Lifefuel / Motivation Take the whitepill

[over0]

I've noticed alot of forum users put relationships and sex on a pedestal and don't get me wrong sure it's important but you guys overreact about it so much that you become irrational. You rush into these relationships or hook ups and you forget how to be alone, you dread it and you lose yourself. Whenever the time comes you don't know what to do, your expectations were to high

Alot of you guys are teenagers still, you will (probably) find someone, you will meet many more people.

Focus on yourself in every way (health, looks, personality, intelligence and morals) So that when the times comes you're ready, so you can make money so you don't HAVE to have that relationship to be happy, make friends and spend time with family.

Learn to control your emotions because they can make or break you. Learn to treat someone right in everyway so when you do get that relationship they stay

Don't settle for less thinking that's all youre worth, improve yourself so you can get better

 

[over0]

Dnr r****d + copium

 

[Night]

Aurafarm.
Seek benefits.

 

[BlendedBulge]

Finally good thread

 

[Ghoultune]

Cool I hope I can drive a pink car

 

[over0]

Cool I hope I can drive a pink car

If you take the whitepill sure

 

[RAD]

not so easy when all your friends are in relationships

 

[Jeezy]

DNR but I will give gold anyways

 

[Night]

DNR but I will give gold anyways

Give what you want to be given

 

[Ghoultune]

Cool I hope I can drive a pink car

Dont fucking ogre me bastards!

 

[over0]

Give what you want to be given

Deep shit

 

[Paolo Maldini]

Just shut up and kiss me

 

[over0]

Just shut up and kiss me

Rep me f****t

 

[Paolo Maldini]

Rep me f****t

give me a kiss first

 

[ΑDAM]

I've noticed alot of forum users put relationships and sex on a pedestal and don't get me wrong sure it's important but you guys overreact about it so much that you become irrational. You rush into these relationships or hook ups and you forget how to be alone, you dread it and you lose yourself. Whenever the time comes you don't know what to do, your expectations were to high

Alot of you guys are teenagers still, you will (probably) find someone, you will meet many more people.

Focus on yourself in every way (health, looks, personality, intelligence and morals) So that when the times comes you're ready, so you can make money so you don't HAVE to have that relationship to be happy, make friends and spend time with family.

Learn to control your emotions because they can make or break you. Learn to treat someone right in everyway so when you do get that relationship they stay

Don't settle for less thinking that's all youre worth, improve yourself so you can get better

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actually a good thread well done niglet

 

[Paolo Maldini]

give me a kiss first

@over0 still waiting btw

 

[MingyuePalaceRuinedMyLife]

I've noticed alot of forum users put relationships and sex on a pedestal and don't get me wrong sure it's important but you guys overreact about it so much that you become irrational. You rush into these relationships or hook ups and you forget how to be alone, you dread it and you lose yourself. Whenever the time comes you don't know what to do, your expectations were to high

Alot of you guys are teenagers still, you will (probably) find someone, you will meet many more people.

Focus on yourself in every way (health, looks, personality, intelligence and morals) So that when the times comes you're ready, so you can make money so you don't HAVE to have that relationship to be happy, make friends and spend time with family.

Learn to control your emotions because they can make or break you. Learn to treat someone right in everyway so when you do get that relationship they stay

Don't settle for less thinking that's all youre worth, improve yourself so you can get better

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Take the you want a relationship because youre lonely and have 0 close friends or social system pill

 

[apatheia]

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Take the you want a relationship because youre lonely and have 0 close friends or social system pill

It is okay to not be in a relationship, but I recommend everyone to have at least 1 good friend.

 

[apatheia]

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I've noticed alot of forum users put relationships and sex on a pedestal and don't get me wrong sure it's important but you guys overreact about it so much that you become irrational. You rush into these relationships or hook ups and you forget how to be alone, you dread it and you lose yourself. Whenever the time comes you don't know what to do, your expectations were to high

Alot of you guys are teenagers still, you will (probably) find someone, you will meet many more people.

Focus on yourself in every way (health, looks, personality, intelligence and morals) So that when the times comes you're ready, so you can make money so you don't HAVE to have that relationship to be happy, make friends and spend time with family.

Learn to control your emotions because they can make or break you. Learn to treat someone right in everyway so when you do get that relationship they stay

Don't settle for less thinking that's all youre worth, improve yourself so you can get better

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Someone pin this thread, too many doomers who barely even try and expect their lives to get better out of the blue here.

