Hypothesis The abused abuse when they have nothing to lose

[bananamansam]

It is a common sentiment that "the abused become abusers"
I think that a lot of the time abused people who go on to abuse others have literally nothing left in life.
Would abused people become abusers if they had good lives? Well obviously not , but what I mean when I say this , is that people who are abused often have nothing to lose , a lot of them become criminals and end up going to prison. Why? Because they have nothing to lose.
I think that with abused people , they might want to either "be tough" with people or "treat vulnerable people kinder" since they were once a vulnerable person. If you have nothing to lose , if you are dirt poor , you kind of have to adopt this "tough person" persona. I dont mean that as in "acting tough" or trying to look "scary". People who have less to lose are more likely to manipulate , gaslight , rob you , betray you etc. They are more likely to have sociopathic and machiavellism tendencies.
Fucking people over can also give abused dogs a sense of power , since they have been traumatized , they might feel like a pussy if they never traumatize anyone back. Thats why a lot of people who were molested as children go on to molest children themselves etc. Why would these people do this? Well , because they feel powerless and they have nothing to lose since their lives are miserable , they want to feel a bit better about themselves for once in their lives and so when they can hurt others in the same way they were hurt it makes them feel less weak for getting hurted in the past. Abused people usually only abuse when they dont have any sense of power.
If your an abused dog the only thing you can do to stop being an abused dog is to become powerful , mog everyone , if your an abused dog and there is nothing you mog at its over for you , you have to mog 99% of people at something , anything to cope.
Also , abused dogs are very insecure people , they are more likely to lash out at perceived threats. Understand that this violent nature that they could have have is not because of sadism or something like that. It is a defense mechanism to prevent them from ever feeling feelings of inferiority again.
The abused must be loved. If you have C/PTSD and you dont have people who truly love you by your side then its over for you. Either you cope or you rope , and often times the copes that these people use can be very destructive not just to themselves but to others.
An abused dog can cope by becoming strong or feeling more powerful than others
But the best cure for abused dog syndrome is someone who truly loves and accepts you and tries to understand you.

TLDR: If your an abused dog with C/PTSD you need to find true love because if you get into a relationship with someone who doesnt truly love you , or if you never find that person , your best option is honestly to rope because if you dont rope you will just keep coping until you die or you will most likely self destruct and you might hurt others in the process

 

[drchad]

Ngl dnr but i liked the first sentence seems intelligent

 

[submissivechud]

It is a common sentiment that "the abused become abusers"
I think that a lot of the time abused people who go on to abuse others have literally nothing left in life.
Would abused people become abusers if they had good lives? Well obviously not , but what I mean when I say this , is that people who are abused often have nothing to lose , a lot of them become criminals and end up going to prison. Why? Because they have nothing to lose.
I think that with abused people , they might want to either "be tough" with people or "treat vulnerable people kinder" since they were once a vulnerable person. If you have nothing to lose , if you are dirt poor , you kind of have to adopt this "tough person" persona. I dont mean that as in "acting tough" or trying to look "scary". People who have less to lose are more likely to manipulate , gaslight , rob you , betray you etc. They are more likely to have sociopathic and machiavellism tendencies.
Fucking people over can also give abused dogs a sense of power , since they have been traumatized , they might feel like a pussy if they never traumatize anyone back. Thats why a lot of people who were molested as children go on to molest children themselves etc. Why would these people do this? Well , because they feel powerless and they have nothing to lose since their lives are miserable , they want to feel a bit better about themselves for once in their lives and so when they can hurt others in the same way they were hurt it makes them feel less weak for getting hurted in the past. Abused people usually only abuse when they dont have any sense of power.
If your an abused dog the only thing you can do to stop being an abused dog is to become powerful , mog everyone , if your an abused dog and there is nothing you mog at its over for you , you have to mog 99% of people at something , anything to cope.
Also , abused dogs are very insecure people , they are more likely to lash out at perceived threats. Understand that this violent nature that they could have have is not because of sadism or something like that. It is a defense mechanism to prevent them from ever feeling feelings of inferiority again.
The abused must be loved. If you have C/PTSD and you dont have people who truly love you by your side then its over for you. Either you cope or you rope , and often times the copes that these people use can be very destructive not just to themselves but to others.
An abused dog can cope by becoming strong or feeling more powerful than others
But the only true cure for abused dog syndrome is someone who truly loves you.

TLDR: If your an abused dog with C/PTSD you need to find true love because if you get into a relationship with someone who doesnt truly love you , or if you never find that person , your best option is honestly to rope because if you dont rope you will most likely self destruct and you might hurt others in the process

dnr
title made u sound smart tho

 

[Cat.]

It is a common sentiment that "the abused become abusers"
I think that a lot of the time abused people who go on to abuse others have literally nothing left in life.
Would abused people become abusers if they had good lives? Well obviously not , but what I mean when I say this , is that people who are abused often have nothing to lose , a lot of them become criminals and end up going to prison. Why? Because they have nothing to lose.
I think that with abused people , they might want to either "be tough" with people or "treat vulnerable people kinder" since they were once a vulnerable person. If you have nothing to lose , if you are dirt poor , you kind of have to adopt this "tough person" persona. I dont mean that as in "acting tough" or trying to look "scary". People who have less to lose are more likely to manipulate , gaslight , rob you , betray you etc. They are more likely to have sociopathic and machiavellism tendencies.
Fucking people over can also give abused dogs a sense of power , since they have been traumatized , they might feel like a pussy if they never traumatize anyone back. Thats why a lot of people who were molested as children go on to molest children themselves etc. Why would these people do this? Well , because they feel powerless and they have nothing to lose since their lives are miserable , they want to feel a bit better about themselves for once in their lives and so when they can hurt others in the same way they were hurt it makes them feel less weak for getting hurted in the past. Abused people usually only abuse when they dont have any sense of power.
If your an abused dog the only thing you can do to stop being an abused dog is to become powerful , mog everyone , if your an abused dog and there is nothing you mog at its over for you , you have to mog 99% of people at something , anything to cope.
Also , abused dogs are very insecure people , they are more likely to lash out at perceived threats. Understand that this violent nature that they could have have is not because of sadism or something like that. It is a defense mechanism to prevent them from ever feeling feelings of inferiority again.
The abused must be loved. If you have C/PTSD and you dont have people who truly love you by your side then its over for you. Either you cope or you rope , and often times the copes that these people use can be very destructive not just to themselves but to others.
An abused dog can cope by becoming strong or feeling more powerful than others
But the only true cure for abused dog syndrome is someone who truly loves you.

TLDR: If your an abused dog with C/PTSD you need to find true love because if you get into a relationship with someone who doesnt truly love you , or if you never find that person , your best option is honestly to rope because if you dont rope you will most likely self destruct and you might hurt others in the process

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