Vire
not chasing perfection
- Joined
- Aug 3, 2025
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I got close with this girl who was interested in me first, we made out and cuddled, and she was clearly into it but after that I got insecure in person, started acting awkward, avoiding eye contact and talking less, which made her think I was losing interest. so now she’s dry over text and barely adds anything to conversations, even though she’s friendly with everyone else. I feel like I’m putting in all the effort while she gives the bare minimum, and it’s getting annoying because her mixed signals and low effort make it feel one sided, so I’m not sure whether to pull back or stop taking her seriously altogether.