 

[over0]

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Someone pin this thread, too many doomers who barely even try and expect their lives to get better out of the blue here.

@Randomized Shame
You heard tbh

 

[Nenestar]

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It is okay to not be in a relationship, but I recommend everyone to have at least 1 good friend.

IMO you don't need a friend if you have a partner (she will be your friend).

Also friends don't give you the benefits you get from a relationship, and it's not even comparable.

 

[Paolo Maldini]

@over0 still waiting btw

Over for chudlites @twinkdestroyer

 

[over0]

IMO you don't need a friend if you have a partner (she will be your friend).

Also friends don't give you the benefits you get from a relationship, and it's not even comparable.

Ideally have both but they're more important to have during earlier stages in life

 

[emeraldpilled]

dnr going to ONS every weekend for the rest of the year and if i don’t i’ll kill myself

 

[Randomized Shame]

@Randomized Shame
You heard tbh

I thought I was on .org for a moment being asked to pin posts.

 

[Paolo Maldini]

Alright I’ll just give the rep

 

[apatheia]

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IMO you don't need a friend if you have a partner (she will be your friend).

Also friends don't give you the benefits you get from a relationship, and it's not even comparable.

@over0 @Nenestar

Because there is essentially a zero effect size on looks for making friends.

If you have a good friend (and I can elaborate what determines that) and a relationship does not work out you still have a good friend to fall back to, keep you afloat and not in your own head. Someone to keep you in check.

Of course there are big benefits for being in a relationship, but those seem more likely to be unstable than real genuine friendships.

And if you never get into a relationship, at least you have someone you like to be around and can socialize and share your ideas with.

 

[Nenestar]

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@over0 @Nenestar

Because there is essentially a zero effect size on looks for making friends.

If you have a good friend (and I can elaborate what determines that) and a relationship does not work out you still have a good friend to fall back to, keep you afloat and not in your own head. Someone to keep you in check.

Of course there are big benefits for being in a relationship, but those seem more likely to be unstable than real genuine friendships.

And if you never get into a relationship, at least you have someone you like to be around and can socialize and share your ideas with.

This is quixotic, imo. Your friends will also find relationships and spend less time with you as you get older. Building a family, having someone around you is just something way more.

Friend is not enough, and not all that. At least for me.

 

[Deleted Member 82170]

Didnt you say you were 14 or sth lol. Good thread regardless.

 

[over0]

Didnt you say you were 14 or sth lol.

14 is crazy I'm 16 soon

 

[Deleted Member 82170]

14 16

Wow crazy difference

 

[over0]

Wow crazy difference

I mean most of ur development is teen years so kinda but it does sound retarded

 

[Blackpillirony]

I've noticed alot of forum users put relationships and sex on a pedestal and don't get me wrong sure it's important but you guys overreact about it so much that you become irrational. You rush into these relationships or hook ups and you forget how to be alone, you dread it and you lose yourself. Whenever the time comes you don't know what to do, your expectations were to high

Alot of you guys are teenagers still, you will (probably) find someone, you will meet many more people.

Focus on yourself in every way (health, looks, personality, intelligence and morals) So that when the times comes you're ready, so you can make money so you don't HAVE to have that relationship to be happy, make friends and spend time with family.

Learn to control your emotions because they can make or break you. Learn to treat someone right in everyway so when you do get that relationship they stay

Don't settle for less thinking that's all youre worth, improve yourself so you can get better

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Yeah I've thought about that but I still long for a romantic human connection

 

[pepelkant]

Relationships are overrated anyways, i found it way more chill and progressive mentaly and physically to be alone by yourself and your thoughts, im almost on some nietzsche shit

 

[over0]

Yeah I've thought about that but I still long for a romantic human connection

It's natural but don't put it above yourself ever

 

[Blackpillirony]

It's natural but don't put it above yourself ever

Cant I do both tho ? Improve and still seek for another soul to adore ?

 

[over0]

Cant I do both tho ? Improve and still seek for another soul to adore ?

Sure my point is don't get obsessed over it and don't let people disrespect you

 

[Blackpillirony]

Sure my point is don't get obsessed over it and don't let people disrespect you

Brutal true hopefuel

 

[Randomized Shame]

This is quixotic, imo. Your friends will also find relationships and spend less time with you as you get older. Building a family, having someone around you is just something way more.

Friend is not enough, and not all that. At least for me.

Personally, I agree with you, I think "partner" relationships are platonic, sexual and romantic in nature, where friends and family is mainly just platonic. It will naturally create a more fulfilling relationship long-term than a "friend" relationship might.

