieve their "deserved superiority over other girls".not to mention the fact that a lot of the first things a girl does once she has chad is post him and flex him to her friends in an attempt to boost her own status.

 

[Prismatic]

Every person who disagrees with this has a mental disorder. It is obvious status is most important. For example, dreads are mostly dirty, ugly, etc.. except for really good ones, but they have status so now everyone wants their nonchalant dreadhead. Not too long ago, light skins were the ideal of the black community, right now it is either brown/dark skins due to status. This applies to height as well, do you think every single girl suddenly started to care about height differences at once? Other girls want it, so the girls compete to achieve their "deserved superiority over other girls".not to mention the fact that a lot of the first things a girl does once she has chad is post him and flex him to her friends in an attempt to boost her own status.

The whole height flexing scenario on social media is just as much as a dig to girl's who are unable to get their 6'4 man as it is to the average 5'9 man.

 

[Prismatic]

For example, Jude Bellingham is literally a high mtn, but is treated like heaven's child on social media. You can literally find 100000 mulattos who look exactly like him or better in a sample of 500k. What differentiates him from his million lookalikes?

 

[flatchecksback12]

My friends are always hating on my boyfriend. Mostly, they call him ugly. Is he ugly? No, he’s objectively average facially. But the thing is:

He’s not popular. He gets harassed, a lot of people consider him weird, he dresses kinda emo. Now theres a guy that a lot of girls like. He’s funny, popular, and also ugly. He’s recessed, has acne, he’s below average height, his hair is always messy and is just not very nice to look at. If he had been raised differently, or was on the spectrum, or had some other hindrance that led him to not be popular he would be considered ugly, girls wouldn’t like him and he would probably die alone.

What this thread is actually going to focus on is my friends and other women. My friends obviously care about status more than looks. Many women (like me) will end up falling for a guy who isn’t very popular, but their friends and women online will convince them that they deserve “better”, even though they’re happy with that guy. My friends who are the same in terms of status as me and my bf, chase men who are above them in status, like the guy i had mentioned earlier.

IMO It’s all halo effect, so some stereotypes depends on your looks maybe clothing style or even speech so people forming your image in their mind