I think the reason why the mindset of focusing on that difference is deemed as unhealthy is because people don't really understand that difference shouldn't effect how you behave or seek out relationships (of all kinds). When you make yourself open to all relationships, and actually allow yourself to enjoy them for what they are instead of focusing on what they're not, you're going to be happier overall.

It's also not going to dramatically make you a different person; it may feel more fulfilling, but if you're a shitty person it doesn't matter if it's more fulfilling. If you can't even focus on yourself, then why would someone else? Nobody is going to invest into you like you would have to invest into yourself to get what you want in life.

 

[BigDihDiddy]

I've noticed alot of forum users put relationships and sex on a pedestal and don't get me wrong sure it's important but you guys overreact about it so much that you become irrational. You rush into these relationships or hook ups and you forget how to be alone, you dread it and you lose yourself. Whenever the time comes you don't know what to do, your expectations were to high

Alot of you guys are teenagers still, you will (probably) find someone, you will meet many more people.

Focus on yourself in every way (health, looks, personality, intelligence and morals) So that when the times comes you're ready, so you can make money so you don't HAVE to have that relationship to be happy, make friends and spend time with family.

Learn to control your emotions because they can make or break you. Learn to treat someone right in everyway so when you do get that relationship they stay

Don't settle for less thinking that's all youre worth, improve yourself so you can get better

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Nah tbh for an incel I’m very independent and I’m so low T I won’t put any work into getting a gf

 

[masochist]

I've noticed alot of forum users put relationships and sex on a pedestal and don't get me wrong sure it's important but you guys overreact about it so much that you become irrational. You rush into these relationships or hook ups and you forget how to be alone, you dread it and you lose yourself. Whenever the time comes you don't know what to do, your expectations were to high

Alot of you guys are teenagers still, you will (probably) find someone, you will meet many more people.

Focus on yourself in every way (health, looks, personality, intelligence and morals) So that when the times comes you're ready, so you can make money so you don't HAVE to have that relationship to be happy, make friends and spend time with family.

Learn to control your emotions because they can make or break you. Learn to treat someone right in everyway so when you do get that relationship they stay

Don't settle for less thinking that's all youre worth, improve yourself so you can get better

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it’s always worth going insane

 

[masochist]

Personally, I agree with you, I think "partner" relationships are platonic, sexual and romantic in nature, where friends and family is mainly just platonic. It will naturally create a more fulfilling relationship long-term than a "friend" relationship might.

I think the reason why the mindset of focusing on that difference is deemed as unhealthy is because people don't really understand that difference shouldn't effect how you behave or seek out relationships (of all kinds). When you make yourself open to all relationships, and actually allow yourself to enjoy them for what they are instead of focusing on what they're not, you're going to be happier overall.

It's also not going to dramatically make you a different person; it may feel more fulfilling, but if you're a shitty person it doesn't matter if it's more fulfilling. If you can't even focus on yourself, then why would someone else? Nobody is going to invest into you like you would have to invest into yourself to get what you want in life.

nothing to see here, just randomized shame aura farming like usual

 

[apatheia]

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[apatheia]

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This thread should have been pinned instead of Wsada's Charlie Kirk thread.

 

[over0]

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This thread should have been pinned instead of Wsada's Charlie Kirk thread.

Don't scare me like that

 

[apatheia]

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Don't scare me like that

?

 

[over0]

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I thought you were joking holy fuck

 

[apatheia]

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I thought you were joking holy fuck

50/50. It is off-topic anyways, so the Charlie Kirk assassination is on topic.

 

[Deleted Member 71100]

I've noticed alot of forum users put relationships and sex on a pedestal and don't get me wrong sure it's important but you guys overreact about it so much that you become irrational. You rush into these relationships or hook ups and you forget how to be alone, you dread it and you lose yourself. Whenever the time comes you don't know what to do, your expectations were to high

Alot of you guys are teenagers still, you will (probably) find someone, you will meet many more people.

Focus on yourself in every way (health, looks, personality, intelligence and morals) So that when the times comes you're ready, so you can make money so you don't HAVE to have that relationship to be happy, make friends and spend time with family.

Learn to control your emotions because they can make or break you. Learn to treat someone right in everyway so when you do get that relationship they stay

Don't settle for less thinking that's all youre worth, improve yourself so you can get better

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Dnr r****d + copium

 

[Jeezy]

Dnr r****d + copium

Me when my niece and nephew are fighting